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My boyfriend and i have been together for 4years and have been haveing sex since July 08,(hes my first) And have been haveing sex with no protection sice Novermber or December 08. He just pulls out. We have a great relation ship. And wouldnt mind having a baby if it comes to us but i dont think its the time. Anyways I thought the pull out method didnt work! is he just really really good at it or is there something wrong with one of us. or are we just not doing it enough. We usally do it once or twice a week. (link)
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there can be such a thing as control but see it this way also if you really want to avoid having a baby avoid having sex closest to your period. also it is possible that you are not letting yourself get pregnant by not wanting to be pregnant Mentally but dont risk your self try using lubes with spermacides or contraceptive gels or film inserts or cantraceptive suppositories. I hope this helps
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My family has been telling me things about ghosts lately that relate to my house. No, they're not joking with me. And it's little things, not like they're TRYING to scare me (like my sister said she saw our door open and close on it's own once, while on level foundation). I believe in that sort of stuff. The problem is, ever since I was a kid, I've been VERY paranoid of that.
I'm a really creative person, and I can turn almost any situation into a very scary one, especially if I'm alone. It's usually really gruesome stuff, too. (Too many ghost shows as a kid, maybe? :P). For example, I'll just be sitting downstairs and imagine seeing a person walking down the steps (I'm not actually seeing things, just freaking myself out). Or like, imagining seeing someone be hanged. It sounds dumb, but stuff like that. I hate that I'm this paranoid, but I can really freak myself out.
What can I do to get over this? I used to use humor and writing to get it out, but it's not really working very well. Plus, this isn't my genre to write. I want to feel comfortable in my own houes. =/
16/F. Oh, and I believe in God if that helps at all? (link)
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Well my opinion is this. You say you believe in God right? well You need to believe that God is with you and that he will provide you with protection. If you really are having a hard time then talk to someone who you can trust that have the same beliefs and pray together and do not let this get to you. Its normal for our imaginations to go wild. Get into a support group that share with you the same beliefs. I hope this helps
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Okay me and my boyfriend had sex about 4 days ago,and im spost 2 be on my period this month.my boyfriend came in me ALOT.and when i say alot i mean ALOT!.if i still get a little period does that mean i could still be pregnet??
please help thank you (link)
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there is a very strong chance you are pregnant. even if youre not on your period sperm can survive for up to and over 48 hours (inside the vagina)and if you are close to menstrating you can get pregnant the deeper he was inside the closer the sperm was to your uterus and the higher the chance. sperm swim incredibly fast their only mission is to fertilize. stress can delay a period. if it has beek 1-2 weeks after your sexual act take a urine pregnacy test. on a full bladder prefered in the morning avoid drinking alcoholic drinks the point is to get a strong concentration of a horomone which will be present in your urine if you are pregnant. If you are not pregant please take some sex ed classes no im not putting you down but you do need to be more aware of the contraceptives that exist. theres no such thing as protection you are just trying to avoid getting pregnant or getting a STD. even with a birth control pill or condom you still can get pregant. You can use a contraceptive gel or a contraceptive film insert or a contraceptive suppository that you insert in your vaginal or a Nuva ring. If you have had a child already then many couples really like a IUD because of no need for condoms and or pills but you need to understand that no method is secure we are humans and we are designed to reproduce. theres so much valuable education information that is critical if having a baby is not in your plans for the near future. I hope this helps
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i need some opinions...do you think teenage relationships are pointless? me and my boyfriend are 17 and been together for a year. i'm not the kind of girl and he's not the kind of guy to throw around the "l" word, but we honestly love each other.
he's my other half and i honestly can't remember life before him...we tried breaking up once because we were afraid of getting too attached before college, it didn't work to well since we ended up getting back together....however, this is why i'm worried...
i know its bad to get so attached, especially when college is around the corner...we both don't really know whats happening next year.
