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I really like this guy and he doesnt even know i exist even though i am friends with alot! and i mean alot of his friends, and it seems weird he hasnt met me yet...i know alot about him because my friends talk about him ALOT and so is started liking him and i guess he'll never like me, and i dont want to go out with anyone else because i want him and no1 else...i am like shy aroudn guys i like alot and even if i was aroudn him with my freinds i'd be nervous to saay 1 word to him...so months ago i started cutting and you probably will say "dont cut its bad" or shit like that but i cant stop and i dont really want to because it gets alot of stress and anger out and i REALLY like him and I CANT STOP CUTTING and no i am not going to tell someone like my parents my mom already treats me like a fucking 10 year old and would be so disapointed and shit...and i dont cut that bad so i dont really need a shrink/psychologist or what ever...
signed
Unloved confused cutter
What exactly is your problem? Did you come on this site to simply tell everyone your problems and then end by saying "but I don't need help and don't want to change"
So, you like this guy that you've never met, you then automatically assume that he'll never like you (even though the two of you have never met), and, because you think a guy you've never met will never like you, you cut.
Do you really wonder why your mother treats you like a ten year old?
You need to take a deep breath, stand back, and actually look at this situation. It seems just a bit melodramatic don't you think?
I honestly don't know what the problem is. If you want to meet this guy, and give him a chance to like you, then suck it up and get the nerve to say "Hi". If everyone keeps talking about how great he is, then use that to your advantage and bring up something that you know he would be interested in. Like his favorite movie, music, sport, or whatever.
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you dont get it do you...well you suck at giving advice anyhow
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