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Q: ok here it is me and my x bf(now) we were together 4 like a few months and we broke up because im moving over the summer but the thing is that i still have feelings 4 him and he told me the same thing i dont know if i should go back out with him even though i know he still likes me and he said so himself...im 14 and live in fla by the way
Well i think you guys could go out until you move but still remain good friends thats the most you can do cuz i can relate to that and i just remained friends

Q: i've been kinda cutting myself...it was kinda stupid at first but now it's serious. my life is kinda like crap rite now. grades, family, friends, and love...all that jazz. sometimes i feel like i just randomly wann cutt myself. i hate it. i know there is other ways to work it put but i don't wanna talk to my family and i've already talked to my friends. please help me and don't just pick on or make fun of me...really answer this question.

signed,
confused and lost
Well if you are worried maybe about your family maybe putting you in treatment its only for the better and i think you should talk to them wether you wanna or not. Cuz talking to them only makes you guys' relationship stronger but you'll also get better!! Im sorri that you are having this prob. A few of my friends have this prob. And you are right thats not the way to handle things so please hurry up and take care of yourself!! take care sweetie! -trix

Q: I have naturatly light ash blonde hair, which is about 2 inches long on top. I really want to dye the tips of my hair red, but I dont know how to go about it! What would I have to do to just dye the tips??
I dont think you can.. cuz you minize well dye your whole head otherwize you will be throwing away die.. so die your whole head.

Q: my crush says that he can't get a gf right now because he is busy with other stuff! I heard he likes me from my other classmates. does that mean he is not that into
Well he may like you but he may not be having the free time to have a gf and is trying to keep up with school and friends. A boyfriend/girlfriend isnt the main thing in life at our age

Q:
ok so a couple years ago, i realllly liked this one guy, and it sucked cause he didnt like me back..
well i got over him & everything and two years later (now) i realized that im starting to like him all over again.. and i havent even really talked to him very much, but its like dejavu and im feeling all that stuff all over again
should i go with my heart and like him again or just try to avoid this?

thank you!
I would try to avoid it being that you dont talk to him much and you already went thru pain from him

Q: I have been with my boyfriend for three years n still havent got pregant n it is really scaring me because I want a baby now.What shounld I do.
You may want to go to the dr.

Q: ok i went out with this kid and we were going out 4 about 7 mouths and i love him still but he has bin going out with another grl now for about 5 mouths and i still cant get over him and tomorrow his grl friend is planning on jumping me and i no i coyuld kick her ass cause i have done it b4 but i dont no how to get over him i have to see him everday because im on the wrestling team and so is he and he is the capin but i go moved up to his team cause i could beat everyone on the other team and i have to wrestle him and i dont no what to do HELP????
Kick his ass!!! Just go all out on hiM!! woot woot!! just take out all your anger on him!! he deserves it

Q: My friend just spread a rumor saying i wanted to have sex with my cousin who everyone knows b/c he's my age. I want to just beat my "friend" up or cuss her out, but i know that's not the right thing to do. Anyone have any suggestions? and DONT tell me to just talk to her. I want to say something that'll make her wish she never messed with me!
Well talk to your cousin and see if he has heard anything and what he thinks about it. And have him talk to them. And that sounds like a sick joke if you ask me and this friend of yours needs to mature

Q: I'm not 11 so don't worry. But anyway do you guys think its wrong for two 11 year olds to make out? Two 11 year old kids were making out in my school the other day and I'm in my teens and never been kissed! I just don't think it's fair. What do you guys think?
I admit its kinda wierd.. but wierd things happan. Life is just wierd. Thats how life is. Just give it time and you will eventually kiss someone

Q: Hey guys!I don't really know how to explain this but I'll try!Ok..there's this guy that I like and I want to get to know him more and just have a real conversation instead of a few words once in a while..well it happens like everyday.I'm kinda shy so I don't know what to do to start a conversation!I know that kinda sounds stupid but I'm asking it anyway..thanks!
Well i doubt he will start the convo.. cuz what if he is shy then he wont so like on mon. jus ask him what he did that weekend...