so my question is, do teenage relationships actually last? or are they just another thing to get upset about when you have to break up for college :/ (link)
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Every relationship is not pointless, but every relationship is unique. I think what you guys have is special and unique not pointless. I have heard of many many relationships ending insuccessful marriages or long term commitments. I know it hurts to think youll be away from each other but distance is not the important thing. what is is that you both care and love each other. thers nothing with attachment what is wrong is obsession. is it wrong to be attached to a family member dad, mom? no its not. i thik you guys will do fine just dont let the distance thing tear your relatioinship apart. I hope this helps
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so me and my crush were streaking (yeah i know, it's like not right or whatever) but it was in his backyard hahaa. anyways so it was the first time he seen me naked and i don't have the biggest of boobs. i have like a 34b..
and i have a good body, i'm in shape. it's just self-conscious about the boobs thing. well me and him were at our friends house and my friend was like he's talking dirty about you! and then i was standing there in like a tank top and i could hear him doing gestures to his friend about me but i didn't know if it was good or bad.
i'm really self-conscious he thinks i have small boobs. he didnt say anything. i know he wants to get with me and thinks im really hot but my boobs look bigger because i usually wear a push up bra.
i just don't know if hes talking good about me or not!?
by the way i'm 19/f (link)
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The most important thing in my opinion is that this guy respects you. I am sure you have lovely breast and feel proud of them they are yours. Guys can be jerks and talk dirty about you which is NOT cool. if this guys is going around braggin and putting you down just walk away and be glad you didnt give it to him. just beleive that there are guys that breast size isnt important what is important is who you are and how much he admires you for who you are. dont let big or small breast define who you are. instead let them be part of who you are and that is
Intellenget, responsible, alert, self loving and very sexy..alot of guys once they hit it just complain how bad it was or put you down on what they call defects thats SO NOT COOL. be careful and always respect yourself and let yourself be respected..you are very special. I hope this helps
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Okayy, so i'm 15 and i have a bunch of questions but ill narrow it down to 4 lol...
1) is it normal for your clit to kinda stick out the lips of your vagina? A part of mins is like gray but idk if thats just a birthmark? Is there 2 or 1?
2) can a woman orgasm w/o direct contact on her clitoris? I read in a Cosmo magazine they cant
3) is like almost constant discharge out of your vagina normal to where it stains your underwear and really stinks?
4) how can You shave it without really bad razor burn?
Haha thats it..the important stuff anyways.
Thanks!
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its normal for vaginas and vulvas to look and feel and even smell diffrent every one is unique. I think you are talking about the clitorial hood its okay if yours stick out it is a very sensitive and you can reach orgasm by stimulating it, theres also a part inside of you that is called a "g" spot which is also to be said to make you reach orgasm along with another part near the hymen called the skenes spot. believe it or not you can reach orgasm without touching yourself just with thougth ive hear some females have wet dreams too besides guy. You can also get very stimulated by touching abd rubbing your breast nipples. I have also heard of girls reaching orgasm just by rubbing their nipples some guys get also very stimulated. The discharge can be good or bad. even a healthy vagina can have discharges some can be clear others milky and during a period there can be blood/clot discharges but if you feel pain and have discharges or are having foul smelling discharges it will not hurt to see a doctor/ gynocologist and have him/her explain some of the reasons why you are having discharges and to be safe everything is ok. some undies or thongs with strong colors can restrict air flow and that might be why it smells diffrent...advice is always wash your undies or thongs before wearing them after you buy them, use as much 100% cotton undies or thongs as much as possible and when your not on your period take your undies off and sleep without them allow for air circulation. do not douch your vaginal that canthrow your ph (acidic levels ) off and that can also cause odors or discharges. Do not share undies with anyone not even family members theyr ph levels can be different. if you ever use your finger to please yourself make sure your nails are trimmed and clean you do not want to get cuts insode that can get infected and you do not want filth iside you.Do not insert anything into your vagina that is not sterilized or not designed to go into your vagina. avoid whip creams down there or foods going side your vagina on the outside its ok just do not insert foods inside. Shaving a vulva (pubic area) can be done in many ways you can use a battery opperated hair clippers starting with the large # and wokring down to the lower #, and during a bath or shower lather your pubic hairand use a leg razor or you can always use the clippers to give yourself a really low near shave cut.i hope this helps
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There's this kid I've been hanging out with recently and we really like each other. He's smart, funny, cute, the whole cliched package. :-p
Anyway, I'm a Christian. I believe in God and religion and spirituality have become increasingly important and comforting to me. I go to church just about every Sunday and I just really love it there.
