about

Hi, I'm Kristin..

I'm sixteen
I love to read the directions on everything.. Shampoo, cake, you name it..
I'm a pretty laid back person, in general.
I don't like annoying people, or things, but then again-- who does?
It really bothers me when people walk slow.
I'm really into photography and my camera is my pride and joy.
It's about the only thing I'm known to take care of in my life.
I'm on drumline.
Austin and Tarra are my Best friends
I'm in band, which goes along with the drumline.
i love just standing in the rain.
I'm easy to get to know.
Easy to lose my trust
Hard to get it back.
Obbessive people really aggrivate me

advice

well i did community service last week with my friend and a bunch of kids from my school, and we had to serve food and stuff to the senior citizens. i got assigned table 1 and so did josh

From the looks of it he seems to have a thing for you. I don't know about you, but if a guy doesn't like me at all they will not look/talk/smile at me. He did all three. When he's online IM him first. I've said this more than once in other advice, but guys LOVE confidence. It shows they aren't afraid of them. Who wants a girlfriend whose afraid of her boyfriend? Whatever you do, don't have a bobble conversation.
IE. You: Hey. Him: Hey You: Whats up Him: nothing You: Cool.
Boring, eh? Bobble= back and forth. Try and talk about something that wouldn't produce a bobble. Maybe talk about your community service time. How did he like working with you? Did he think it was fun? Would he ever do it again? Things like that. Don't be shy. Even though it's pretty easy to not be shy on AOL, don't be shy in real life either.

-therocket♥

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i think im starting to have feelings for my best guy friend. we tell eachother everything. and last night we were with a bunch of friends and we like shared blankets and pillows and stuff, and talked all night even when everyone else was silent. and then today we were at the boardwalk and while we were looking over he stood right by me and we were touching. im not sure if i do or not.. and he broke up with his girlfriend today. can you analize this situation?

Here's a few things-
Do you think about him when nothing really reminds you of him?
Do you have random urges to talk to him?
You probably like him if you get butterflies and get really nervous. If you don't get butterflies or get really nervous, it's probably just because you're comfortable around him. It seems that you kind of like him because if you had no feelings what-so-ever for him that way, why'd you be asking that question? Try and tell him how you THINK you feel because everything starts somewhere. Maybe he's waiting for you to tell him first.

-therocket♥

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my best friends boyfriend seems to really hate me. he always says that hes never liked me and that he hates me, but the problem is im not sure if hes serious, because sometimes he'll be really nice, and he tells my friend that he thinks its funny. (because its kind of a running joke to mess around with me) what do i do? its really starting to get me down. =(

Talk to your friend. Ask her to talk with her boyfriend to find out what actually is going on. If she finds out that it's actually just a big joke, tell her it's bothering you. Ask her if she can get him to stop. If her boyfriend truely likes her he will listen to her the first time she asks because obviously this is something important to her.

-therocket♥

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well im a lil chubby sidee..will it get my fat away or will it just tone up my abs under my fatness..?? thanx in advance! xOx

Rephrase that... what?? What will get your fat away...?

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Hey guys, I want to see if anyone else is having the same problem.

I've answered a good amount of questions recently, in the past week, and I've only been rated maybe twice. Is there something maybe wrong with my column or are people just not rating? Is this happening to anyone else?

I'll rate high ♥ Thanks!

People are being lazy and refuse to rate the good advice given to them free of charge. It's not a glitch. All it is, is the people needing advice not rating the people who give it to them :)

-therocket♥

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I just broke up with my girlfriend but i still really really like her but i dont thinnk she likes me anymore i cant stop thinking about her what should i do??

You need to think extremely hard if you still like her or not. If you do, there might be a chance that she still likes you also. If you don't, don't go asking her out again. What will end up happening is her getting her heart broken again. If you dated her again and you didn't like her and you ended up dumping her she might think something on the lines of, "He was using me?!" "Did he just ask me out again because he felt sorry for me?" You'd basically be leading her on. If you truely still like her, give it another shot. Tell her how sorry you are, how you're a mess without her, that you want her you NEED her. Tell her you messed up If you really mean all these things, she'll be able to tell. Be honest and sincere.

-therocket♥

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when i was a kid and even in middle school..i didnt even want a boyfriend i was soo occupied with sports n school n my friends i didnt think about having a boyfriend. Well im in highschool now..and all of a sudden something just changed in me..i want to find love now..is that normal and will i ever find love? They say some dont..is that true?

