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I'm Johanna. I'll Come and Go. What can I say? I try.

One thing I LOVE to do is to analyze dreams. Just tell me about a dream you had, and I'll help you understand what it means. :)

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ok im the one who asked about the church crush and if i should break up with my bf. ok well, my bf is having some REALLY big family problems right now and i feel i need to be there for him. i mean everytime i even THINK about him being hurt i cant keep myself from feeling really bad. i mean....sigh...he was there for me when i needed him and i tend to be there for him but i cant do that when were not together. i mean i do love him. but another thing is he is really prude and i dont like that in a guy, but i like him so much that i dont really care. i really really really need help! PLEASE!

Well, I think you should wait things out a little. Obviously, he is going through some hard times, so he needs a friend. I think you should talk to him about whats going on, tell him that its okay, things will get better eventually. I know this because my family fights alot, and whenever things seem to get bad, they usually always blow over, if you just wait it out.

You can also wait until you think its a good time, and talk to him about your relationship. Tell him: "Maybe a girlfriend would be too much trouble for you right now. I really want your family problems smoothed out and I don't want to stand in the way of it. I think we should be friends for now because friends can help each other out when somethings wrong." He should understand that, because that is not being mean at all! So just be there for him, talk to him, be a friend to him. If he doesn't appreciate it now, then he will later.

;)Keep me posted!

~Johanna

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(Rating: 5) thank you so much!
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