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So, My really good friend just commited suicide and I really wanna read up on reancarnation. Does anyone know any really good books about that?
im buddhist so i know a some about reincarnation. you should try going to the library and grabbing some books on "buddhism." reincarnation plays a major role in buddhism so there should be a lot of stuff on reincarnation in them.
My BESTfriend.. Let's call her *Liza. She is anorexic, i didn't know this before.. i just thought she was super skinny. But she left her diary over my house, and i just read some of it. She's been anorexic for almost two years, it's crazy. She doesn't know that i know yet.. so i'm scared to try and help her! Do you have any ideas on how i can tell her that i know and try to get her to stop. Cause i'm soo scared that something bad is gonna happen to her, Please, pretty please.. someone help me. Thank you so much, sorry it's so long.
Signed,
Very Scared!
well if you dont want her to get mad that you went through her diary, you can leave it where it is and pretend that you never saw it. not on the same day, but maybe a couple of days later, you should say to her that she looks awfully thin lately.. and ask her has she been dieting. you can say that she actually looks anorexic thin, but im afraid if you say that that she might get upset. maybe you should tell her parents without your friend knowing and her parents should be able to do something about it.
Hey! I have thick, wavy dark brown hair that goes a few inches past my shoulders in the front..does anyone know how to scrunch hair..well with like the type of hair I have? Please Help =D
do it how everyone else is telling you to do it; put gel all into your hairs and scrunch it or whatever.. but always scrunch it when your hair is wet. make sure while you do it, to blow dry it at the same time. that gives it a better effect, and it wont look limpy or anything. also, by blow drying, it gives your hair more volume.. so you should probably do that. itll look really nice
ok hey..this question is for all the guys....i was jw...do you guys lyk slutty girls or no? cuz it seems lyk all the slutty girls have boyfriends and there mostly bitches all the time...and it makes me angry!!! i mean isnt there some decent guys out there anymore...??
well im not a guy.. but it always seems that way to me. those slummy grls always seem to get all the guys while the good ones are always left behind. i guess its because some guys just want ass, so they go for the most easiest ones. i hate that shit..
I'm a 15 year old girl and I've never gotten anywhere past mildly aroused. I've tried mastrabating and it's never worked for me. I doubt I'll be finding a guy any time soon, and I really want to find a way to get myself off. Does anyone have any tricks or tips? I've never had a orgasim and all my friends have.
well, orgasms are hard to get sometimes. you just have to know where your spot is and work with it there, that is, if youre masturbating. i never done it, but im sure if you let loose, and concentrate on what youre doing, youll achieve a wonderful orgasm
i plan on calling this guy i like tomorow that i havent talked to in awhile... i kno he use to like me n stuff n i think he still does but im not sure if i ever showed him enough that i like him so basically im looking for sum hints n stuff to let on that i do like him n stuff like that
yeah, i think you should just straight out tell him that you like him. hey, some guys like grls who are bold. sometimes guys just dont get hints so its just better telling them how you feel.
ive noticed that alotta people have questions on people they believe they are in love with and so on but sum of the people are realli young and i dont think that they notice that being in love and loving sum1 are 2 totally different things....well thats what i think i was just wonderin other opions on bein in love and just lovin sum1
yeah, love and being in love are two different things. some people dont realize the difference between the two. love is when you care about a person and all.. and being in love is deeper than that. when your in love, you put yourself on the line for that person. you love the person more than love itself. people on here who say, im 14, and im in love. theyre full of shit. they dont know what it really means to be in love. its all lust at that age. its just so annoying sitting here reading about 13 year olds in love..
my friend is cuttin her wrist and stuff wat should i do to help her?
well, when i was going through that problem, my friends and people who cared about me told me to stop and that i needed help. but i didnt listen, because i had to realize for myself that what i was doing was wrong. your friend needs to realize on her own that she needs to get help and that by cutting herself doesnt make anything better. well sure, it makes the pain go away.. but in the long run, that shit really fucks you up. BUT, you should let her know that you care about her and that you dont want to see her hurt herself because its hurting you. most likely, shed disregard what you say, but as long as you let her know that you care, thatll stick to her forever.
lol.arent you lucky that u found a backround that matches ur shirt!! lol. its cute!!
haha yeah, but thank you ;]
i love my mom honestly i do, but she doesnt trust me....with anything!! not with my computer, phone or even with just my friends!! (especially the guy ones). how can i get her to just trust me?
trust is something you win over time. did you ever do anything to make her lose trust in you? if not, have a talk with her. tell her that there isnt anything that you do that is "bad." tell her she needs to trust that youre not going to do something that you know is wrong, and that you know whats wrong and right.
