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Help me with a problem
I really like this guy and he doesnt even know i exist even though i am friends with alot! and i mean alot of his friends, and it seems weird he hasnt met me yet...i know alot about him because my friends talk about him ALOT and so is started liking him and i guess he'll never like me, and i dont want to go out with anyone else because i want him and no1 else...i am like shy aroudn guys i like alot and even if i was aroudn him with my freinds i'd be nervous to saay 1 word to him...so months ago i started cutting and you probably will say "dont cut its bad" or shit like that but i cant stop and i dont really want to because it gets alot of stress and anger out and i REALLY like him and I CANT STOP CUTTING and no i am not going to tell someone like my parents my mom already treats me like a fucking 10 year old and would be so disapointed and shit...and i dont cut that bad so i dont really need a shrink/psychologist or what ever...
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Unloved confused cutter
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ok, if you havent met him yet, then you could actually be the one who fkn blows his mind away, play it cool, odnt seem that interested in convo, tlk to him, have a few amazing convos, you will do fine hunny, its ok, if he is making you feel that way about cutting yourself, then what have you got to lose about askn him out n about, not on a sate, that may freak him right? what do your friends think? all you can do is tlk to him, ask for his number, guys dont read so far into things as girls, unless their freakishly femenine, then they would have said something to you, try to keep conversation going at all costs, its ok, you will get through this..
rate me hunny xx and tell me how it goes on
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you can do it!!
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cutting is a psychological problem. you need to get help. I am a former cutter and I got help, and it helped me tremendously.
if you need to any more info or advice on cutting, please IM me on AIM: fatalxhaerts
-jaz
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What exactly is your problem? Did you come on this site to simply tell everyone your problems and then end by saying "but I don't need help and don't want to change"
So, you like this guy that you've never met, you then automatically assume that he'll never like you (even though the two of you have never met), and, because you think a guy you've never met will never like you, you cut.
Do you really wonder why your mother treats you like a ten year old?
You need to take a deep breath, stand back, and actually look at this situation. It seems just a bit melodramatic don't you think?
I honestly don't know what the problem is. If you want to meet this guy, and give him a chance to like you, then suck it up and get the nerve to say "Hi". If everyone keeps talking about how great he is, then use that to your advantage and bring up something that you know he would be interested in. Like his favorite movie, music, sport, or whatever.
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hey there. listen, i had the same problem, well the cutting thing, not the guy thing. but anyways, you should just talk to him with a few friends or something in a group conversation. do little things that might make him notice you. and maybe he already does notice you, but you just don't know it. As long as he doesn't have a girlfriend, you've got a chance. so go for it, what've you got to lose? hope i helped a bit!
<3 melanie
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first off- if this kid knows anything about you, and likes you the way you seem to like him- just by hearing about him- and he hasnt made an attempt to meet you yet, then he's a jerk. second- you've NEVER met this kid- how can you say that he's the only person you want to date?!- all you know about him is what your friends tell him- so trust me- when and if y'all met- there's no way you'd hook up the second you saw each other. for all you know- youre friends could be lying about everything theyve ever sed about him. not sayin theyd do that- but still. next, why would you cut yourself over someone you once again, DONT KNOW?! i will admit- i used to cut- i think at least half of all teenagers have at one point- but no offense- i dont think theyve ever done it over sumthing this outrageous!- im really not trying to be bogus when i say this- but it sounds like this is a ploy for attention. im really not trying to be mean- im just trying to help - which is what you asked for. if you need any more- feel free to ask. *~aim~* mikelly4039
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well i don*t know exactly what you want me to answer so i*ll try my best. #1 about the cutting, I won*t lecture you cuz shit, lectures suck! but i know how you feel about cutting, i*ve done it before (over a guy too.. psh boys) but yeah. OK so i mean as much as you don*t wanna hear it you shouldn*t cut yourself over a boy and you might think he*s amazing but you haven*t really gotten to know him. If you like him so much you should try to get to know him. The next time he*s around try to make conversation even if it*s hard. just be like hey. and what i always do even if i know EVERYTHING about them, i act like i don*t. I ask them their name and stuff and what you need to do is get his IM screen name (if you have one) because you get to know sum1 really well over IM b/c people are more honest. He prolly does notice you but doesn*t know if you notice him b/c your not trying to get to know him. Maybe you could have one of your friends that*s friends with him talk about you (good of course) and see if something happens!! I hope i helped! xoxo, chelsea
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