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I am 23 years old. I just moved to California from Alaska with my boyfriend. The problem is, i do not think i love him. I am still in love with my guy friend back home. I am very unhappy in my current realtionship. I told him i wanted to go back home to Alaska. He agreed, but i am afraid once we get there, I will not want to be with him anymore. I want to be happy. My guy friend back home loves me also and i know that he would be with me and we would be happy but i do not want to break my boyfriends heart. What do i do to make this easy for us all?
Sounds like you have to really think on the choices you make. If you made up your mind, and really believe you love your friend back home, then go for it. As for your boyfriend, there is little you can do to soften the blow. Some important things to hit are why you want to end the relationship and why you aren't happy. There really is no way to make it 'easy', because you are probably going to break someone's heart one way or another. Sit with your boyfriend and explain to him what's going on inside your head. It'll be hard for him to take, so try to be sensitive. Don't be too harsh if it's specifically him that you have a problem with in the relationship, but try to tell him the truth, he deserves to know it.
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Thank you for your advice. I think i will use it.
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