Well ... my name is Jenna. My profile can just tell you some general information. I'm a good listener, and I can actually think logically outside of the boundaries of my age. A lot of people come to me for advice for their problems, and the solutions I give work most of the time. I find it easy to talk to people - I guess I'm what you would call an "easy-going, people person." I love sports and music, as well as writing. That's pretty much it, but I hope that you find my advice to be just as good as it has for people in the past.
E-mail: lilium_inter_spinas07@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: North Carolina
Occupation: Student. Duh.
Age: 15
AIM: All Mighty Jenna
MSN: lilium_inter_spinas07@hotmail.com
Member Since: July 28, 2004
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My love for summer snow is getting a tad out of hand.. Really out of hand.
I'm too ashamed to tell my parents, so no help from them. They don't suspect much seeing how I have my own job, so it's my money I spend.
But lately it seems like what I make isn't enough to keep up with the habit. I started selling some of my shit, needless crap, just pawning it off for not much at all. I don't mean jewelry or anything, more like CDs and that crap. But dipping into my dad's wallet is sounding more and more appealing.
And to avoid the come down (it feels like your heart is literally going to explode), I'll either do more or drink or down night quill, or if I'm lucky I would have gotten my hands on some xanax to pop.
It's starting to take a toll on me physically, I haven't been able to stomach much food for like the past two weeks or so. I have bronchitis and it's the middle of the summer. I don't sleep often, my cheeks are kind of sunken. And my mother is becoming concerned with my weight lose, because she knows I'm not active in any sports.
Yeah.. I don't keep doing this.. But I don't know where to even begin in stopping. It's extremely, extremely, extremely hard for me to even go a day without a few bumps. I didn't think it could get like this, I'll sometimes even do a bump without really realizing what I'm doing, it's just become routine. I don't know. I don't know. (link)
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This is something critical, and I know you'll hate to hear this but you really need to seek help for this. Addictions are a very serious problem, because it never gets better - it can only get worse with each passing day that you don't get help for it. What's going to happen when you have pawned everything, and you've got nothing left? What will you start doing just to get another high? You don't want to ruin your life this way, and I really hate to use a cliche here - but the first and hardest step is admitting that you have an addiction to this. If you don't see anyone about this (and I hate to be this forward but it needs to be done) you could wind up dead, and where would that leave all of the people that love you? Look - your parents love you, and if you tell them about it they'll just want to help you. Sure, they'll probably be disappointed, but you're their child, and your welfare is the most important thing to them whether or not it seems like it at times. So please for your well being and others, seek help from a professional.
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What does one do when one installs Windows XP patches in hopes that it'll make the computer safer, but instead it no longer boots and the Microsoft site tells me this?
INTRODUCTION
This article describes how to perform an in-place upgrade, or reinstallation, of Microsoft Windows XP...Such a repair installation may be required if one of the following conditions is true:
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The problem is caused by a recently installed Microsoft software update, and you cannot solve the problem in any other way.
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Is legal action possible? XD
-Wraith (HPRPG) (link)
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Well as much legal knowledge I have, I have to sadly say that I am not familiar with computer legal systems. So, my advice: find a lawyer with expertise in corporations involving computers and have a consultation of some sort. Consultations do cost money most of the time, so perhaps you could find someone that does free consultations, or else do some thinking about whether or not you really want to fork the money over.
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Ok like, my boyfriend and I have been having sex for a while now. And I just haven't really been in the mood all that much anymore. I think it's because when ever he sees me he wants to do something sexual, and I don't really want to. So because of that I NEVER want to. And he gets mad and claims that he's forcing me to when he kind of is. It's really rare that I actually want to do something anymore. I would like to just spend some time together for once and not have nice things done for me without being expected for sex in return.
I don't really know what to do. It's really hard to talk to him and I have also been thinking about breaking up with him. I talked to him about taking a "break" but he got really upset and we argued for hours. But now we are still seeing eachother. And I can never talk to him because he won't listen.
