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Is he psycho?
ok so this is part of a im that me and my bf had:
cutisammy:i think we should take somee timee off..
jeffinthe313:nope.
cutisammy:wut do you mean no? you cant just say no
jeffinthe313:i mean if we break up i will kill mi self so no
cutisammy:umm..sorry that you feel that way but uhh i really think we should have a break
jeffinthe313:bitch if you break up with me ill kill u then me..so dont fuckin think twice!
jeffinthe313:r you still breakin up wit me?
cutisammy:i g2g
woah. he like flipped out on me and he never did that before..i dunno what to do and im not goin to the po po (unless i really have to so please dont say that i should!)
ill rate 5s for anything!!
mucho love
oh yeah and my sn is CutiSammy and his is Jeffinthe313..lol just so you know!
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CONTROL FREAK! wow. He has some issues. he is obioustly extreamly depressed and thinks you are all he has. If he woudl rather kill you then see you without him you have a problem .Hun im sorry but does RESTRAINING ORDER mean anything to you ? if it does then get one. We dont need a dead girl on his head and we certainaly dont need those kinda threats.
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Hi,
Since I don't personally know either of you I am going to tell you to take this seriously. This guy has some issues and can't handle rejection. Tell your parents or call his parents, but don't stay with him because of the threats. None of us would want to be with someone like that anyway. He sounds too possesive which could lead to abuse. I know of cases where the person killed their ex girlfriend and then themselves..so it really does happen.
Don't be surprised if his parents are in denial and don't think he will really commit suicide or homicide. That happens all the time!
I won't tell you to go to the police, but it might be the only way he gets help and then you can move on knowing that you did everything in your power to help him, and save yourself from future harrassment and pain.
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This has happened to me before. Just talk to him and your parnets. If he is still acting like that then talk to a counselor.
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This has happened to me plenty of times, I just get caught in bad relationships. I think you need to talk to him, with your parents, have his parents come over too unless they are completely crazy, my ex did this alot. He said he would kill himself but first he would kill me. I ignored it, it started to bother me after he left messages though. I would advise you to gather him and his parents and have a family on family meeting lol. I know this sounds crazy but maybe you two can work it out so you can become friends. I also I think if your not going to call the police then you need to have a grown up with you or an older boy that is stronger than him to take up for you just incase he tried to do something. I dont advise you to worry though. If he is all talk you have nothing to worry about, but I do advise you to break up with him. I hope I helped and I wish you the best of luck.
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I think you should not take this lightly. Him saying he is willing to kill you and himself is not something to shrug at. If you don't want to go to the police because he has a temper problem or jokes a lot then you need to talk to him in a very crowded place. If he continues to be serious, tell your parents let them handle it. They are adults they will be able to look at this situation with a clearer view. Don't take him lightly it could be your life. But definetly do break up with him, after talking to him. Find out if he is serious or not first. Best of luck to you!
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He is a nutcase or he is just saying that for you won't break up with him.. hopefully he is just saying that.. but as for the way i see it you should break up with him..
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The same thing happened to two friends of mine in college. The whole thing turned into an enormous mess. I'll spare you the story (it's really long), but she ended up dumping him, and he ended up in a psychiatric facility for a year or so.
Just so you know, death threats are NOT part of a normal relationship. Neither are suicide threats.
What I'm trying to tell you is, he's crossed the line. And this isn't about you, particularly; it sounds as if he has a serious problem.
I don't know if he's likely to kill you or himself, but that he SAID he would means that he needs help, right away. I don't know what the "po po" is (police, maybe?), but you should talk to his parents, or a school counselor, or a teacher that you trust...some responsible adult.
Yes, he may find out. And yes, he may "hate" you for it. But this is honestly a no-win situation that he has put you in. And if he DOES get violent...well, you're really going to need adult help.
Good luck.
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Before you reject my advice i want to tell you that i once had an abusive bf. And he was absolutely wonderful all the time, unless i upset him then he went off the wall. First it started off when i got mad and tried to break up with him, he verbally abused me and i thought about telling somebody or really getting away from him but i remembered he was always really good to me before this so i blew it off, he said he was just upset. RThen overtime if i upset him, it got worse. He would threaten me, verbally abuse me, but he always appologized and promised he would never hit me or hurt me. Then one day he tried to push my off of a high railing and when he failed, pushed my down 2 stories of stairs. I broke my arm, anle, and had bruises all over. I was 15. [im 15 now still, but it happened 8 months ago] So please do not think this will not happen to you, that he is always sweet, if he really meant this then he has issues you have to separate yourself from, because these issues are real.
this really is not normal, in fat it is downright scary. But before taking any action be sure to talk to him in person and ask if he is serious, or tell him again you want to break up with him or "take soem time off". observe his reaction and if it is the same, you an't help him. To really mean that means he has serious mental issues and it is important that you understand that you cannot help him. It is important to take this conversaton as proof and go to the social worker's office at your school. This is the only thing you can do to handle this safely. But remember, before any course of action talk to him in person, eye to eye.
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I think he's just over-reacting over the fact you need a break, he's trying to make you feel bad so you'll stay together. I think tomorrow or whenever the next time you talk to him, explain to him why. Maybe he'll chill down a little and understand, and if he really cares about you, he'll want you happy in the end, even if it's not with him.
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Woooah, yeah girl, he seems a little psycho right there. Hahha, that's a little drastic to say he's going to kill you, even himself. Maybe he's just freaking out at the possibility of you two breaking up. Oh well, girl, just see how he acts towards you in school or wherever you see him. If he's weirder than usual, than tell a parent or someone, because the way he's acting right now is a bit uncalled for. So, yeah, but if he seems okay, maybe try to stay away from him so you get your 'break' haha. Good luck girl! :]
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