Now, I'm not the type of person that will ever go around pushing my beliefs on someone. I'm a little sad that someone hasn't found God yet, but I'm not going to force my beliefs on them because it's not my place to tell them what to believe you know?
I found out that this potential boyfriend is an atheist. Like I said before, I don't care if he believes something different than me. But my problem with it is that he started telling me all the reasons why its "illogical" that God exists. He also went around to a few of my friends asking for concrete evidence that there is a God out there. And then calling our beliefs illogical and going to church as a sign of giving up your independence and free will.
This just bothers me because he is ripping into my faith and he doesn't understand it. Like, he's never been to church before, he's only heard how it is sometimes portrayed, so where does he come off saying I gave up my independence by going to church?
It's annoying because I really like him, but I'm not so sure I can put up with this part of him. And yes, you might say it's hypocritical of me, but don't because I am not judging him on the fact that he doesn't believe in God, I'm judging him on the fact that he tears everyone down and calls people stupid for believing in God. He's trying to get everyone to believe what HE believes.
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This is a sensitive subject and i hope i do not offend you or anyone here.
My opinion is that you are doing the right thing and should not pressure him. God will change him not you or the religion. sometimes when you mix diffrent cultures or religion or beliefs or even customs there can be negative consequences. Even though he bad talks your beliefs its hard to do but ignore him and walk away then if he ever asks why you wont date him just let him know that you do not share the same views. Its fair to him not to get pressured but its also only fair for you not to get pressured either. I heard somewhere that you should not be with uneven yolks? Dont feel hes ripping into you instead see it that he doesnt see your point of view a very strong point of view that will effect your life spiritual and physical. I think you should just see him as a guy in school. I may sound harsh but its best you stick with people that will share your belief without putting you down or insulting you a true friend never does that to you no matter what and if hes being abusive and insultive to your beliefs only imagine on what else he will go after next ..your clothes? your looks?...your virginity? Again im not trying to judge him or you just see that its ok if you do not see eye to eye and that its best not to get involve with someone who is going to just not share, encourage and support your thoughts, emotions and in this case belief in your God....this country is full of diffrent beliefs and everyone has that right to beleive in what they believe and no one has the right to pass judgement on what you believe in Your God. you want someone compatible in your life not the other way around. I hope this helps
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This is gonna sound like really stupid...
I think but idk. When a girl and a boy have sex
Does the girl bounce up and down on his penis
Or does she like ride it? And what do most
Guys like:top or bottom? And what is missionary
Posistion? Thanks!
15/f so thats why i'm so clueless lol (link)
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Dont say your stupid cause your not. Sex is like every choice you make you prefer one over the other. a girl can mount a guy and bounce up and down but shes really not bouncing shes more like riding and whats really happening is the girls breast are the bouncy ones while your vagina is gliding on his penis. depending on what excites the guy it can be missionary him on top, girl on top, "doggy style" or side ways or standing up. sex is explored in many diffrent ways the most important part is to not get lost in it.i Hope this helps...
