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Wanting a baby I have been with my boyfriend for three years n still havent got pregant n it is really scaring me because I want a baby now.What shounld I do.
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I'm not quite sure if this has been said already, but here goes.
I've always been told, that the stress from wanting a baby, can put off on actually getting one.
Whenever the stress is gone, or you no longer feel the pressure to have a child, maybe it will happen.
Don't rush things.
Good luck to you.
I hope it helps.
-Hailie ]
when your body is ready to have one or maybe you should wait to next year just wait on it and the time will come ]
adopt? ]
You try for a bit longer if its not working and there is something wrong with you or your boyfriend mabe you should or would like to adopt roxie xxx ]
Dear Wanting-baby,
Please go to your gynecologist immediately. There might be more to it then you think. Good luck and God bless you.
♥Sarah ]
Actaly alot of people have probelms with having kids, go to the doctor he can give u something to make it easier for you, and there are shots n stuff to,idont mean to scare you lol, but i mean there is alot of ways to help you guys out ]
1st of all e mail me and i will chat with you about this k my e address is Mustang82@sbcglobal.net ]
Get married. ]
Go to a Guyno doctor *&* get a examination...see if it there is something that is stopping you from having a child. If not ask the doctor about possible medications to enhance your chance of getting pregnant!hope this help'd! ]
You really should get married for moral and legal reasons before having a child. It would also help with the much needed insurance that you need to have a child in the hospital.
In addition to the "are you really ready yet" answer, why don't you babysit for some relatives and see how it really feels. There are people who volunteer in hospitals to rock unwanted crack/AIDS babies that really need some attention to get better. I know that sounds weird, but it will help you in the long run. Go to the store with a list of all the things you need to take care of a child. It's expensive even for a week.
Both of you do need to be checked out as to health and fertility with a doctor. ]
You should go tho the docters and see if u can have one ]
are you really ready for one..i mean..diapers, clothes, formula...rent, insurance for the million doctors visits?? No sleep for the first few months..no social life as all you do is take care of the baby..
if you are so ready to committ to a LIFELONG baby..with your b/f..why not marry...?? I mean if you can think of this..why not pool your resources..make it legal so you can have insurane then try.
If you are ready both mentally and fiancially...try the ovulation precdiction kit..to tell when you are fetile. Woman are only fertile a few days a month..so it is a small window.
If you are taking medicine, under stress or have irregular periods..those are all factors in having a baby.
I would go have a checkup (boht of YO0 to make usre all is working correctly. ]
How long have you been trying for a baby for? A lot of people who are desperate for a baby find they can't conceive because they are so stressed about it and that does affect how your body works. Have you found a book on pregnancy? That give you tips on foods you should eat, excercise you should take, as well as certain times of the month and during the day that it is easier to conceive. The main thing to do is relax and enjoy the fact that you will be a mum at some point. Books and websites have great advice on tips you should take whilst rying to conceive. You can also take daily pills and vitamins which I know some friends took before starting a family. Good luck and don't worry! ]
oh wow... how old are you may I say? and I think you should get married before you get pregnant just because of economically that's better plus you won't have to worry about names.. ]
You should get married before you have a baby with him. You guys should go to a doctor and see if one of you isnt able to have a baby ]
You might have a pregnancy problem. The best thing to do is go to the doctor to find out wuts wrong! Good Luck
~Brina~ ]
you should go to a docter and discuss about your problem with not getting pregnant and maybe your bf doesn't have enought sperm cells to produce. ]
You may want to go to the dr. ]
you should get married first ]
just hope and pray and god will answer your wants ]
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