It's normal, no worries. When people are preoccupied with sports, family, and friends they tend to forget about the future. The future as in who wil be in my life next? What will I do later on? Now that you're in highschool you are realizing this. You will find love if you look in all the right places. Don't go dating various guys who you know will be wrong for you because you are trying to find love. Wait for the perfect guy, because he will be waiting for you.

-therocket♥

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What do you think of if you're realy sad b/c you miss all your old friends?

rephrase that please?

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I look absolutly dreadful in the mornings, like most people. I get big bags under my eyes, I tend to break out right when I wake up, my face looks oily and dirty, my eyes look small and tired. I wash my face every morning and night, put on lotion morning and night, and I use concelar and foundation. Most of it wears off after a few hours, but my eyes are the same most of the day. Of course if I'm getting ready at night, everything is gone. Please if anyone has any tips to looking better in the mornings, let me know! THANKS!

Well, I have this problem a lot so try this, sorry if it doesn't work. Usually what I try and do id get up kind of early so I have enough time to acutally "wake up", so I wont be mentally and physically tired. Try before you put on all your make-up to wash your face in cold water. Yes, freezing cold BRRR water. Maybe, you might even want to take a shower in the morning too. Instead of the usual hot shower, try a lukewarm shower. Maybe even a little cold. Unconfortable? Yes, it is, but it certinally wakes you up.

-therocket♥

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I have a friend that has been drinking and stuff. I've told her not to but i know she doesn't care. And now everybody is all like yeah i drink a lot and i've gotten drunk and smoked that. It seems like everybody smokes and drinks! it's crazy we're all still young! I don't do that kind of stuff and I feel weird like ppl think it's no big deal drinking and i say it's wrong and they think i'm weird. I'm so confused! does everybody do the drugs? i'm not going to start doing them but should i still speak up and say they're wrong?

I'm very opinionated in this type of thing. Yes, true everyone IS doing drugs now-a-days. It's sad because they don't know what they can do to you. One puff of a joint could very well kill you. Who knows, what if you're acutally allergic to the chemicals in the joint. It'd kill you. It's sad how the kids who get involved in that stuff don't realize what they are doing to themselves and how it's harming their bodies. You could give them a shotgun and they could kill themselves faster. You should speak up, but most likely no body will listen because no body sees that it is wrong. It's become a part of our daily lives and everybody sees it as normal. Kind of like sex at the age of 14 or 15, it's becomeing normal. I applaud you for being willing to speak up and out of the crowd.
*steps off soap boax*

-therocket♥

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its not really the problem of them wanting to change plans.. but i know that if im with all of them they're going to want to do couple-y things. because alot of times the guys come over when the 3 of us are hanging out.. what do i do when im stuck alone at the movies or whatever?

This hasn't happened to me before, but I know how you feel. Yeah, they are going to want to do couplish things, because, well, they're a couple. Don't let this bring you down though because if you want alone time, tell her so. Maybe tell her you want alone time with her, just you and her. You still need to tell her how you feel because it will knock her to her senses so she'll know how you feel.

-therocket♥

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one of my best friends has been with her boyfriend for a while.. and now today our other best friend started going out with this other guy, whos friends with my other friends boyfriend. im afraid that i will get left out of tons of stuff now.. and that they will blow me off to hang out with their boyfriends together, like its easier or something.. what do i do??

Make sure you don't get left out. Make your plans earlier in the week so that if they blow you off, you can tell them you had plans before her boyfriend. If they start to ditch you tell him. Don't sugar coat anything. Tell them flat out that yoy feel extremely left out and want to be included again.

-therockets♥

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I am a 13 year old girl and in 7th grade. I would describe my clothes style as preppy. However, the music I normally listen to is (in my opinion, I really don't know) far from preppy. I listen to bands like Green Day, The Killers, Linkin Park, and Evanesence (I don't think I spelled that right). I was just wondering if anyone thought this was weird. I can listen to some "preppy" music (a.k.a- stuff you would find on TRL) but most of it really bugs me, because it doesn't soud like they are the people singing. Again, does anyone think that this is odd? Sorry for the length, but I was just wondering! Thanks in advance to all that reply!

Not at all. Your clothes do not have to match what you wear. It isn't an accessory it's your style. I have many friends who dress normaly (T-shirt of a band etc. etc. jeans), but LOVE emo music. It's just how you express yourself through lyrics, and your clothes express you through fashion. Two different things, two different stories..

