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my boyfriend of 8 months has such a thick head! i mean he wont do anything inless i grip at him.... he even says so his self...like my dad is a stricked parent i mean im his only girl so i can see his point but my dad likes to know when my boyfriend comes down because my boyfriend lives a hour away...well anyways my dad likes to know at least a week in advance when my boyfriend comes down to see me ...well he wont do it inless i yell at him...what do i do about it? just yell at him everytime i want something done? (link)
Yelling is not a good basis for a relationship. If talking doesn't work, then you need to either leave your boyfriend, get into couples counseling with him, or work something out with your father.

But don't yell. Nobody loves a yeller.

You might calmly refuse to see your boyfriend unless he's given enough notice, of course. Or give him your father's number, or email address, or IM (assuming he has those), and tell him to make SURE to contact your father. And then refuse to see him if he doesn't.

If you do that and stick to it, he'll either break up with you or shape up, I suppose.

Good luck.


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really good answer .thanks so much but he already has my dads number e-mail address . but thank you so much




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