about

Hey. Its Ashleigh. Hm, I finally decided to change this thing.


I have an amazing fiance, and I love him with all my heart.


We have a 7 year age gap, but that doesn't bother us. He is 22 if you are wondering.


We have been together for 3 years! Which amazes us both. We got engaged on February 2, 2007. & we found out we were pregnant in around May. I'm due in January 2008.


This is my second column on here, my first one being "mayonnaise".


I have a wonderful twin sister, Alexandra. She has a column, but hardly ever uses it.


I love piercings, and I currently have a little over 20. I also have two tattoos. Before you ask my brothers own a tattoo shop which is how I got my tattoos.



I'm Bipolar, and ADHD. I also am OCD. I have Tourettes. I've also had problems with Anorexia and Bulimia. I've been in rehab twice for my eating disorders. And I also had a PEG feeding tube in my stomach for a while.


I live in Lizard Lick, North Carolina.


If you are wondering where that is, its about 15 minutes away from Raleigh.


My fiance and I are attempting to buy a house in Raleigh. Getting out of this town is a huge priority.


I do have my permit, so I can drive. :]


My fiance recently bought me a car that isn't a piece like my 280z was.


I now have a 2007 Honda Civic! :]


I'm home schooled, and I'm in the 11th grade.


And that's about all you need to know about me.


I don't give amazing advice, and I admit it sucks sometimes. I try to give advice based on my opinion, because I don't give a fuck what you think about my answer. Feedback is a must. :]

advice


I love polar bears, but I can't ever find any cute aim icons or avatars. Can someone help? Please.

Hi.


Go to iconator.com

You can search for icons there, plus they have a ton to choose from if they don't have what you are looking for, but I'm pretty sure they do.

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Hello. I was wondering if anyone has gotten a tattoo on their hip before, and if so what kind of design. I'm not getting a tattoo anytime soon, but I'd like to get one in the future whenever I save up money. If someone can give me any really good sites that have nice hip tattoos, please let me know. Thank you very much. I don't need anyone telling me anything else. I already have 2 tattoos. I appreciate anything I can get :)

Hi.

My fiances sister has one on her hip. Its of a butterfly on a flower. Its real pretty.


I use www.bmezine.com a lot. I think its an amazing tattoo and piercing website. Theres a ton of pictures you can look at, and they are put into catagories, so its easy to find what you want.


Good Luck.

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does google leave footprints on your Xanga? its creeping me out

what does that even mean??

Hi.

I think but I'm not sure, but it means that like a person typed in your site in google and went to it through that.

Because I have typed mine in on google and then clicked the link and it showed up as google.com.

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13/f
alright so i was watching spongebob the other night and squidward said his line and it was, "I QUIT WORKING AT THE KRUSTY KRAB!" so then i thought to myself "well what is squidward going to do for income?" im thinking like it's some reality!! and that's when i caught myself that i do that all the time about thing,...
what's wrong with me???

Hey.


There is nothing wronge with you. You just think things out. I'm the same exact way, a lot of people are.



It kinda means that you actually use your brain unlike people who just let their brain rot.


Anyways, Don't worry about anythings. Nothings wronge with you.

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Other than limewire...Which i have...
Where can you download free movies???


Thanks

I use Bearshare.

You can download it on bearshare.com

You can download movies and music. Of course, its free. Also, its legal.


I think its faster than Limewire too.

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My dad is gay and married another man!! AHHHH!! I hate being around because he used to be straight!! AHHHHHHHHH!

Hi. I really don't get what your question is, but I'll try to give you my opinion.

Obviously, your dad is an adult, and unfortunatly there is nothing you can do to change his feelings. But try calling him one night, and tell him how you feel. He should care about your feelings just as much as he does yours.

Sometimes people change, and it really sucks. Just tell him how you feel, and have a "heart to heart" talk. It should make you feel a lot better.

Good Luck with everything.

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well i've been friends with this girl name elizabeth since kindergarten after alittle while i got mixed up classes and had a new friend name victoria we play basketball together football we go to the movies and all the bff stuff victoria is also friends with elizabeth me and her dont want to hang with her because she dosent want to do what we want to do what should me amd victoria do

Hi. I really hate with that happens..it sucks.

Ask Elizabeth what she wants to do, and if you are Victoria wanna do it, then do that.

Try doing what Elizabeth wants to do one weekend, and then let Victoria choose one weekend, then you choose. Me and my friends used to do that in middle school, I ended up having a ton of fun, when I though I wouldn't.

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Has anyone ever been to Costa Rica? If so, how was it? I am going there with EF Tours next summer and I was wondering what you thought of it.

