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please help me i was sexualy abused when i was younger by my grandad and i hate him for it but i cant stay mad at him i still talk to him and everthing and then all the memories all come back to me i know i am not to blame but i just want to know why he done this to me but i am scared to ask him because he will not admit it and i want to be mad at him but i am the kind of person who forgives people no matter what they have done what can i do please help me.
It's fine that you forgive this person for doing what he did, but it's advisable that you do not try to socialize with him. As you've already seen, it does not make you feel good. After being abused, you shouldn't do anything that will make you feel worse. Forgiving someone is completely differnt than being a friend with someone. You need to do what you can to stay away from this person for your own sanity.
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thanks for your advice i do my best to stay away from him but when we have family partys he is there and he cuddles me and every thing but i dont want to be horrable to him and tell him to get of me
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