Question Posted Wednesday August 11 2004, 12:04 am
hey well @ my "BEST FRIENDS" house thers alot of drama with me and this one gurl bc her bf likes me so the gurl hates me!! shes HUGE and threatens to beat my ass if she sees me around ther nemore...my best friend was scared and told me not to come over anymore bc this gurl can fight and would prolly hurt me alot....so i was scared....and so my best friend is even intiminated by this gurl..so the gurl tells my best friend to call me and ask me tocome over so she kan beat tha shit outta me!! so my friend told me to make ^ an excuse that i cant come over...wel my best friend has been not talking to me or anything lately....on aol she doesnt IM me or nothin...but she kalls all the time n will b like O HEY WHEN R U COMING OVER?? but i no the drill and say o no im grounded!! i cant come over!! and shes like ooo ok bye!! she kalls bc the gurl tells her to call....but shes been doin it alot lately im feeling so down about this bc she only calls me for that reason..she doesnt ever wanna talk or nothing....everyone has been saying how she has changed lately...wat shoul.d i do? do i just let her go? or do i try to keep our friendship?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? LilMia811 answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 2:06 am: Okay well the fact that your friend wont defend you is pretty fucked. and how do you know she isnt calling you to set you up. something just dont seem right. if you really think this girl will hurt you then maybe you should stay away. but there shouldnt be any reason why she couldnt come around to your place. and why is this girl always around your friend? if shes scared of her hwy would she be hanging with her. you need to talk to your friend and ask her what is going on cuz something dont seem right. [ LilMia811's advice column | Ask LilMia811 A Question ]
soljette answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 1:59 am: yeah, you know what, it seems as though youre friend is imtimadated by her as well. maybe that grl who wants to beat you up is threatening your friend as well. or maybeeee, maybe shes friends with her now and is trying to get you fucked up by her new friend. who knows? call her up, ask her what the hells going on and why she only speaks to you when she wants you to come over. seems like shes up to something. if she was a true friend, shed defend you [ soljette's advice column | Ask soljette A Question ]
xxoBriannax answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 1:34 am: i say take kunfu and kick the bitches ass.. and stay friends with the girl if she means that much to you
NyGirLie answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 1:08 am: This is def. not your fault that this girls bf likes you! I would say that if your friend doesn't take the time to call you when that girl isnt around or even IM you on AOL then she isnt such a good friend. Even though you cant really go there because the girl will beat the shit out of you, she could atleast try and make time to go to your house so that you can see her. I would say talk to her about it and find out why she has kind of separated from you. Hope I helped! much love <3 [ NyGirLie's advice column | Ask NyGirLie A Question ]
Lena answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 12:28 am: Keep! your friendship! go over next time and bring a bigger guy!! intimdate her bak and tell her you DONT want her bf! and there is NO such feelin for him!! you need to tell her that and be the bigger person and dont fight her! she maybe big but hell! yer bigger inside then she is!! [ Lena's advice column | Ask Lena A Question ]
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