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ok so this is part of a im that me and my bf had:

cutisammy:i think we should take somee timee off..
jeffinthe313:nope.
cutisammy:wut do you mean no? you cant just say no
jeffinthe313:i mean if we break up i will kill mi self so no
cutisammy:umm..sorry that you feel that way but uhh i really think we should have a break
jeffinthe313:bitch if you break up with me ill kill u then me..so dont fuckin think twice!
jeffinthe313:r you still breakin up wit me?
cutisammy:i g2g


woah. he like flipped out on me and he never did that before..i dunno what to do and im not goin to the po po (unless i really have to so please dont say that i should!)

ill rate 5s for anything!!

mucho love

oh yeah and my sn is CutiSammy and his is Jeffinthe313..lol just so you know! (link)
The same thing happened to two friends of mine in college. The whole thing turned into an enormous mess. I'll spare you the story (it's really long), but she ended up dumping him, and he ended up in a psychiatric facility for a year or so.

Just so you know, death threats are NOT part of a normal relationship. Neither are suicide threats.

What I'm trying to tell you is, he's crossed the line. And this isn't about you, particularly; it sounds as if he has a serious problem.

I don't know if he's likely to kill you or himself, but that he SAID he would means that he needs help, right away. I don't know what the "po po" is (police, maybe?), but you should talk to his parents, or a school counselor, or a teacher that you trust...some responsible adult.

Yes, he may find out. And yes, he may "hate" you for it. But this is honestly a no-win situation that he has put you in. And if he DOES get violent...well, you're really going to need adult help.

Good luck.


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