He says that we could take a "break" from having sex but when I brought it up again he got mad...again. I'm just really torn and extremely confused. I'm glad I can finally ask help from somebody. Thanks so much.
Sorry it's long. (link)
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Sex is a difficult thing to bring into a relationship, as it requires a new level of commitment that both of you have to adjust to. It can cause a lot of emotional problems, as I'm sure you are experiencing at the moment. The male gender tends to be more 'sexual' so to speak, and less apt to listen to what you have to say when you feel like you don't want sex as often as he does.
As hard as it might be, you need to sit down and have a talk with him, face to face would be best so you can communicate to him your emotions directly, instead of just over the phone or an instant message.
Tell him exactly how you feel ... that maybe you would like to do some things that do not involve sex. You two could get closer and have a better relationship that way - maybe if you just took a leisurely stroll or went for dinner and a movie, and had sex less often. Maybe you could find something that both of you like and could do together. Though there is nothing wrong with a sexual relationship, it never hurt anyone to have more of that good old fashioned 'bonding time.'
Anyway ... about the approach to this proposal. You definitely don't want to end up in another argument with him. As I've said before sex takes a lot of emotional and physical commitment. Set up somewhere you can go with him - somewhere in public, but private enough so that you don't have the fat man at the counter listening to your every word. Face to face expression is very important in a situation like this. Try not to be too harsh; you might think that you aren't, but trust me when I say that male perception is very, very different. Start off with "well I've been thinking lately .." just to make sure that he wants to listen to what you have to say. Then you could follow up with "well as much as I have had sex lately, I just think that there are other things we could do to have fun and bond a bit more." Now I'm not telling you to stop having sex all together - that is entirely your decision. If you still want to continue having sex with this person, you've got to tell him that although you don't mind or even like having sex with him, you just think that maybe you should do it less, to increase the importance of it when you actually do have sex.
I hope that wasn't too long.
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i have a lexile score for reading on the bottom left of my report card... i dk wut a good score is... i have a 990 and im 13 and going on to 8th grade. is that good, bad, or okay? who ever knows wut it is plz answer!! (link)
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Okay ... coming from a state that has lexile scoring and whatnot ... I know what it's like. A 990 is very good for your age, and it means that you're an advanced reader for your age group. Keep up the good work.
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okay... well everything keeps happening one after the other. like if im in a fight with one friend then im not then i get in a fight with another friend. like they get mad at me or were just not as close as normal stuff like that keeps happening. like im trying to clean out my computer of stuff i dont want on it or need any more so i dont have that much stuff then i end ^ finding sumthing i want in the computer the next day. i think thats how you end ^ getting disorganized but i try as hard as i can not to but it ends ^ that stuff happening. i really dont like being disorganized! i dk does this happen to other ppl? i kno its kinda confusing. (link)
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Well first of all I'll tell you that this is how life works. It's not easy, and it never will be - I've learned it the hard way, and I'm quite sure that everyone does at some point or another. I'm sorry that everything is going to terribly for you, but try to keep a cool head, and maintain self control. Those are the most important things at the moment, because if you can think through a problem you'll see the bigger picture and see past what your friends are mad at you for.
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i'm 15 and i want my belly button pirced and my dad doesn't mind but my mom want let...i mean all my close friends have theres done...even my friend that has the meanest parents in the world! but i was woundering how i could get my mom to let me get it done!?? (link)
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Well I'm your age and I also want a bellybutton ring, so I can sympethize. A lot of my friends have one too, but it doesn't mean that you have to have one just because your friends do. That's how a lot of bad things get started in our society - eating disorders, non-modest trends, etcetera. I'm sure that you're exaggerating when you say that your friend has the meanest parents in the world, though it may seem like it to you. But anyway - your problem. I think you shouldn't persist with the issue. Parents don't like it when you keep on pushing one specific thing - it kind of makes them annoyed with you. So, take a break from asking, and while you're on that break think to yourself. Is this really worth it? If it is to you, then you need to think of a good yet respectful proposal for your parents. I know they might seem like they suck to you, but if you attempt it in a respectful way then they might just hear you out.
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