There's a boy I like and we're pretty good friends. He's given me some hints and I want to do the same, to maybe urge him nonchalantely to ask me out. I really don't know how to do this or how to flirt that well. Can anyone help? Maybe you have some things I can do that might hint him on but not be TOO obvious?
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novena answered Thursday April 21 2005, 4:43 pm: There are a lot of guys out there who don't exactly like it when girls flirt in the typical way (i.e., batting eyelashes, giggling profusely, etc). If he has given you hints, it sounds like whatever you are doing is on the right track.
Make an effort to talk to him more, smile a lot, maybe even get him a little gift to show your "appreciation for him" ;) Once you feel comfortable enough with the idea, why not just tell him how you feel about him?
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LoLo2454 answered Thursday April 21 2005, 4:17 pm: Flirting isn't that hard. Just be touchy feelings and smile a lot. Just joke around with him and just find little ways to touch him. Like if he insults you (in a flirty way) just laugh and give him a little push. Or when you see him poke him as a hello. Hope I helped :)
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