I also wanted to add this its really not what he likes its really what makes..Lets youfeel comfortable..you both should feel good while love making not just him..in other words what do you feel thats more comfortable?? Missionary positon you both see eye to eye, hes a bit more in control he can see your breast and stimulate them by touch or nibbles he can nibble your neck and kiss you. you get to see his satisfactionary expression he gets to do more work if he is about to reach orgasm he can pull out easier or you can push him out. YOU on top youre the one with a bit more control you get to feel him insode you very well, he gets to explore more with his hands your breasts, thighs, legs and your rump he gets to see more of your expression and you get to do more of the work if he reaches orgasm itll be harder for him to pull out. Doggy style he gets to ride you . you both enjoy strong thusts you can play or stimulate your self(clitoris) and cum he gets to feel alot in control and gets to grabb your rump, if you do not mind him seeing you down there as he goes iside you and see your other side (the sunny side or moon) then youll feel really good he wont be able to fond your clitoris (vulva) at least not ewasily and it will not be easy for him to play with your breasts. I hope this info helps
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Hi, I am a girl and i am weird.
When I am with my parents, I speak british accent. When I am with my friends, I speak the American accent. I cant talk to my parents in the American accent coz i get shy :P i know im weird. just reply something that could help me..thanks (link)
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youre not wierd. I think you just feel more comfortable speaking to them with that accent. Maybe you could try speaking to one of them a bit more with an englis accent so that you could do the transition easier on yourself. Hope this helps
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The guy i like has a girlfriend which i just found out on friday when me and my friends saw him at the mall. But when he walked by me he didnt even say hi like he always does and his girlfriend was staring at me like alot. So why do you think he acts so shady around me?
P.S. I already told him I liked him. (link)
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Maybe she ( his girl friend) and him had a bad day
He did want to make things worse by looking at you or maybe she saw you notice him and felt you as a threat. I think it best to not let him know. just be normal if your hid buddy hell talk to you about it. You do not want her to see you as a threat bcause your not you are just concerned as a friend. hope this helps
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I heard that the human papillomavirus causes vaginal warts? Is it true? I have bumps down there that I have concluded as being warts. They started to appear maybe like two months ago and won't go away. I've had sex with three people this past year but I'm only in 10th grade so I don't think the guys had any STDs. Anyway, I heard that the HPV causes genital warts. Do I have HPV then if I have these warts?
PS> The bumps are DEFINITELY not from shaving. They don't pop and they don't have like white heads or black heads or anything like pimples usually do. They're in AND around my vagina but I can't guess at how many...a lot. I don't think they're herpes because they won't pop and I looked up herpes online and it says that those go away in a few weeks and usually pop and leak or something. These bumps aren't going away. (link)
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its best to see a Doctor and maybe eve a gynocologist. Just cause they are in 10th grade does not mean they do not have a std. I have know many many guys and girls that find out they were carries of stds and wished they could have gotten advice to go see a doctor. when you talk to your dr let them know everything symptoms and when you started to have a sexual life information to the dr will help alot. ask if its necessary to have a pap smear usually its recommended if you have a sexual life or for other medical reasons.
