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My boyfriend hasnt talked to me for like three days. he wont answer my texts or anything so i decided i was going to go to his house and make him talk to me and tell me what was going on so...I txted him and told him that i was coming to his house and he was like no and i was like yea what ever im coming and i only told him so that way if he wasnt there he would tell me before i got to his house so then he told me that he was going to lock the doors so i couldnt get in then i told him that i was going to knock and he said his mom wouldnt let me in then i was like ill tell her its important and he was like no and i was like yea and then i was like corey are we breaking up and hes like 'i dont know' and i was like how dont you know and he was like ya i guess i was like omg are you for real ad he didnt say anything then i got really pissed off and walked my ass over to his house...not good...i was like corey whats going on and he said he didnt know if he wanted to break up with me but he liked the way it felt to not have to talk to someone everynight...i was sitting there thinking you dont talk to me every night you havent talked to me for three days!! but i love this boy so much and we didnt even fight so i dont know why this was so random? should i just let it go or should i try to get him back? and how do i do that if yes
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I'm sorry, but it really sounds as if your relationship with him has gotten too weird. You're almost threatening to break into his house, and he's practically calling the cops on you. That's just not normal.
From what you said it's *possible* that you pressed too hard, were too clingy; if you were pushing too hard for a long time, three days of solitude might not make up for it. And frankly, if it's reached that point, my guess is that the relationship is not going to survive.
On the other hand, boys can be fickle. He may have gotten nervous about the level of committment that you two were reaching, for example.
At this point the relationship is probably over, but if you want to save it (and it sounds like you do), I'd suggest playing it cool. Hold back. Let him make the effort to reach out. In other words, give him some space.
And if the relationship does end, remember that it's not the end of the world - even if it feels that way. You're young, and there are a lot of boys out there. Give yourself time, and you'll find love.
Good luck!
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