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ok it has been two years for me liking this guy we have went out and broke up several times... currently he is going out with this other girl and it is making me annoyed! I really don't want to like him anymore but i just can't stop and anyways i no for a fact that he likes me bc when i told him i liked him he asked me if i would ever go out with him after him and the other girl broke up...
what should i do about no likeing him anymore cause i really dont want to like him!!! please respond quickly

P.S. know i just cant let go ive been trying for 2 years!!!!!!!!!

Boys can say they love you 100 times, but they don't always mean it. I know this isn't what you want to hear but let me hit you with the truth. Once a couple breaks up, they can go out as many more times as they want, but the relationship is always going to end up over. Maybe 1 in 1000 relationships could stay together, but it's nearly impossible. If you guys broke up before, it was probably for the best. Remember, everything happens for a reason. I know it will be hard to let go and I'm not saying you HAVE to get over him, but it might be your best bet. Think about everything he's done to you and for you. Make a list with one column of all the good things about him, and the other column about the bad things about him. If you do it honestly and correct, if there's a lot more bad things than good things, I would really consider getting over him. Everyone deals with getting over people differently. For some people it helps if you hang out with your friends A LOT more, so you're not thinking about him. Also, if he has a screen name, I would block him and delete him off my buddylist if I were you. Why you ask? Because, if you read his away messages and talk to him online, there's a chance you might start liking him again because when you see that he just signed on, it might make you think of everything you've been through with him. It will also help you forget about him and get over him. I would delete his cell/house number off of your Contacts list on your cell. Once again, you might feel the urge to call him so if his number was off the list, it will help. I know you may still want to be friends with him, but I think if you want to get over him, you have to avoid him in everyway. If you talk to him, you might fall right back in love, so just ignore him at all times. There's not much else you can do, except maybe go to a party and friend some new guys to flirt with.

Take care, and I really hope I helped you. Please contact me in my inbox if you need further assistance.

~Isabella.

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(Rating: 5) thanks a bunch

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