i hope this helps
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there is this guy, I'm fifteen, and he is about the same age, he wants to lose our virginity together, and i think I'm going to. But i refuse to without a condom, and i don't believe in sex after marriage, and i do love him, even if it wasn't for forever, and i just want to know if there is any other precautions, other than STDs and condoms and what not, and i have no idea how to get a condom and i don't want to use plastic wrap because that's not safe really.. this is kind of embarrassing so please don't judge me..thanks for the help !! (link)
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Theres nothing to be embarrassed about sex is a natural part of a human being. I would like to say that 1. be very careful 2. do not expect the stars and the moon (orgasm) 3.make sure he is going to value you weather you do or do not have sex with him 4.you might not care right now if it last but will it bother you if he doesnt care either? i mean what if he doesnt care and tells his buddies? and they tell their guy/ girl buddies and so on...see where im going? be very carefull and keep researching its the best thing you can do before taking your step in what will be a big change in your body and future. If you do decide to have sex think about it first and accept the consequences and resposibilities that come with that...your body will want to keep exploring the sexual world and theres nothing wrong with that just dont get lost in it and make it the 1st thing i your life there are many goals that you stilll need to full fill. Condoms at least in this state are givien for free at schools and many clinics. If you do have sex please make sure he will respect you no matter how excited you are and he is if you say it hurt and it will/can he needs to be a person you will trust he will stop and get off of you and comfort you...i mean do you want him to just shove it in or to be gentle and take your time and not hurt your relationship? You need to not let him insert his penis inside your vagina with out a condom preferable a latex if your not allergic to latex of course. use one with a spermicide (kills sperm) DO not use plastic wrap..it can lead to pregancy and stds and cuts ..ouch!!! even if you use a condom expect some pain every one reacts diffrently but just take your time theres a whole world to explore and love can be had with out sex..believe it or not. I hope this helps
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18/m
If my girlfriend and I are kissing and she is in my lap straddling me with a leg on either side and my pants are undone and she is wearing a dress and has it kind of pulled up so her feminine parts are "grinding" so to speak (like a skateboard on a rail) on my masculine parts but we are both still wearing our underwears (her=panties, me=boxers)... is there a possibility of pregnancy? Yes, I would be leaking semens cause thats what Mr. Johnson likes to do when things start to get hot n' heavy but not quite hot n' heavy enough to make him want to give it all he's got... you know what I mean ;).
Seriously though I need to know cause my love asked me to ask you fellows... or somebody she didn't specify who but seeing as all these little 14-year-old girls are having similar problems (although my issue involves common sense and lacks alcohol) I thought this would be the place to go.
WHAT SAY YOU?!?!?!?!
thanks! =]
oh and I don't do condoms and she don't do birth control... and definitely not plan-B. (link)
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I think you guys might think about doing things a bit more diffrent if youre worried about pregnancy. Yes she can get pregnant. it does not take much sperm to fertilize an egg. and semen does contain sperm. If you guys are doing this around period time it can happen..many people think sperm dies upon exposure to air...false!! many think sperm dies right away...Flase!! it can live inside a vaginal up to 1-3 days and in some cases up to 5days!! whoa!! you can have sex right after your period and not get prenant...False you still can get pregnant your uterus is open/diallated and sperm can easily get pass it and fertilize an egg. theres alot of myths out there so be careful. another one is that if you have sex in water and he climaxes/cum inside you you wont get pregnant...false you still can. or using saliva as a lube will kill sperm inside her...false once sperm enters a vaginal its mission is to fertilize thats their only mission.
I hope this info helps
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15/f
So I am thinking about having sex with my boyfriend and I am a virgin. I am kinda scared that it will hurt too much and I wont be able to enjoy it. I have heard that the reason it hurts is because of the fact that you are stretched when you have sex for the first time, so I was wondering if I was to use a dildo to masterbate. Would I hurt less later?? Thanks in advance for any responses they are much appreciated. (link)
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I am glad that you are thinking in having sex.
Why? well because hopefully you will think throughly before you take this big step. it is a big step. It will hurt you but it will hurt you even more if you later realize that maybe you should have thought about having sex a bit more. If you are a virgin I give you props theres nothing wrong with being a virgin it is the best experience in the world and so is taking the time to decide in losing it (having sex). You will be afraid and you should after all there will be a penis inside your vagina and your vagina is not use to having something of that texture, size and hard inside you. If you do decide to have sex make sure its for the right reason and that this person will not betray you MAKE sure he is not going to 1. hurt you 2. scare you 3. Never make fun of you 4. will always value you no matter if you do or do not have sex with him 5. will respect you 6. wont go braggin to his friends 7. will not be abusive 8. will understand you after having sex 9. will stop when it starts to hurt. 10. have told you the truth about his sexual experience in the past or recent 11. and tell you why does he need the sex? 12. explain to you what will he get out of this? 13. is he pressuring you to have sex? i know i know too many questions right? well you really need to be careful what might be very exciting to you in having sex might surprise you with dissapointment here are some of them. 1.It can/will hurt 2. you can/will bleed 3.
