I'm a 15 year old girl and I've never gotten anywhere past mildly aroused. I've tried mastrabating and it's never worked for me. I doubt I'll be finding a guy any time soon, and I really want to find a way to get myself off. Does anyone have any tricks or tips? I've never had a orgasim and all my friends have.
alisonmarie answered Friday August 13 2004, 9:31 am: A lot of people treat masturbation like some sort of bizarre penetration parade - find your clitoris and learn to love it. Only masturbate when you feel like you're in the mood; doing it because there's nothing better to do won't help you acheive an orgasm.
In fact, if you have anxiety about this whole subject, it'll be harder. But don't worry - it will happen. You've got to figure out what does it for you - certain movies, songs, books? Making up scenarios in your head? Certain rates and rhythms of touching yourself?
The only way to figure out the way to make yourself good is to be prepared to experiment and spend a lot of time with yourself. If you aren't feeling particularly aroused at this stage in your life - again, that'll come.
a_unit answered Thursday August 12 2004, 11:16 pm: oh man this is what u gotta do.. go into ur bathroom and fill up the bathtub halfway..then keep the water running make sure its not to hot and posision so that ur VaGiNaL area is under the running water its bangen.. lol [ a_unit's advice column | Ask a_unit A Question ]
soljette answered Thursday August 12 2004, 10:57 pm: well, orgasms are hard to get sometimes. you just have to know where your spot is and work with it there, that is, if youre masturbating. i never done it, but im sure if you let loose, and concentrate on what youre doing, youll achieve a wonderful orgasm [ soljette's advice column | Ask soljette A Question ]
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