Hi. My fiance' took me there on our anniversery last year. It is absolutly beautiful! I loved it. They have amazing beaches and scenery. I thought the shopping and food was very unique. I went in April and the weather was great. I really wouldn't mind going again this year, but I think he has Ireland planned. Anyways, Hope you have a good trip! I'm sure you will enjoy it!

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I'm new to this site so bare with me.

I am a 14/f. My sister is 13. My sister always steals (excuse me.."borrows") my clothes to wear to school after I leave for school (I'm in High School &

she's in Middle, so I leave an hour and a half earlier).

This is SO annoying, for several reasons. One, she doesn't ask, she just picks them up and goes. I used to not mind if she asked, but it's gotten so

frequent now that I get agitated, anyway.
Second, when I ASK her if she has any of my clothes, more often than not, she'll lie to me and say no. A lot

of times, I've tested her by finding some of my clothes that she has taken. Then, I would ask her if she wore it, and she'll say, "no." Of course, I

know she's lying because I already found the clothes in her room. Also, whenever I ask, she's always like, "WHY WURR U DIGGIN 'ROUND IN MAH

LAUNDRY" and frankly, that is so hypocritical of her, since almost everyday she digs around in MY closet. And besides, I don't dig around in her laundry:

I find the clothes when emptying her stuff out of the washer/dryer.

The biggest reason of all why I HATE it when she takes my stuff, is she fucking stretches them. I first notied this a couple of months ago - one of my

shirts that she had borrowed was looser on me. I didn't say anything because I thought I was imagining it. But my fear was confirmed when she

borrowed a pair of my shorts, WHICH WAS CUSTOM MADE *FOR ME* (8th grade home ec class..good times :P) and *BY ME*, and after I found them, they no longer fit me as well as they used

to. They slide down when I jump now :( Also, a white shirt that I had went missing last year (I think she borrowed it and never returned it), and I only found it in the basement this past weekend. I've only worn it once, and it was a nice fit on me. Then my sister comes along, TAKES it, and of course, I noticed immediately it was gone because I now have to keep tabs on all my stuff so I know asap when something is missing. Anyway, I washed it and tried it on again, and now she stretched it SO much that the bottom lining of the shirt RIPPED so it's all loose and not that good of a fit anymore. (note: it was a size small, so it was kinda tight on me anyway)

She says she takes my stuff because she doesn't have enough clothes to wear. Bull fucking shit. If she only took the time to find all her clothes and pack them neatly every once in a while, she would see she has just as much stuff as I do, if not more. My closet only appears full because half the stuff in there are stuff I'd only wear to parties & stuff.

So my question is, how can I make her stop taking my stuff, and how can i tell her politely it's because she stretches them? (I NEED to tell her she stretches them, because no other reason, not even for the sake of my privacy, will stop her from raiding my closet, apparently.)

Please don't tell me to tell my parents, my mom neutral and all about "sharin' is carin'" and my dad is on my side but he doesn't enforce it. ty

I kinda agree with the first person about the lock. My older sister did that for a few months. I found out that Lowe's sells these nifty closet locks. I would consider you getting one, if you talking to her doesn't work.

Anyways, you need to sit her down one day in your room and tell her how you feel. Tell her that you don't like her wearing your clothes because you buy them for yourself to fir you perfectly, and since yall are not the same size they won't fit her the same. Say something like, "Hey [insert name here], I really don't like you wearing my clothes, its a pet peeve of mine. I buy them for myself to fit me, and sometimes you don't fit into them as well as me. Will you please not wear my clothes." I think the whole "pet peeve" concept should work.


Good Luck.

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I am 13 I wanna get my nose peirced and I'm gonna pay and all that but my mom don't care if I do or not and my dad said not till 16 and I REALLY want it done !!!!!!!!! What should I say to my dad to get him to say yes !!??!!

First, you need to prove to him that you are responsible enough to take care of it. Prove to him that you can take care of it, and it won't get infected. Do you have any other body piercings? If you do, then explain how you took such good care of them. If you don't then, I'm assuming you have at least your ears pierced. Tell him that your ears never got infected.

Write him a letter/essay and explain why you want to get it done. Don't use stupid things such as "it will look cool", "everybody else has it", "[insert name here]'s dad didn't care that she/he got it" Be very mature about it.

Don't argue when he says no. Accept it and use better reasoning next time.

Tell him you are paying for it. That should loosen him up a little.


And just help out around the house. Prove that you are responsible and mature enough to have it done.

