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i feel like when I get pushed around, I'm too scared to stand up for myself and I just ignore what happenes.Also I'm kinda short and also white.Where I live most people are different races and believe they are tougher than a small little white girl...how do i be more assertive witout being a bitch?I just want to be able to defend myself.

Well i used to get pushed around by my two friends one time but one day i was like enough of this! so i ignred them and then when they came over i acted like a i didnt care and told them off and all that, it was quite funny actually lol but anyways, you needa act tough and like you dont care that they're pushing or making fun of you. I no you're probably thinking but it does hurt me... well thats how you feel on the inside but somtimes how you act on the outside is what they see first so dont be scared to stand up for your sel becuase im sure those people do the same thing beacuse other people do it to them... i hope i didnt confuse you cuz this is long lol..
h.i.h.

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(Rating: 5) thank you..no i understand completly! :)
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