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So it seems no one cares that its right to wait untill marrage to have sex (in the chrsitian religon) and now to me it seems seroiusly wrong, but later on it probubaly wont. I just wanted to know at what age do most people lose it? Since im in 7th now, and next year is supposibly the year everyone starts. Most likly the guy I marry wont be a virgin, right? 5's for anyone who is reasonable.
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No no no, don't have sex when youre in 8th grade, unless you feel ready. First of all, you're too young. And second of all, if you do have sex when you're in 8th grade, you run the risk of your reputation going downhill. As in, people might think you're a slut, etc.
I'm 17 and I just lost my virginity. I used to think people should wait til marriage, but then I found someone I love, blah blah.
But yeah, if it feels right, and you love the person, then I don't see any problem with it.
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well it really doesnt matter to you, its when you meet the right guy (or are to drunk off your ass to know anything lol) when you find the guy no matter what age if your in love and feel you can trust him that the right age i know it sounds corny but its true i had te same question in my head for a while but no one to help me. I know its rare, you most likely wont be a virgin when you marry either so think about that one
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It doesn't matter what every ody else is doin'. If you're a christian or not, the Bible speaks strongly about saving yourself for your husband. God does have someone planned for you and if you're a praying christian, you should pray every day for your future husband to save himself for you and you should do the same for him. If you're not a christian, though, God most likely won't hear your prayer until you pray for salvation.
Hope I helped
God Bless
~Aeromonkey~
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I believe in waiting until marriage. You may regret it if you have sex before then. I suggest waiting until you are at LEAST 17 to make that decision. You can't take it back later. Hope i helped !!!lyl!!! ~lexi
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It depends on the guy you marry and what his beliefs are. It also depends on your beliefs too and whether you really do want to wait until you get married to have sex. At the end of the day it is up to you and you shouldn't think you should have sex just because all your friends will be having sex. Jessica Simpson waited until she got married before she lost her virginity. Age-wise it totally depends on the guys you meet and how confident you feel. It differs with everyone. I was 18 when I first had sex but my best friend was 14. There is no specific time or age when you should start. You kind of know when it's right as you meet a guy who you feel close to and relaxed around. Your time will come whether its sooner or even later but just remember at the end of the day it is up to you. A lot of my friends had sex when they were younger just because others were doing it and they thought they should be doing it too-every one of them regretted it. I hope I have helped a little
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heyy .. there is no age its whatever age that person wants to start it varies with everyone and it also depends on how your parents taught you sometimes if they always tell you its not right to have sex until your married then thats most likly what you will believe but if they dont tell you anything its kinda up to you and most likely the people whos parents dont tell them have sex at a early age and i just wanted to let you know im totally agreeing with you about the no sex until your married thing i think its the right thing to do
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I don't think that 8th grade is that grade to lose your virginity. For most people I think that it is just a personal decision. I know people who have lost their virginity in 6th grade, and I know people who are in college and are still virgins. If you are against pre-marital sex, then stay true to what you believe. Also, does it matter if the guy you marry is a virgin or not? It only matters as long as you love him and he loves you. Hope I helped.
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Well most my friends lost their viginity between the ages of 13 to 15.. well i think is young of course.. but i cant really say anything about them cause i lost mine at 15.. which i think is also young but i dont believe in the chritian beliefs about waiting til your married i jus think if you truly love somebdy its okay.. and im still with the guy i lost my virginty too.. and possibly the guy you marry will not be a virgin really depends when you get married tho... and i dont think you should follow in other peoples footsteps bout having sex i think you should continue with what you belief in and do what you feel is right.. i do what i belief in and dont follow my friends.. my friends of course dont have sex with guys they love or even really know their name they do who LOOKS GOOD.. but sorry bout going on and on.. much luv dez x0x0
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To my knowledge i know a lot of kids and teenagers lose it when they were 12 years of age and up.Do what you want to don't listen to other kids. You should listen to your parents.
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I know some loose it between 12-up years of year mostly. I agree with you, someone asked me how far I ever went with a guy. He said they this something wrong me because I won't loose my virginity till marriage. It's something I choice to keep, till the time is right and not screw my life up at the age of 15...or 16..17 and possiable not till im 20 or 21.
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mostly girls loose their when they are int there early teens like as young as 13. But mostly it happens when they turn 14 and are int the seventh, eight, adn ninth grade. Its not really good that you do lose yours because that way you wont have problems with the guy you marry. I mean he wont be worrying about how many guys you were with and like who were they.