Q: I Asked a question earlier about what songs I should put on a CD for my boyfriend for his christmas gift and you had the best ideas so far and i was just wondering if you had any more. Thanks so much!
Let me love you-mario over and over-nelly & in my life my boo-usher everything-alicia keys beautiful soul-jesse McCartney From this moment-shania twain your still the one-shania twain and you've got a way-shania twain your the inspiration-chicago we can last forever-chicago
_-_sorri this took so long i was grounded_-_

Q: i really need help in science im in physical science right now and my teacher is really hard!!! i fail of of the tests he says that we need to understand it and not memorize it and alot of science teachers i know have that same exact motto but i think i understand it but im not sure can someone show me how to answer the questions on the test or give me some tips
Well go to the counsolar and check about tutors.. i got a rele hot guy tutor who is a grade older but hes fine!

Q: i dont eat breakfast or lunch (only on school days). i dont because at lunch i dont feel comfortable eating around other people. like im afraid my crush will walk by and see me eating. but when i get home i make up for the missed meals. i'll have like an equivalent to lunch, then later dinner, then sometime after maybe some fruit and chips or something else. since im still getting the nutrition for each day, is this wrong?
Get over it. Everybody eats. I got that prob. to but you cant tell him to leave dinner and to come back when your done. Dont knock him out and revive him either that doesnt work!

Q: omg my mother is a clean freak im not a clean freak but not lazy she hates stacking (i stack my papers) every weekend i say and wanna be organized but im always so busy and of course i cant on weekdays can someone give me adive
What? i got so lost... just tell her to cut down a bit

Q: ive been trying to get over loving him for two years, but nothings happening... i know youve been in love before, how did you stop loving that person?
Well.. You cant ever stop loving your first love.. You can fall out of love but you will always have feelings for that guy.. you just gotta move on

Q: I have a history with someone, but im too scared to tell them how i feel. I dont know what to do, and I'm scared that we are just friends now, so im scared of being rejected, what should i do?
Well you to should hang out first and go from there.. you cant expect to go out with someone just out of the blue you have to build up to that and work from that not just from scratch ya no.. talk to him more often

Q: have you ever been in love? and do you think its possible to be in love and love somebody else? or do you think that you can only really fall in love once in you life?
Yes, no, no you can fall in love alot of times.. but i dont think you can really love to guys at once-hands down except for your first love u wil never stop loving .. u fall out of love not just stop loving..
TRIXy!!

Q: i might be moving to texas, half way across the country. i am really scared because i dont want to leave behind the life i have now and enter a new one. on the other hand there are some good things, but does anyone have any advice on this? if i do move, how can i make it more bearable? does anyone live in texas?
Hey!! you've asked the right person!! Yes alot of people live in texas. My friend Dane's dad lives there and he likes it. Its hot.. well duh! i know a couple people from there to. I met them in minneapolis though. I moved and I didnt want to so i looked at the bright side u no and i was like well my slate is wiped clean and i can turn over a new leaf and start everything all fresh a new life new friends .. its not so bad.. just making them sometimes can be hard.. Good Luck though!! if you need any more help im just a click away! :) TRIXY!

Q:
I've recently paid the funeral expenses for my father's funeral out of the estate account. ($10,000)....should any travel expenses be paid to family members ( out of state)....???

Is there a travel allowance ??
No, you shouldnt have to plus its a funeral everybody should come anyways.. and you want a nice funeral for your dad. Or if you think that your dad wants me to have the money then.. well im here.. its what you dad would have wanted i think.

Q: Ok see there is this kid in one of my classes that I like and I know he like me because he is always flirting with!! And I want to ask him out but he is 2 of my friends Ex
well ask your friends about how they feel if u 2 were to go out and if they would get mad and if they sya no then go for it

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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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