-therocket♥

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There's a boy I like and we're pretty good friends. He's given me some hints and I want to do the same, to maybe urge him nonchalantely to ask me out. I really don't know how to do this or how to flirt that well. Can anyone help? Maybe you have some things I can do that might hint him on but not be TOO obvious?

Nonchalantely, I like that word. Anyways. Good, you're not trying to make yourself obvious. Obvious girls are fake. If he's in one of your classes, tell him you don't understand the homework or ask for a pen/pencil. Whenever you ask him try and look in straight in the eyes. Eye contact means you are confident and guys like confidence. Maybe when you work up enough courage you can try and just say hey in the hallways, but smile a lot. If you don't smile a lot to other guys, this will send signals to him that out of all the guys you chose him to smile at. If you say hey without him comming up to you first, he'll start comming up to you because now he knows you have some sort of thing for him..

-therocket♥

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Lay flat out on your back.
Put your hands right by your side to hold you in place.
Lift your legs out 3-5 inches off the ground.
Now hold this for as long as you can.

Yes, it hurts a lot, but it really works your abs, eh!
My record is 3 minutes.

- what you siad there..does that actully work? becuz ive tried it and i tend to shake alot- but my stomach feels to get tighter..is that normal?

It's really normal. Everything will hurt, shake, feel like limbs are about to fall off. Try and hold it for as long as you can. It works all of your abs. Can you feel it? I feel it mostly in my lower so that's why I reccomended it!

-therocket♥

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how do put things in the contacts and calendar for my ipod?

If you have an iMAC this is only way to do this. If you don't have iSYNC on your computer, downlaod this. Once you have loaded and have iSYNC open, plug your iPOD in. Click on the iPOD symbol. Once you click on it you should see "Load contacts?" and "Load calendar?" Check both of them. Once you've done that that should all load with your next upload.

-therocket♥

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ok i had this dream last night and the night before.. the SAME exact dream and once of my crushe was in it... i used to like him and im not sure if i still do or w.e but he was in the dream.. and i remeber him flirting with me before and all but in the dream it was wierd..
i walked into the class room he was sitting in the seat next to mine.. there were a few other seats empty but instead of me looking around for where im supposed to sit (there were name tags on the desks) he pointed and said you sit here. and i was like ok.. lol and then he was sitting behind me (he usually sat in a different seat before class..) but then i was reading a text book or somthing and he took my "black" binder and wrote inside it "*his name* loves you" and he smiled and then i look at my binder and read what he wrote and i blushed and was all shy n stuff..
but i mean does this dream mean anything...? and having it two night in a row..?? please help
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Dreams are a really weird thing. This dream might have meant something to you, but it's probably not a sign. Have a repeated dream is really rare. Random fact- you have at least 7 dreams a night. You has more than one dream last night, but for some reason this one stuck out most. Has he been flirting with you lately? Talking to you? Looking at you? Well, maybe your dreams are representing how you'd like him to act towards you.

-therocket♥

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I work out everyday and do sit-ups everyday too. these crunches are really helping my upper abs but im not seeing any results in my lower ab area. Does anyone know of any really great workouts that are specifically for your lower abdominal region. If so please explain how to do those exercises. Thanks so much. Please only give advice if you know it actualy works.

You can try this-

Lay flat out on your back.
Put your hands right by your side to hold you in place.
Lift your legs out 3-5 inches off the ground.
Now hold this for as long as you can.

Yes, it hurts a lot, but it really works your abs, eh!
My record is 3 minutes.

-therocket♥

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k so i love music, and i always have to wait to get new cd's. I want to download songs for free. like straight from the site, i have an Imac and firefox, i tried some sites, but it didnt work like on download.com

Err. Most of the downloading sites out there are illegal. I have a Mac too, and I use Limewire. Even though it's illegal, it's good.

-therocket♥

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Alright well ive been screwed over so many times by guys and i dont know what to do. ive kinda given up on them because i dont want to get hurt because im to scared..i mean ive been cheated on and it seems ive gone out with a lot of guys when really i didnt it was just for a long time.(i have been called a slut for it..i dont get it it was just a long period of time?) honestly there really isnt any guys at my school but there are at different schools and i have met some other really nice guys from other schools. should i get myself hooked into another relationship? i mean ive kinda given up on "middle school love" all together because im kinda scared that i will be screwed over..

Well, life is going to screw you over and over again. You've got to take risks with guys and love and life. The future is an unthinkable thing. Something as love this is broken, It's hard to fix. You can't give up on love, because what if that one guy you turned down, turned out to be your one true love. Follow heart heart, but use your head in the process.

-therocket♥

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