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okay, I am 21 and still a virgin. I have done other stuff just not had sex yet. The thing is I was almost raped by one of my ex boyfriends and I am kind of scared of guys now, not all but some of them. I feel really pathetice because I am still a virgin and I am 21. Plus my uncle has aids and that is another reason why I am scared. I don't have a bf right now but am looking for one. When I do find one and we have sex how can I make myself less scared to have sex? Is there anything I can do to calm myself down?
any help will be great, guys and girls

The best thing to do is save it for marriage... that way you wont have to be worried about ne thing... you've waited this long because ur scared... u might as well wait till marriage

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(Rating: 4) well that's true. I guess if I waited this long I should wait for marriage, but if I am ready before then and love the guy then I will go for it. thanks

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