ok. well i live here in a town called fresno. fresno is a town of really down to earth, cool people. most people aren't really wealthy, which means theres hardly any stuck up snobby people etc.
well.. now im moving to the town next to fresno, called clovis. and clovis is a really nice town. home to people living in MILLION dollar homes. a lot of wealthy people living in that town. so.. theres definetly gonna be snobby rich b**tches there.. and i dont mix well with those kinds of people. meaning, i dont like them lol.
i dont totally have anything aginst them tho, thats just not the type of people i like to hang with or be around..
so of coarse. im going to the school there called buchanan. so like.. im really worried that im not going to make friends because i dont care for rich snobbs which is mainly what the school is made of.
WHAT DO I DO??? how do i make friends..
love, manda
well there might be kids in that school who feels the exact same way that you do. once you go to that school, just keep your head up and dont let those snobs get to you. youll make some good friends, itll all fall in place
hey well @ my "BEST FRIENDS" house thers alot of drama with me and this one gurl bc her bf likes me so the gurl hates me!! shes HUGE and threatens to beat my ass if she sees me around ther nemore...my best friend was scared and told me not to come over anymore bc this gurl can fight and would prolly hurt me alot....so i was scared....and so my best friend is even intiminated by this gurl..so the gurl tells my best friend to call me and ask me tocome over so she kan beat tha shit outta me!! so my friend told me to make ^ an excuse that i cant come over...wel my best friend has been not talking to me or anything lately....on aol she doesnt IM me or nothin...but she kalls all the time n will b like O HEY WHEN R U COMING OVER?? but i no the drill and say o no im grounded!! i cant come over!! and shes like ooo ok bye!! she kalls bc the gurl tells her to call....but shes been doin it alot lately im feeling so down about this bc she only calls me for that reason..she doesnt ever wanna talk or nothing....everyone has been saying how she has changed lately...wat shoul.d i do? do i just let her go? or do i try to keep our friendship?
yeah, you know what, it seems as though youre friend is imtimadated by her as well. maybe that grl who wants to beat you up is threatening your friend as well. or maybeeee, maybe shes friends with her now and is trying to get you fucked up by her new friend. who knows? call her up, ask her what the hells going on and why she only speaks to you when she wants you to come over. seems like shes up to something. if she was a true friend, shed defend you
I have this friend and I have been friends with her for like 5 years, and recently I met this guy and I like him a lot, and I told her that. And this guy told me that he liked me too. Well now she is going out with him. He still calls me and say that he loves me and wishes he was with me. I don't know if I should talk to the girl or if I should stay a way from her since she stabbed me in the back. What should I do?
well, the guy seems like a player to me. being that hes with your friend and hes telling you that he likes you and all that stuff. and with him saying that he wish it was you that he was going out with instead, if he really wanted to go out with you, hed leave her and go to you. but thats not what hes doing is he, when hes telling you that he loves you? i think you should tell your friend that hes saying those things to you, and you should just forget about him. because you know what? if it was you he was going out with, hed probably be doing the same thing to you; telling some other girl he loves her and all that bullshit. forget it, youre better than that
Okay Herez My Deal:
My friend and I have gotten into lotz of fights before well one time she gave me this girls p/w so i went on her s/n real quick to get this boyz s/n and then i signed off and never went on it again well my "friend" told the girl and she called me a female dog in her profile and said never go on my s/n again and its mostly emmie! and then she got mad at them because they went up to her house carlee,gabby(the one's who p/w i had),and mallory and carlee said to emmie why r u leaving mallory out and emmie said cuz i don't like her! and then gabby said im on emmies side then carlee started saying funny stuff and gabby said im on carlee's side now and well emmie told me this on the phone and hung up! but i have had lotz of good times w/ emmie but shes really fat and no one likes her!what should i do? Please HELP!
why did you have to say that emmie is really fat and that no one likes her? that sounded really shallow.
anyway, i didnt understand what you were trying to say. too many names, i couldnt pick out who the antagonist is supposed to be in this situation. i agree with lilmia811, if you could restate this question
ok theres this boy i datedd 2 yers ago for 8 months nad recently we started talking agian and i just moved to las vegas and he lives in georgia and we recently got in a fight and i heard rumors that hes telling everyone that the reason hes pissed at me is because i said i wouldnt sleep with him but i neve said that adn the person that told me doenst lie what do i do or think
since you say that the person who told you this doesnt lie, then its probably the truth. especially with the fact that you guys had just gotten into a fight. it wouldnt be hard to believe that a guy would go around spreading rumors when they dont get any ass. some guys are fuckin assholes like that. and ofcourse he isnt going to admit that he said it. dont even worry about it, because that just shows how much of a person he really is.
