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Well if asked question on here about love before.
I was in love with this guy for like year and a half i started getting over him 3 months ago well i am now falling hard for this guy at my church. I was going to talk to one of the girls online that are from church see if she could help me out alittle bit. Well 2 min before i was about to talk to her i found he has a girlfriend. I dont love him but all i want to do is cry now it just doesnt seem fair. Nothing ever works the way i want something to work. especially when it comes to love. I serious just want to give up on love it self. It took all my strength to start liking another guy and as soon i let my self go i get hurt.
I really dont know what to do. I dont want to hear move on and wait he'll come around thats a crap answer i get it everytime and it doesnt work. Thanks. (link)
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I'm sorry; you've certainly had a harder time than you deserve. And there aren't any really great answers, unfortunately.
I'd say, though, that what you need to do is start looking for guys in places where you're likely to find them - and where the guys are likely to be single, unattached, and looking for a girl.
It would be helpful to know your age. If you're 18 or older, dating sites are one option. I recommend joining two, one for people who are into your favorite hobby or interest, and another more general one. Personally I had good luck with Match.com; I met my wife there.
Since you seem to get emotionally involved before you make a move, dating sites might work well for you. I will say, though, that getting attached like that does seem like a prescription for a lot of broken hearts. I realize that it might be hard, but it would probably be a good idea to try to slow your heart down, if you know what I mean.
You could also get out more. Church isn't a bad place to meet guys, but as you've already learned, some of them (probably most) are going to already be involved with someone, or married. You might try volunteering, or joining a club, or taking an evening class.
In any case, please don't give up. You could easily spend YEARS bitter and alone if you give up, and no one deserves that. Happiness is worth all the perseverance you can give it.
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im 17. I can't go on dating sites. The guy is 19 from church but its like a youth group. Thx
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