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I really need help. My boyfriend of two years broke up with me a few weeks ago and it's getting really hard to handle. I knew that I'd be crying a lot and facing a lot of pain, I'm just in a really bad moment of pain.

I've been crying a lot every night because he has a new girlfriend and it really hurts to think about. I know that I should be talking to someone and I do have a really supportive family. I guess I'm asking if theres anything more that I could be doing at this point?

He had an away message talking about how much he loved his girlfriend and it set me off into depression. Can anyone help any further when it comes to dealing with a break-up?

First you should stop reading his away messages, and if it's too hard to keep yourself from reading his messages, then delete him, or at least hide him from your list altogether.


Keeping up with his life is only going to make you feel worse, as you've already found out. I know how much it sucks to be the one in the relationship who was dumped, and to see the other person move on first.

There is no reason why you need to have him on your list, I know it's easier said than done, but you really should consider taking him off of your list. It's not as if you'll never be able to talk to him again, or you'll never be able to know what he's doing in his life again, but for now, just try to ignore that he exists.


By the way, it's been a few weeks, and he's already "in love" with a new girl.

What an asshole.

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(Rating: 5) It's pretty obvious that I have to stop keeping track of what he's doing and instead of taking him off of my list, I got a new screen name and I'm starting over. Thank you.


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