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Ok so i know when people say "popped her cherry" it means losing your virginity and all. And i know something happens and you bleed and all.
But whats actually happening? Why does it hurt? Can you pop it before hand so you dont have to go thru the embarassment on ur first time? (link)
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Actually, when you "pop your cherry" this means your hymen has broken, and it doesn't have be through intercourse. It can be broken by riding a bike, wearing tampon, playing sports, etc. So you could have already broken your hymen, and not even know it.
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Does anyone know what the phrase "pop your cherry" means? (link)
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The phrase, "Pop your cherry" means for your hymen to be broken. Many believe this only happens during intercourse, however, it can be broken by the simplest things -- riding a bike, playing sports, tampons, etc.
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what are some alternative/rock/pop songs about not many people understanding you, or being misunderstood, or feeling kind of alone, or something like that. (link)
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Here's some alternative/rock/pop songs about being misunderstood, etc.
"Welcome to My Life" Simple Plan
"Mizunderstood" Pink
"Let Me Go" 3 Doors Down
"Misery" Good Charlotte
"Come Clean" Hilary Duff
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Hey how can you tell when a guy likes you?? (link)
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This should be of help to you --
http://www.links2love.com/teens_flirting_2.htm
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Can anyone tell me why the original Morgan on Boy Meets World was replaced??
Thanks In Advanced!!! (link)
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The original Morgan (Lily Nicksay) left the show after Season 2, and was then replaced by Lindsay Ridgeway.
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So this guy we are basicly dating and he is really cute and really sweet. He like gives me lil kisses on my hand and on my cheek and tells me how beautiful i am but i`m sort of scared. There are other guys that like me including two of my exs that are going to be mad and never talk to me again. One of my exs I was inlove w/ but he hurt me really bad emotionaly. I mean i do like this guy that i`m going out w/ i just dont know what to do.. help please! (link)
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If you really like the guy you're dating, you should stay with him. You shouldn't break up with him, for the sole reason of two guys. Not to mention they're your ex's, and you can't let them control your love life. Especially, the one who hurt you emotionally, that's never a good thing and you were right to leave him. If the ex's end up hating you, because you're happy and with someone who treats you as you deserve -- they must not care very much.
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i do practice i just do not get any better any advice would be helpful. (link)
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Maybe, it's just not your calling, we all have things we're good and bad at. If you make an effort and practice, and your teacher still doesn't appreciate it -- don't worry about it. Because it's not even worth getting upset over, some teachers are just like that.
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look my teacher is a drawing teacher and she does not like me because i am not a good drawer ang i did not know that you went to school so advice would be helpful. (link)
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Well, I still think the steps I included the first time would be helpful in this situation, too. However, some more tips for this in particular -- draw often, and practive very often. The more you practice, the better you get and the more your teacher will think of you as a good student.
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my boyfriend and me broke up 3 weeks ago and i have been finding it hard, he has sexual footage....lot's of me and him he says he will expose me and finish my life, what should i do?
24/f
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This guy is making illegal threats against you, to make you stay with him -- this is blackmail. If I were you, I would go to your local police station and let them know exactly what he's doing to you. I know, this might be embarrasing, but you really have nothing to be embarrassed about. Because he's the one making the threats, and trying to blackmail you.
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I have this friend, let's call her V. I think she's really hilarious and overall a really fun and a good friend. But pretty much everyone in my class hates her because she's annoying. I wouldn't think this is a big problem, but my bf says the reason he doesn't talk to me at school is I'm always with her and we've pretty much broken up because of this. Also, some kids from my class have gotten grudges against me and pretty much everyone just hates me because I'm her friend.
What, oh what should I do? Should I stop being her friend? (link)
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Should you stop being her friend because everyone else doesn't like that you're her friend? Absolutely not! That's exactly what they want you to do, and you can't let them all control you. If you're boyfriend broke up with you because of one girl who's your friend -- he didn't care about you much, if at all. And neither do these other people, who don't like you because she's your friend.
I wouldn't even worry about those other people, because they're not worth your time, nor your friend's time. So stick with being her friend, and forget about everyone else. If they were really your friends, they wouldn't care if she's your friend or not. It wouldn't even cross their minds.
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Hey thx for the advice befor but i need more my friends are presuring me agin !!!! anna is being herself(a brat). i came so close to kissing my boyfriend and then it was like no dont do it. but i want to but im afraid and he wants to kiss me but he's waiting for me to do it. Can you help ???? i need this advice soon cuz i plan on doing somthing moday so please help!!!! Thx you rock !!! (link)
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I would tell your friends to stop pressuring you, or you aren't going to be friends with them anymore. Well, personally, if it were me I would tell them off and go find some new friends. Even no friends, are better than those so-called friends of yours.
