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me and my boyfrind have been together for almost 10 months now. we never really argue, except when i talk to other males on the telephone. i tell him, they are only friends, but he feels uncomfortable with me talking to them. should i give in, and not talk to my friends or should i continue being friends with my male friends? besides i dont understand why he's uncomfortable anyways.
You should never give up friends because he feels uncomfortable with you talking to them. This is something for him to get over, not something for you to change. Does he have a reason to be worried? Is there anything you've done in the ten months that the two of you have been dating to make him think that you wouldn't be trustworthy?
Trying to isolate you from all of your friends, regardless of your friend's sex, is a form of abuse. You will never be able to be truly happy with this guy if he forces you to give up all of your friends. You need to talk to him and make him understand more clearly that they are friends, and you can't give them up.
If he refuses to understand that, then you should let him know that you won't change that part of you.
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thanks a lot!!!!!!!!!!
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