ok theres this guy hes reallly sweet and just everything any gurl could want hes fukin hott t0o!! lol...well we kno eachother in person but live kinda far away so dont c eachotha alot...we keep in contact by fone and mostly AOL!!...he used to be in love with me and i kinda blew him off....i took the time to get to kno him and relized hes a gr8 guy!! and now i REALLLLY like him...i told him and he says he likes me alot too but the long distance kills it!! but we flirt ALOT on the internet..well lately...hes been ignorin me and he NEVER IMs me anymore...he used ot IM me and talk to me ALL the time...now he NEVER does..i hav to IM him and we hav a gr8 convo...but like rite now hes on and i told my self not to IM him bc i ALWAYS do...and hes been on for like an hour and still hasnt IMed me...it really hurts my feelings...HELLPP...=\ wat shuld i do..
maybe you should IM him and ask him why he hasnt been IMing you lately or something. maybe hes been busy at things or maybe hes not at the computer. youll never know unless you IM him.
hey i moved and b4 i moved me and this guy are talking and we kinda have a long distance relationsjip but it's nothing official. he's leaving for the airforce in 5 days and will be stationed 3 hours from me rather than the 14 it has been. should we go ahead and make it official or w/e or see other people. it tears me apart that i cant see him..cuz i like him SO much..lol im sucha dork
you can give it a try. sometimes long distance relationships work. see if he wants it just as much as you do, and give it a shot. theres no harm in trying.. and if it doesnt seem to work out, atleast you knew you gave it a try.
It seems like the only thing boys like me for is my looks. I mean there's this one really nice guy that likes me for my personality, but most guys don't even TRY to get to know me, they just like my looks. -.-; Anyone else have this problem? o.O;
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yeah.. sometimes i dont know if guys try to talk to me because they like me for who i am, or because they just take me for my looks. guys like that should be punched in the lip.. but i guess we'd never know what guys really like us for until we give them a chance and see. so if youre having that problem, just try to find a nice guy that doesnt seem to be an asshole and give him a try.
i know this is really long.. but i really need help.
okay.. me and my boyfriend of like 2 yrs just broke up about 3 weeks ago. we were always the couple that everyone said "are going to get married.. they belong together" and we were SO CLOSE! there was never a day that we didnt talk fool around or just love being with eachother. we broke up and things were a little weird for like a week.. but now its just like were best friends again. and its weird bc sometimes its even like were still a couple. we always talk and laugh and fool around.. and i miss it. sometimes i still want to be with him but other times i just love being single and i think maybe its the best for the both of us.. that maybe its just time to move on- and that doesnt scare me, bc in some cases i just want to move on.
okay- so a little while after we broke up he started fooling around w/ one of my "friends".. this got me really upset. not that it happened just the fact that my friend wud do that to me after that long of a relationship and she totally knew how much he still meant to me.
then i met this guy. hes like amazing. we became close and i got with him a couple times. its not like were BF/GF but.. i think we might be getting there. we both like e/o. my ex knows n all of our friends too. i like both my ex and this new guy.. do u think i should hang on to my ex bc things might go back to how they were before (like they have done before).. or should i just totally move on from my ex and be with my new guy. im so confused i just need help.. i like my new guy.. but i dont wanna leave my old love if there is still something between us.. what should i do?
i believe that if there was still something there between you and your ex, that he wouldnt have fooled around with another female. maybe he still loves you, only he can tell you that, but if he went out and did stuff with another girl, he obviously didnt care about you at the time. me, personally, me and my ex, we love each other, and even though hes my ex, i love him that much that i wouldnt mess around or talk to any other guy. if i found out that my ex was messing around with another female, that just shows how much he really "loves" me. so i say.. that maybe you should give this new guy a try because your ex was being selfish and he didnt even stop to think about your feelings. honestly, im not trying to say that the spark between you and your ex isnt there.. its just that i dont think its fair that he can do that to you. thats all i can really say, but the decision is for you to make. just do what makes you happy, because only your happiness matters
My bf jokes around with me all the time like he'll say
"your dumb" jk. Or eww who would want to go out with you? then he says no im jk your beatafull. (don't know how to spell it lol) Is he just flirting or is he really thinking that and just saying jk? we've been going out for 8 months and I really don't think he would say somthing like that. but tell me what you think!
he doesnt mean it. hes just messing around with you. its probably gotten to the point where hes comfortable around you where he can call you names and fuck around with you. dont take it seriously, its all fun and games