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I think I have sort of created some sort of irreversible obsession over my best friend. I'ts not that I cant live with out her. It just that I refuse to do the simplest thing without her consent or at least knowledge. In some sort of twisted way, I cant think without her.... Shes sort of that one thing that completes me in almost all aspects of my life. I'ts scares me day by day because i feel that such a good thing is always lost... Im paranoid about losing one of the only things that makes my life, worthwhile.... Praying for her everynight doesnt seem enough and even when I'm sleeping next to her...I sleep with the deep penetrating thought that She wont be there when i wake up.... My question to you is this.. Is this a friendship or some sort of ill obsession?????

Please help me?????

19...Female

It possible that you are obsessed but i'd look at it as you two are really great friends, almost like sisters who cant be split appart.
The bond is so strong that if your split that you feel theres a whole in your life.
So yea shes a life time friend. I would hang on to her because not everyone can find that one person that just clicks and just is so similar.

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(Rating: 5) Thank you for your advice, and you are absolutely right..... shes actually been my friend for 7 yrs.... i dont plan on letting her go

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