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I'm Johanna. I'll Come and Go. What can I say? I try.One thing I LOVE to do is to analyze dreams. Just tell me about a dream you had, and I'll help you understand what it means. :)
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Female. 13.
I'm mature for my age. Not boasting or whatever, it's just a wellknown fact for people who know me well. Well, I'm not talking about a relationship until marriage or whatever, but nothing between me and a boy ever lasts. I went to a Christian school for my whole life up until this year, so all the guys were to nerdy and weird to ask ANYONE out, so that kind of ruined it for me. I'm in 8th grade now and I go to a public school and a super big church. Guys always ask me for my number and stuff and we talk, but it never sticks. Mostly it's guys 15 and up, but, that's what I like because boys my age are grossly immature and little.
And, usually it's not my personality that makes it not stick, sometimes it's my age. When I was ten I'd have 15 year olds ask me out, then when they found out I was 10 they ignored me.
So, my question is, how can I make stuff last longer and how can I make people forget about my age?
Thanks :]
I understand EXACTLY! I'm 14, and I am attracted to older guys too. Sometimes 20 and older! It can seem odd to people, but I think it has to do with hormone levels. (It is a fact that girls mature faster than boys, which is why they fall for older guys!)
You will eventually find a great guy. Even though it may seem like it now, not all boys are going to stay immature. Once you get into 9th Grade, boys start maturing more.
If someone doesn't want to be with you because or your age, then forget them! But I also have to warn you that there are older guys out there who are going to try to take advantage of you. (I have experienced this firsthand.) You have to be extra careful.
If you can, try and wait a little while, who says you have to have a boyfriend right this second, anyways? Or, try to get to know a guy in your grade, even if they act goofy sometimes, theres often a whole other serious side to guys. (I found that out with one of my guy friends!)
Things will get better. If you respect yourself, and if guys know you're not desperate and that you're not going to give in to every demand, then someone is bond to fall for you soon. :]]
(Rating: 5) thanks! yeah i know it's sooo hard to find a guy our age thats not a complete idiot!!!