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ok so this is part of a im that me and my bf had:

cutisammy:i think we should take somee timee off..
jeffinthe313:nope.
cutisammy:wut do you mean no? you cant just say no
jeffinthe313:i mean if we break up i will kill mi self so no
cutisammy:umm..sorry that you feel that way but uhh i really think we should have a break
jeffinthe313:bitch if you break up with me ill kill u then me..so dont fuckin think twice!
jeffinthe313:r you still breakin up wit me?
cutisammy:i g2g


woah. he like flipped out on me and he never did that before..i dunno what to do and im not goin to the po po (unless i really have to so please dont say that i should!)

ill rate 5s for anything!!

mucho love

oh yeah and my sn is CutiSammy and his is Jeffinthe313..lol just so you know! (link)
CONTROL FREAK! wow. He has some issues. he is obioustly extreamly depressed and thinks you are all he has. If he woudl rather kill you then see you without him you have a problem .Hun im sorry but does RESTRAINING ORDER mean anything to you ? if it does then get one. We dont need a dead girl on his head and we certainaly dont need those kinda threats.


ok heres the situation. your 15 yrs old. u never liked your dad, you hated him and you had this huge fite. and then he beats you wif a wooden stick until it broke. your mom was yelling at him and everything. and he hits your mom because she tries to stop him from hitting you. and then and then... a couple days later they act like nothings happened. yout mom doesnt want anyone else outside the family to kno this so she doesnt calls the police. you realli cant stand it that everyones living on fine and you get mad seeing your bruises. wat do you do? (link)
ANSWER1: You call the police. you report it. NO individual on this earth deserves to be abused. You are better then that . Even if your scared for both you and your mom . You do it . The cops will give him a reality check! Also talk to your mom . Tell her if she loves you that she will take you and you both will run . Tell her that she is beautiful and is worth somthing. Explain to her that you knwo she feels worthless now (dhe must if she lets him do this) But tell her she is. She can make a life with you . You dont need the world of money to be happy . Tell her if she doesnt get out now. It will only get worse. Because it will. right now she is feeling liek she is worth nothing. She is nothign without your dad. She needs the money and she certainaly doesnt need the family to know this. But beleive me. PLEASE I BEG YOU TELL YOUR MOM TO PACK HER STUFF AND GET OUT . ALSO PLEASE CALL THE COPS. if you dont want you or your mom to hurt anymore. You would do this. I knwo you are probly scared. But 1 day of being scared is better then years of beating PLEASE E-MAIL ME BACK IF YOU GET THIS hottie_sexy_chick_69@hotmail.com (i know its a fucked up e-mail addy)
Question2: It sounds like your mom is so deep Its goign to be hard to bring her out of it WHAT EVER YOU DO DONT STAY ALONE WITH YOUR DAD. HELL NO! i dont understadn how your mom can be in her right mind. If i was yoru mom i wouldnt let you live there let alone stay there by yourself! TIME TO CALL THE COPS. DO IT! stay with a friend. Tell there parents about the situation. Im sue it will be alright. But what ever you do dont tell yoru dad yoru leaving... Just take yoru clothes and run and DONT COME BACK until you know your mom is home. Then the cops will take it from there. trust me just do it . Please OH AND BY THE WAY HE JUST TELLS YOU HE WONT HIT YOU AGAIN (ITS A COVER UNTIL THE NEXT TIME HE GETS MAD)


My boyfriend lives about an hour and a half away so I stay over there a lot. He won't stay at mine. It really annoys me when my boyfriend goes out all day so I'm stuck at his with nothing to do because I can't get home. The other day we were arguing about it when his mam said to me, "I'm not butting in, but it's give and take in a relationship." What does that saying mean? And what does she mean when she says that? Because to me it seems like I do all the giving by going all that way to see him and he does all the taking by ditching me to do something else, but she was supposedly standing up for her son? (link)
Ok i understand that you love him But girl hes not worth it. If you come all the way down there to see him and he "has somthing better to do " Hes a waist of time .
Give him a reality check! Say hey , you obiously dont appreciate me as much as i do you so maybe i need to fnd somone who will give as much as i do.
see what he says. That will shock him. Just when he thought you would be there for him and always be there to see him .... the fact that your not goign to wait around for him all the time will stun him.
If he agrees with the break up then you knwo he's not for you . And from every relationship you take somthing good and then you move on and your next relationship is just that much better.
If he says " no, i love you and appoligizes. Then simply tell him your not goingt o be waiting around for him and if he wants to se eyou he can make the effort to come see you . Tell him if you mean that much to him then he will make that extra effort . If he ends up showing up at yoru house a few times then try going to his house BUT as soon as he says " im going out bye, say ... C YA Buddy .
Another thing is if you tuly love him you are comfortably with him . There for you should tell him that if he LOVES you he would eb proud of you so why doesnt he shwo you off. Tell him to take you with him. pleasse e-mail me if you take my advice let me know what happends im curious hottie_sexy_chick_69@ghotmail.com ( i didnt make up my e-mail addy . An it was in grade 8 lol )bye!