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my boyfriend and I have had sex alot, but the past few times I have been bleeding. The first time I thought I just popped my cherry but the next time we had sex, (a week later) it bleed again. It wasn't alot though. should I be conserned? what do you think is happening?? thanks soo much if you answer.

There isn't anything to worry about. I bleed the first 3-4 times.

All it is, is that your hymen wasn't broken completely the first time. No need to worry. It happens to most girls.

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why do people "pack" cigarettes? like hit them against their palm or something before they open them?

My boyfriend and brother do it. It makes the cigarettes last longer.

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i have this idea to like buy a carnation for random kids at school that normally dont get appreciated. i dont want to tell my friends and such, so they dont tell others, so that they'll expect it.. then it wont be the same. like i'll buy 1 or 2 roses for like the kids, and the people will give it to them. i read it in a book called "chicken soup for the teenage soul" or whatever, that someone did that and it like changed their life. so do you think this is a good idea? :]

Wow, Thats an amazing idea.
I say go for it! :D

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thankyou so much, but it doesnt have any websites just folders with comp languege stuff in it, am i looking in the right things? it found 13 files, some need to be opened with special stuff etc.....

If you look at the file name before you click on it, then you will see the website name. I don't think you are in the right place though, unless you delete your cookies reguarly. It should have every website you've gone to in it. Oh, and You're Welcome.

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I've been thinking about going to Mexico for my sweet 16. Mainly because I love the flowery clothes and bags there, and I love to take pictures.

If anyone has been to mexico or knows about it, can you estimate whther it will be pricy? what is the culture over there like? what's up with the food? any good shopping (not designer, i like thrifty things). Thanks!

My boyfriend took me on a cruise to Cancun. From what I later found out the plane to Florida to get on the ship and the cruise itself was outragous. Shopping was a bit pricey. They have pretty good food on Cancun itself. And of course, amazing shopping. I would recommend it to anyone. But if you go expect of spending a few grand.

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how do i check the cookies?

Go on his computer and do the following;

Go to "Start"
Click on "Search"
Click "All Files & Folders"
Type in "Cookies"
Hit the "Search" button
When the Cookies file shows up click on it, and you can see all the websites he goes to and a few other random things. A lot of people don't even bother deleting these.

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i have internet explorer and when i hit the drop down thing it shows the websites i typed in to view. what do you press to delete these websites because i saw my friend do it once but she does not remember how to do this anymore
please answer soon!

The whole delete history thing doesn't get it off your computer, just Internet Explorer.

To get it off the computer go to "Start"
Click on "Search"
Click "All Files & Folders"
Type in "Cookies"
Hit the "Search" button
When the Cookies file shows up click on it, and delete everything in it BUT the one that says "index"
Then go to Recycle Bin and delete them all.

Then its off your computer, never to be found again! :D

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Does anyone have that survey for your ipod where you like, put your ipod and shuffle on each different question?

I searched bzoink.com and found these;

http://www.bzoink.com/S57843/iTunes_Surveyy_=].html

I'm pretty sure that this is the one you're talking about;

http://www.bzoink.com/S98968/iPod_Shuffle-Shuffle_Your_iPod_Songs_&_Put_Them_In_Order!.html

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hi, i was just wondering if there was a way that i could check for hidden porno vidoes etc on my boyfriends comp, without downloading anything on there to do it?
also, once the comp history is deleted, is there anyway of looking it up again for the last day or so?
any help would be great, please be simple with your answers tho lol, im not extremly computer smart, just wanna see if my boyfriend is lieng to me, thanks xx

There are many ways. You can look at the cookies on his computer. I used to think this about my boyfriend and after going WAYY out of my way, found out he was telling the truth. Trust your boyfriend. If he really loves you he won't lie to you, and if he is telling the truth, just think of how he will feel about what you did.

But just check out the cookies on his computer.

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21/f

I'm just very curious about this, I'm trying to sort things out to see if I suffer of an "obsession". I've had a crush on a guy for more than 1 year (never got out actually and it's kind of out of the question), and I also didn't have any sexual intercourse for 7 months or so (neahh, if it's not Mr.Right, then it won't be anyone else, LOL).

So, back to my question. I'd like to know what was the longest period you had in which you've been "obsessed" by someone - couldn't stop thinking of her/him. I'd of course appreciate if you'd also give a little "age range", just in order for my "survey" to be more accurate.

Err... I know, I know, "Curiosity kills the cat", but... I'm so damn curious!! :P

Well, I'm 14 and I had a crush on my boyfriend for about 6 months or more before we started dating. I've been with him almost 2 years. He is 21 though, if that matters. We actually plan on getting married when we are both ready for it.

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