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so there is this guy im interested in and i swear i seriously suck at flirting.
i want him to be able to talk to me.and notice me. and get to know me, what should i do? he seems kinda not really shy. (link)
Don't say you suck at flirting! It all starts with CONFIDENCE! Once youve got that, you'll become a natural at flirting + talking to guys.

http://www.links2love.com/teens_flirting_2.htm
http://www.ehow.com/how_15903_flirt.html
http://www.buzzle.com/articles/flirting-tips-for-girls-how-to-flirt-with-a-guy.html
http://www.ehow.com/how_2090955_flirt-guy-through-text-messages.html

A few websites to get ya startedd :)


Does anyone know any like i hate you kinda songs. doesn't have to be like screamo kinda songs..just really good songs to listen to when you absolutely hate people!? (link)
It might not reaaaally be what your looking for, but its pretty good
"Hooker" by Pink, its basically a frying song. Good lyrics
Or Sad Ass Stripper by Lady Sovereign if we're talking about songs like that haha


does cellery burn calories? (link)
Celery only contains about 5 calories per stalk (is that the right word? haha)
Anyways, it does burn calories, because it takes more calories to chew and digest the celery than five calories itself.

Read thiss :)
http://ask.yahoo.com/20040107.html


when your boyfriends fingering you are you supposed to take your pants and underwear completely off or can you just leave them half way down? (link)
Whatever feels more right.
Like if you are about to have sex, you should probably take it all off, because that's foreplay.
Otherwise, what ever your preference iss.


16/f.
is is possible to be pregant without ever having sex and having your period two months in a row?

me and my boyfriend have done everything else besides sex. i gave him a hj one day and he cummed. but then he wiped his hands with a napkin. and a little while later (i don't know how long after) he fingered me. is it possible that i'm pregnant? even though i've gotten my period two months in a row now (link)
Getting your period is always a sign of NOT being pregnant.
You'll know your pregnant if you DONTTT get it, understand?
:) Just try to be a bitt more careful, just in casee!


Hi!

What is a conftorble (but cute) outfit to wear on a long airplane? (About six hours?)

What shoes do i wear? How do i do my hair?

Thanks. (link)
I've always found it to be cold when the airplans are actually in the air.
So normally when I go on plane rides, I wear some really comfortable jeans, a cute top, and a nice jacket.
Closed toe shoes are best, because like I said its cold. For hair, whatever you look best in, if you're going for cute.
I wouldn't wear like sweats and stuff, because that gives a lazy, though comfortable look, but it's not always exactly "cute."


Hey guys I need helppp!
I haven't changed my facebook profile picture in like four months, but I can't decidee!
Which do you like?

http://i26.tinypic.com/2mqrbfc.jpg
http://i29.tinypic.com/30thoat.jpg
http://i32.tinypic.com/289lxqp.jpg

Thanks for your help! (link)
Middle.


13/F

so I like this guy named Tyler.
He is in my homeroom and in my last period.
He does not know that I like him.
I don't really talk to him much, but every once in a while i do.
Me and one of my best friend Blake hang out a lot.
And not as flirting or anything like that.
Well, Tyler's and Blake's lockers are really close.
And Tyler asks Blake if me and him were going out.
Does that mean that he is interested or curious? (link)
Yeah most likely. He wouldnt ask for no reason. Stop flirting with Blake and Tyler will ask you out! :)


ok so people told me that all 3 of the presidential candidates are Christian but (not trying to offend anyone here) how can you be a Democrat and a Christian?? Democrats are for stem cell research (using developing babies for science!! thus killing them, etc.) and they are for abortion (basically murdering a baby) and they are ok with gay unions and marriages and such. i mean those things definitely go against God!! its right there in the Bible!! im NOT trying to offend im just truly puzzled by how they can support this when it is so clearly not the wish of God. thank you :) (link)
we're not FOR abortion or gay marriage or anything,
we're just not AGAINST IT!
IT SHOULDN'T BE A FREAKING LAW.

Abortion should be between the mother and the doctor and God, not up to YOU or a president.
Republicans are just trying to control and make lots of pointless laws.

I'm 100% Christian & 100% Democrat.

Thanks bye.