Hey my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and lately my mom and I have been fighting alot like on sunday I washed my clothes and I forgot that she said since the washing machine was messed up to get her to help me with my clothes well I washed them anyway and my mom found out and the next thing I knew we were yelling at each other like she cussed me out what is going on since my mom and I use to be so close why are we fighting like this all the time? (link)
Lol soudns liek me and my mom . Im also 17 and me and my mom are VERY CLOSE but you knwo what we went through a bit of a rut. Its typical. Maybe shes goign through menopause. Considering your hormones are raging and so are hers that coudl be a clash. Well that was my insident. But all in all its typical . Yoru a typical teenager. You werent listening to her fully about the washing machein so you screwed up . Maybe she has been in a bad mood latly. Who knows but trust me you guys will recover. Promise


Hey Mom, i'll try to make this sweet and simple.
I kinda want my underwear back.
I'm not exactly sure why you took them, but i have an idea. Maybe you thought i was trying to 'impress' somebody? Maybe for punishment? Maybe you thought i was growing up too fast?
i'm not exactly sure but i think its one of those.
I just wannna let you know i'm not trying to impress anybody.
Its kind of a personal preference, its more comfortable & stuff.
i don't like, show people or anything, like some people i know.(aka sluts!)
I don't know, do you want me to earn them back?
well write back.
mmkay
bye


is it good? i don't want to sound like a smart aleck though. and i don't wnt to beg her either.
is this good? any revisions i should make? (link)
First off how old are you . If yoru 14 or under or maybe even 15 and under maybe she just thinks that your to young to be wearing sexy panty's If thats the case its a good thing in a sence. I think girls grow up way to fast . Maybe she isjust looking out for you . You are her littler girl after all


uGh im gonna go insane.... 2months and im out of here... ok well ive been really stressed about almost everything.... my parents are sending me away for a year and i honestly dont want to go and like they know but ther buying me like everything i want before i leave but i keep on getting in fights with them beause they get mad when i tell them i dont want to go... i kinda feel bribed but then again i know there sending me for a good reason but ugh im so irratated with everything...today i got in a fight with my mom cause it had something to do with me signing up for summer school so i dont have to repeat the grade and its like ugh i dont mean to fight with her I JUST DONT WANT TO GO ANYWHERE and she started getting mad cause i told one of my friends that i dont want to go and shes like dont tell your friends that! What am i supposed to do be like ohh im so excited im leaving for a year yay! When Im not....
Anyadvice? (link)
First off Why are you getting sent away?, all i know is that its for a good reason. If you dontfeel like telling me because i am a compleate stranger that is fine. So before i start going off i would like to introduce myself. My name is Whitney , I am 17 years old and Live in Canada. I live in a small town with my mom. When i grow up i want to be a Teen Psychologist. With that said I just want to give you some diffrent advice about your situation. Since i dont know your specific problem i am going to assume. First i am assuming its because you need help of some sort. weather it be anger problems, depression, ect. In thats the case The your parents are doing it for all the right reasons which you have obioustly igknowlaged. which is a good thing. The reason why i think you are lashing out and fighting for no apparent reason . Is because you feel so hurt . The fact that they are sending there own daughter away for a whole year. You may even feel abandon in a sence. Maybe they just brought it up one day out of the blue and you were so shocked you didnt knwo what to do. Now you have this subject about you leaving to go away for a year against your will eatting at your brain. How can you parents do this? If i am dead on the Nail then this is my advice for you . Talk to your parents. Sit them down. Tell they you igknowlage that you have a problem and that they are sending you away for a good cause. Then proceed to tell them what your issues with this you haev . Instead of lashing out telling them that you dont want to go ... tell them why . What you truly feel. If tears come to your eyes. Let them roll. For once let your true emotions come out and spill the ebans. Maybe they will give you the answers your looking for. Then live up the time you have left and go into this "place yoru going to " with an open mind. Remeber only good things can come from this. On the other hand if its a drug issue Then i think your lashing out becauise you realize that your going to have to stop. More more nose candy for you . your not going to look forward to the horrible withdrawls you are about to face. And thought you knwo its for a good cause it pisses you off so much how sombody can take you to a rehab against your will. What ever the situation . Embrace it . Besides a year of a life to improve yourself. It could eb the best year of your life. chow. If you want to talk to me more. PLease feel free to e-mail me at hottie_sexy_chick_69@hotmail.com (dont ask about my hotmail account lol i was in grade 8 when i made it up and was to lazy to create a new one . im not a big sleeze ball or anythign LOL ) chow for now ;)


ok im 15/f. my bf now we have been dating a little over a year, and i love him with all my heart, i would do anythin for him in this world we'll call him FRED.well we broke up for like 2 weeks and i dated a boy (bob)and i broke up with him because i couldnt stop thinking about fred. my dad dont let me see fred or talk to him but now that we are dating again i have been in such a good mood and everything like that. me and bob got along good and were good friends now but the other day he asked me to go to prom with him what should i do??? is that considered cheating if i would go with him or is that wrong or what(going as friends)? (link)
Hey I really hope you get this answer. First i want to tell you i am 17 now but i went to the prom with my boyfriend at the time when i was 15. 1st of all i wouldnt go . FOr 3 reasons. 1st off if you go it will ruin your prom honistly im not joking, the first time you go to a prom it should be at yours. 2nd you certainaly shouldnt spoil it by going with a friend. Not only that i really dont think your boyfriend would apreciate it. Think about it . if you boyfriend told you he was going to the prom with a girl that he says is just a friend how would you react? im pretty sure you would be pissed. i know i would be. Obioustly this guy "BOb still likes you because why woudl he want you to go to his prom. Prom is a major thing you dont just go with any old friend. Not only that . Your boyfriend realizes the way guys minds work and I dont think he would be to impressed. so out of the respect of your boyfriend. dont go . wait until the day that its your prom. then you can spend that amazing day with your sweety :) . i hope you take my advice. if you get this message. please respond back so i knwo what you think thanks..... -Whitney




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