If you want to kiss your boyfriend, go ahead. If not, and by the way you're talking, I don't think you're really ready. Or it's that your friends are pressuring you, so that's probably making it harder. So if you're not ready, don't do it and especially, don't do it because your so-called friends are telling you to. The best advice I have for you is -- get rid of them!
Thanks, and YOU rock!
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I have a mole on my neck, and I want to go tanning. I was wondering about how much they cost to get removed, or if there is a way to cover it up so there will be a lesser chance of it becoming cancerous? (link)
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To get it removed, it's probably going to cost you around $1,000 or more. I recommend going to a dermatologist, this could be a form of skin cancer. And I strongly advice you not to go tanning, because that too, causes skin cancer. You can always use a good self-tanner -- they look just as real, and work much better and healthier for your skin.
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Level two moderator. That is what I want to be. I need a link or something to tell me how to become one. I am already a level one. Thanx
-ALex (link)
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Hello, my fellow level one mod! Here's some advice, I aquired quite a while ago -- "When all else fails, read the FAQ." :)
http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?f=69
Here's some other advice: Answer questions daily, be a productive part of Advicenators, and give good advice. Short and sweet.
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even though i do not know who you are well i do love this advice you give me. i have a teacher who hates me how can i get her to like me as her student? (link)
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That's so sweet, it makes me really happy to know that I'm helping you with my advice! :)
It's funny, because I have been having the same problem lately. But I've finally figured out how to master the teachers, and get to where they think of you as an excellent student, and an all-around good person. So here's my secret:
1. Always say things like, "Good morning or afternoon, (Mr. or Mrs. [insert last name here]) when first getting to class. If you have enough time, ask them how they are doing today.
2. Pay very good attention in class, and be a productive student in the class room -- raise hand, answer questions asked rather than waiting for someone else to answer them and take your glory. ;)
3. Get good grades. Teachers like students that have good grades, and know that they really care about their grades. It also shows your smart, so you're not doing this only for your teacher.
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thanks well i will ask for more advice if he does more things for me any advice. (link)
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You're welcome, I'm glad I could help you! If you do need more advice, I'll be happy to help.
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Ok; Second time (and the last time so far) my boyfriend and I had sex, I bled. Needless to say, he popped my cherry. But, the other day when he was fingering me, I bled again. We just thought that he hadn't popped me all the way, so when he fingered me it finished the job. Well, last night, he was fingering me and I bled yet again. But each time I bled, I bled a little less. Is this normal?
Thanks in advance. :) (link)
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Yes, this is completely normal. In fact, most girls experience continuous bleeding for a little while.
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I have heard a number of things.. and there all different.. My Q is... is it called child molesting.. or rape or whatever for someone over 18 to date a miner, Date... with no sex.
Please anwser only if you know the correct anwser... no assuming.. just facts. (link)
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Yes, you can date someone who is over 18 -- that law only complies to sex. This goes for any state, and is a fact and law that no adult (18 and over) can have sexual relations with a minor. So as long as you don't have sex with the guy, it's not considered rape and it's completely fine to date him.
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whats a GREAT mascara that lengthens and thickens my eyelashes, that I can get at a drug store? (link)
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Maybelline Intense XXL Mascara is a wonderful mascara for lengthening and thickening your lashes -- with it's two step application, to both thicken and lengthen your lashes.
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Does anyone know how you can make your hair light? Not the light as in the colour but make my hair not feel so heavy? (link)
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Using a lightweight shampoo and conditioner on a daily basis, will make your hair not as thick. You can also go to your local hair salon, and get your hair thinned. If you're hair is extremely thick and heavy, getting your hair thinned, is a really good idea.
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HEy i JUSS GOTTA NOE iSZ SEX ERyTHiNG PPL SAy iT ISZ ..... iSZ iT WORTH WAiTiN A WHiLE OR WAT CUSZ iM REALLy CURiOUS AND i NOE iM yOUNG BUt i DUNT WANNA BE STUPiD WEN i GET A LiTO OLDER (link)
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Yes, it's definitely worth waiting a while, or even longer. You'll know when you're ready for sex, and there are a lot of things that come along with it. Feelings are attached, consequences such as possible pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases, aids, etc.
Even with birth control, and having safe sex -- there's still that 1% you could get pregnant. Or that you could get an STD, etc.
So I definitely recommend waiting until you're older, and you're really ready.
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