You know you were kinda mean to that kid. Just because he is a year too young for this site doesn't mean what he is feeling is not valid. We both know that in 4 days at that age it can't be love, but it is an emotion that has him confused and he reached out for some advice. What I don't understand is if you didn't have anything constructive to offer him why you didn't just scroll past his question? Was it really necessary to be so dismissive?? (link)
I'm sorry about that. I didnt know it would hurt him or anything.


i have really short eyelashes so i really want long ones for prom coming up but everytime i wear fake eyelashes, the corners always end up peeling off. i tried basically every mascara, expensive to cheap. i dont like it because they always get clumpy. so im wearing fake eye lashes for sure.

im getting my makeup done so do you think that because of the fact that ive put fake eyelashes on myself that they always fall off? cuz it might be different if someone else does it for me.

they really need to last throughout the whole night, after party, and the sleepover.

so should i just get the makeup artist to put them on or is it still gonna peel off, anyway?

there's also professional eyelash extension people but i have to drive so far for that and its soo expensive. plus they last for months and thats not necessary. i just need it for the whole night and until the morning when i go home.

so are makeup artists able to make them last that long or is are they just gonna fall of the same way they do when i put them on myself?



help!!!!! :( (link)
If you get whoever is doing your make-up to do them, you should be good. A professional will know what they're doing and will most likely do a better job than if you try it yourself. The only thing that they might not last through is the sleeping--just because you might be tossing/turning. But you should take your make up off before bed anyways--better for your skin :). I know that'll be the last thing you'll be thinking about though haha.

You might want to call the place you have your appointment and let them know you want lashes ahead of time.


i had sex about exactly 2 months ago in february.. i was supposed to get my period around march 1st but i ended up getting it a week late.. and that sometimes happens with me .. but so far i havent gotten my period and i was supposed to get it around the 6th of this month because thats when i got it last month.. i still havent gotten my period and im about 2 weeks late. so is there a possibility that im pregnant even though i had my period in between the last time i had sex and now? (link)
Should you be having sex if you don't know the answer to this?

No. If you have your period after you have sex you're not pregnant. Please educate yourself before having sex again.


I'm looking for a new computer...will i be able to transfer all of my music to it? How does this all work?

thank you (link)
yeppp get your self a flash drive and just move all those music icons into it, and you can tansfer it. you can also transfer documents, pictures, etc.
aaaaaaaaaandd if you dont know how to get your music, click search on the start bar, and then just type in a name of a song, and then it should take you to a folder where your music should be.


I currently use itunes just because i have an ipod BUT i hate paying a dollar for every song :/ i don't even use my ipod cuz i can't afford to put the albums i want on there

SO

I was wondering if anyone knew of a cheaper program? I would be more than willing to pay monthly!! And can this program easily transfer my music to my ipod?



ps: don't suggest limewire.. all that free stuff gives me viruses. thanks youu! (link)
Well you can downlode CDs from your local music store onto itunes and it dosnt cost anything to downlode onto itunes. And itunes is thinking of making their program so that you pay a monthly fee but you can buy all the songs you want.


ok so im a cutter. i know i ned help. but is there any way to cut urself that is the least painful? im scared of it since i just started cutting myself. i dont want my parents to find out. how can i cut myself without causing more pain than i have to? (link)
If you really cant stop, then work your way up to stoping. Start off by not cutting into your skin but making scratches then wear a rubber band on your wrist at all times and whenever you feel like cutting just pull on the rubber band.


ive been going out with this amazing girl for 4 days but the problem is i dont think she knows i love her /i dont think she loves me,can sum1 tell me a way to tell her i love her,by the way im 12 years old and we hav kissed twice like just a little pek though. (link)
I'm sorry but anyone under 13 isnt alowed on here. So if you could please avoid this site until your old enough.


i'm in love with the shirt kate wears in "john tucker must die" when she goes out with him. i haven't been able to find that style anywhere, where it ties in the front in the middle of your lower chest.

http://www.aolcdn.com/red_galleries/brittany-snow-john-tucker-400a082007.jpg

it's kinda hard to see but the shirt shes wearing in that scene.


thank you so much! (link)
I found one just like that in white at old navy!


Well whats the definition of thrash? n can it be caused because of stress? thnks a dozen! (link)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thrash


How do you graduate your junior year? I noticed that a few people are doing that in my high school but doesn't every highschool require four years of English, so how do they manage that? (link)
The best thing to do is talk to your counselor because each school district handles that differently. The people I know that graduated early took alot of summer school and did not graduate on th recommended plan--they graduated on minimum which colleges don't like.


is "kinky" considered a cuss word?
like if you said it in front of mom or dad what would they say?
or in front of a high school teacher?

(link)
It's not necessarily a cuss word but many people might be offended by it.




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