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Yes, chances are the man you marry will not be a virgin. These days most teens seem to have had sex somewhere during their freshman year. As of today I don't believe in God, so whether or not the bible says premarital marriage is wrong doesn't matter to me. I go by my own rules of abstenance. Most of those who have sex usually end up with an STD or a kid, when they've just gotten into highschool. Not something you want on your hands, huh?
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i feel the same way! i am waiting till marriage. i dont know anyone who has lost it yet and i am in 8th grade, my guess is in high school prolly most people will, if they are not waiting till marriage.
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I'm a 19 year old virgin, also a Christian girl. I made a decision at age 13 to save myself for marriage, a promise between me and God. I believe God intended sex to be between husband and wife, and that's the reason behind my decision.
Now, for me, it was easy through most of jr. high and high school. I didn't have a boyfriend. Sure, I had friends who did, and some of them might have been having sex, but for me it wasn't an issue. At age 18, I started dating my first boyfriend, and we've been together a year now. Now it's a little harder to stick to my promise. My boyfriend is also a virgin, and he agrees that sex shouldn't be rushed into, though he's not quite as committed to saving himself for marriage like I am. But sometimes we feel tempted to go further than we should, in the heat of the moment. But I made a promise to God, and I still believe it's right, so I'm sticking to it. Sure, it's not what most people do, but as a Christian, I know that sometimes I have to take the high road and not follow the crowd.
Sure, I might not marry a virgin someday, but that doesn't make my virginity any less important. I expect that the man I marry will love me for a lot more than my sexual history.
Don't ever let yourself feel pressured to have sex just because "everyone else is doing it." Having sex is a private decision between you and your partner.
Now, if you are a Christian, I encourage you to read up on the subject- there are passages in the Bible that talk about sex, and there are several books out there, one I reccommend is "He's Hot, She's Hot".
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hi there,
i am a christain and i believe in waiting , people don't understand that f you sleep with different people they are given a part of themselve away, even though when we all die, its our body that turns to dust, God gave us the body for a reason, fo us to cherish it, not to abuse it, even though i am well aware that most men than women arent virgins.
ne of my firned is a muslim and shes dating a christain, i can't say it would work, because if they had any respect for their religion they wouldnt disrespect it, and then what's the point of religion ( if your a muslim a females can't get married to a christain male )
and if they disrespect it, what's the point of getting married, it also has to do with values and also the future.
i think that saving yourself, is giving a part of yourself from the Lord, that no money on eareth can buy
Good luck and God Bless
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I cared, and though I didn't exactly wait for marriage I waited for the one guy I wanted to marry. (I also married him.) This does not mean I never experimented or that I didn't like kissing and holding hands and hugs. There is no reason to be cold. Just don't do anything you don't want to do. No the man you marry will probably not be a virgin. For some reason most guys seem to think it reflects poorly on themselves not to have sex. They have very little self esteem in this area. It is possible to find a male virgin to marry though. I have a friend who has and it is amazing how close they are without the pressure to put out. I envy that relationship. Luck and love. Just remember there is no reason to rush things.
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Since when is 8th grade the year that everyone starts?
To me, I don't feel that there is a certain age when you lose your virginity. I don't really believe in saving yourself for marriage. I'm not a religious person, my viewpoint is about knowing that your compatible with someone completely. See... I believe that sex and passion is a big part of a long term relationship, and you can't commit yourself to one person for life without knowing whether or not your compatible with that person in every aspect... sex is included.
But, I'm now dating someone who wants to wait until he's married, so I'm in a complicated little predicament right now.
8th grade is not when everyone loses their virginity. Going through highschool, you always think that everyone else is doing "stuff" because that's all you ever hear about. But, trust me, it's not true. I know plenty of people entering into college who were still, and many who still are, virgins.
There will be a point in your life when you learn that everyone else is just as confused about the whole sex thing as you are. Everyone thinks "everyone else is doing it, so I might as well do it" But, seriously, at your age, everyone is not doing it.
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Well i know most people start doing little stuff when they are in 8th grade like fingering and stuff, but when you get into High-school you start having it then. But if you do make sure your on Birth control but make sure you dont like do it everyday becz you can still get pregnat while on it ! and i dont think your gonna wanna kill your baby or drop out of school .. right ?
well good luck !
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