It depends on your height.

Check here:
http://www.seventeen.com/health-sex-fitness/bmi-calculator/


It will explain everything and let you know(:

Jess♥

I understand what you're saying. I deal with my anxiety levels too. You're definitely not wierd, believe me. Anxiety is normal, but I think you have irrational fears. To some extent, they could be rational, if you see what I'm saying.

I'm not a doctor, so all I'm going to tell you to do is to remember to just relax and start breathing when you get anxious. It sounds lame, but I do it to help me. If it gets to the point where you really can't handle it, I'd go your physician and they could direct you to someone who could help.

Good Luck! (I know what you're going through!)
Jess♥

Well I'm not positive that there's anything out there to help moisturize that part of your body, but you could always check your local drug store.

What I would do is just use a gentle bodywash and don't shave the crap out of your underarms. (I'm not saying you do). Also, keep your skin moisturized. Sometimes it's just the fact that you have dry skin.


Jess♥

Sex is pleasure.


I can't explain absolutely EVERYTHING, & I know most people hate websites, but I promise this will help you.

www.sexetc.org


Jess

Alright, good. Raping's a no-no. Haha. Anyhow, one, it depends on the pill. Two, it depends on the weight of the person. That's usually how doctors tend to base ther dosage amount.

Jess♥

People have different opinions, I guess. But the common definition of what "having an ego" means is that people who have an ego think that they're the best; They think they're right, they're fairly picky about who they hang out with, etc. My ex is living proof of having an ego.



Jess♥

There's TONS upon TONS of bands out there; it all depends on what you prefer. Honestly, for me, I can't even name one specific genre of music I like because there's so much. I'll give you a couple, but you could always check Myspace, click on music on the navigation bar, go down to the bottom, & start searching the genres. It's easier than it sounds.

Anywhoooo, here's a few:
AFI
Hollywood Undead
Creed
UnderOath
Breaking Benjamin
Cold
Celldweller
The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus
Gym Class Heroes
Rise Againist
Young Love


Hope a few helped,
much love,
♥Jess

You're not fat!! God, why would people say that? You seem the perfectly ideal weight! Maybe they're just misunderstanding your height. But no, you're FINE. Don't worry!



Jess♥

Definitely! I've gotten it, and unless your super confident, I think we all have. It might just be anxiety. But it's perfectly normal. I don't think that means you shouldn't go out with them; honestly, it's up to you; follow your first instinct.

I believe in giving people a chance, most definitely. Eve if they mean a lot to you & you don't want to lose them.

:)

Jess♥

Like the other Advicenators mentioned, I would try your regular doctor. You could try the Internet, but just be careful where you get your info from. If you still are questioning, there might be a clinic near you to test.


I'm not so sure if this is exactly what you're lookig for, but I'd check it out:

http://www.sexetc.org/page/get_tested/


I hope I helped at least a little:)
Jess♥

Listen to me: HE'S NOT WORTH IT!

"He has told my friend that if I dont change then he will break up with me"


Is that the kind of guy you want to be with? I understand that you really like him, but if he can't accept you for who you are, then it SHOULD be over. I'm not saying this to be a bitch, or to be rude, but think about it. You never, EVER, want someone who'll make you change! And I also get the impression that he wants you to do things that you're not comfortable with, right? Or you don't want to take the risk? Can you say JERK?! As hard as it is to move on, there ARE other people out there for you. Someone who WON'T want you to chnage, someone who WILL love you for you, NO MATTER WHAT. I'll admit, the situation you're in isn't easy, and I understand that. But I need you to understand that everything I just explained is for your best benefit. Just trust me; I've dealt with assholes, I've dealt with guys who just wanted my body, and you don't need that. You need someone who CARES, and not just about the physical [pleasures].


Jess♥

Yes, pregnancy is possible.


Jess♥

I think you shouldn't say anything that will make him think you're trying to get involved, but I'd try something like,


"I'm sure your grandfather was a great person and was a good role model. Just remember I'm here to talk anytime."



Try to get around saying flat-out, "I'm sorry"
Personally, I think it's just kind of too harsh, in some terms, & it's too casual for people to say. Also, please don't say, "I know how you feel," Whether or not you've had a similar experience, it's just not a good thing to say. I'm sure your friend's looking for comfort, not sympathy.


Jess♥

I think any kind of bright colors would look fantastic :D

I would avoid anything neon.


And, then again of course, black and/or white would look fine too.


Jess♥

Livejournal.com


Just set up an account, (it's free), & just when you go to click "save entry", set the settings below to private.

But, if you don't have a friends list, there's a good chance no one will see it anyways.


Jess♥

If you'll have sex with him just because you don't want to lose him, that's a BAD IDEA. If you're ready, that's perfectly fine. But if you're doing it just because, not a good foundation for the relationship.

If he can't like/love you for who you are without trying to get in your pants, that's not the type of guy you want. Because it is possible to lose him either way. Consider this:

You give it up, he dumps you.
You don't give it up, he dumps you.

If you can honestly put your trust in him, go for it.

But believe me, I've been put in this situation before. And yes, I do realize that this puts a TON of pressure on you. But you can't let him (or your body!) make the decisions for you.

Also, you don't list your age. So, ESPECIALLY if you're under 16, I wouldn't even be considering ANYTHING.

(And I'm not condoning pre-marital sex)

I hope this puts things into perspective,
Jess♥

Well, that's all up to you. But first of all, you have to ignore it. (Unless you fit into this category, & you do sleep around, but I really doubt it or else you wouldn't have a problem with any of this.)

I'd either talk to her, or just not hang around with her. I know it'd be tough, but it you're really that concerned about the labels people throw at you, that's something you('d) have to put up with if you're friends with her.


Jess♥

Yea, I've heard my friends have the same problems. I don't think it can be fixed. I guess it's just the structure of the phone.



Jess♥

Depending on if you want your job to be seasonal, these are a few options:

ice cream parlor
somewhere in the mall


Honestly, you'll have to talk to your employer. Whatever is close to where you live & if the job is something you enjoy, or you might be interested, inquire about everything to your employer.

:)


Jess♥

Don't worry about it. Other males might take longer to develop their voices at different times. Guys usually stop growing (for the most part) at 18. But I'm almost positive your voice won't take that long !


Jess.♥.

Heyyyy, I'm jess. I love to help other people, no matter what. I've been through enough bs to know when to just stop and walk away. I don't judge; feel free to ask me anything. I have quite the temper. But, what makes me a good advice-giver is that for the most part, I'm genuinely empathetic and willing to help.
(:

I've had a lot of experiences with piercings, bullying, family problems, and even sexual issues (no std's)- but with the emotional part of it. I love music, so I give good, basic advice about that, too. Also, I deal with severe anxiety and depression, and have been in treatment numerous times. On top of that, I have OCD (Obsessive Complulsive Disorder), and because I've been around people addicted to drugs, or cutting, I can help! Just give me the chance.

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www.myspace.com/itskittybitchx

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