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So it seems no one cares that its right to wait untill marrage to have sex (in the chrsitian religon) and now to me it seems seroiusly wrong, but later on it probubaly wont. I just wanted to know at what age do most people lose it? Since im in 7th now, and next year is supposibly the year everyone starts. Most likly the guy I marry wont be a virgin, right? 5's for anyone who is reasonable.

Since when is 8th grade the year that everyone starts?

To me, I don't feel that there is a certain age when you lose your virginity. I don't really believe in saving yourself for marriage. I'm not a religious person, my viewpoint is about knowing that your compatible with someone completely. See... I believe that sex and passion is a big part of a long term relationship, and you can't commit yourself to one person for life without knowing whether or not your compatible with that person in every aspect... sex is included.
But, I'm now dating someone who wants to wait until he's married, so I'm in a complicated little predicament right now.

8th grade is not when everyone loses their virginity. Going through highschool, you always think that everyone else is doing "stuff" because that's all you ever hear about. But, trust me, it's not true. I know plenty of people entering into college who were still, and many who still are, virgins.
There will be a point in your life when you learn that everyone else is just as confused about the whole sex thing as you are. Everyone thinks "everyone else is doing it, so I might as well do it" But, seriously, at your age, everyone is not doing it.

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(Rating: 5) what I meant was that in my school 8th graders have been known to have sex alot. thanks for the advice =]


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