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16 female
My guy friend wants to have sex with me and vice versa but the only thing thats stopping us(well me)is that im a little overweight and i have stretchmarks. they're really embarasing and i dont want him to see them
is their anyway to get rid of them almost completely? will he be turned off and disgusted at the sight of seeing them? and also will it hurt reallly bad my first time?(im virgin hes not)
Pleeeze help i rate 5s! thanx (link)
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Stretch marks fade over time, although they never completely disappear.
You really shouldn't worry about it. Believe me, no normal guy is going to go over a girl with a magnifying glass, looking for flaws before having sex. Our brains just don't work that way. And in any case, NOBODY is perfect.
If you're underage I recommend waiting to have sex, by the way; and for most people, "underage" means under 18 or so. Not because it's illegal, but because most people under that age simply aren't mature enough to be really ready for sex.
Having said that, if you decide to do this, do your best to relax and enjoy it as much as you can. It's the only first time you'll ever have, after all. As for pain, some women experience some pain and others don't. It depends on how relaxed they are, how much lubrication (natural or applied) is involved, relative sizes, and (of course) whether or not the hymen is intact.
Whoops, almost forgot the most important part: TALK TO YOUR OB/GYN. You absolutely need to use birth control if you are going to have sex. And if you're not absolutely 100% sure that you're both free of STDs, use a condom - and read the instructions to make sure that you're using it right.
Good luck!
Follow-up: Sorry, but I missed two things. One is that you're 16, and I DEFINITELY recommend waiting. You're too young. And the other thing is that jbdreamer is absolutely right: if you're not comfortable with him looking at you naked, then you really don't trust him enough to have sex with him.
Sex isn't just a physical thing. It's emotional, too. If love or something really close to love isn't involved, it's not much more than mutual masturbation. You deserve better than that for your first time. And I think you'll be happier if you wait until you meet someone you really love. As long as you don't wait until you're 30, of course!
Please consider waiting.
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