You wont/might not have an orgasm 4.you will have to do this in secret which might lead you to feel shamefull 5. You can get pregnant even if he does not climax/cum and even if he wears a condom (theres no guarantee even for adults) 6. youll have a lot to explain to your parents if you get caught and or pregnant. 7.he may not want to stop if you say it hurts. 8. you could get so nervous and so afraid that you can cause damage to your vulva or vagina. 9. you could get a STD (sexually transmitted disease . theres really alot to think about really. everyone makes it sound so simple and easy but if it was then why the fear? why the nervousness?. Also you could use a vibrator or dildo but you have to be extremeley careful not to hurt yourself you are still changing physically and you could do some harm to your body, the worst case scenerio is puncturing your vaginal wall which could/will lead to death so be very carefull. with that said NEVER INSERT OBJECTS into your vaginal unless they were design to do so ex: tampons. if you do or he uses a finger please be very hygeine be clean and nails must be trimmed or it can scratch and cut you and you do not want that. also you will need to keep the vibrator/dildo sanitized meaning it has to be and stay clean and dissefected before inserting into your vagina.
ihope this helps
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15/f
i have known this guy for about four years now, and we argued and fought all the time, but then this past summer, i completely fell for him! we were together all summer, and part of the year, we realized that we argued because we completely loved each other! he stole my heart, but we live apart, i know they say that distance never works and some say that distance brings people together, well we broke up because we only saw each other when i went and stayed with him for a weekend maybe one or twice a month. but we changed, and it was like there was a wall, but we still loved each other. the week next that we broke up, it was silence, but he pulled me on his lap like he used to, then this past weekend, i told him i still loved him, and he did that smile, and tease that he did, he told my friend he still cared, and had strong feelings for me, and he tried to sit, hug, love, and cuddle with each other. now all my feelings are ten times stronger, i have never been this connected with any other before, and hes in my head day and night, he looks at me like he still loves me and like he misses me, only im just afraid to lose him again, i miss him so much and love him with all my heart, if you have any idea how i should handle this and if i should just keep coming to see him, i don't think i could bare not to ever see him or not be with him again..... (link)
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Theres nothing wrong in what you are feeling. Love is a natural part of our inner being however it can also let us act,behave and do things we our selfs have no clue in how to finish or do. One thing if anything that i will recommend you to do and that is to try and clear your mind in the argueing. You both may get frustrated in not being with each oither and that might be why you both argue however you really can be together with out arguing in other words it is not neccessary to get upset with each other because you cant be with each other. Instead get your selfs together (work) in solving the problem by talkign about diffrent subject plan s for the future together, careers, traveling and yes maybe even marriage and children. there are so many things you both can talk about to know more about each other. Keep you relationship clean from violence, fighting, abuse sex and so many things that can really hurt both of you. theres nothing wrong with spending time with each other but if you both begin a relationship with arguing and then loving each other it will cause alot of pain. dont let the pain become part of the relationship grieve together. theres nothing wrong in dissagreeing with what the other thinks or gives on opinion. They say that sometimes distance cures the wounds of love but if there is love then there should not be any wounds. I hope this helps
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Hello,
I'm Ann and well two years ago sister came home one night and we found out that she was being raped and abused by a boy in her class for 6 months and a couple days later my brother got his second DWI and took off completely no where to be found and my dad was sent to the hosptial for depression he didn't want to live anymore and my boyfriend dumped me for being too emotional thats when i started cutting myself I wanted to relieve the hurt and pain that i nearly lost myself.
I tried so hard to stay for my mother who i have to take care of and now about 5 months ago my brother almost died in a car accident under the influence and recieved yet another DWI now he has to spend a couple of years in prison and he told me he never loved me or our family but is working on it since he's enter a treatment center for his alcholism and my dad is very verbal abusive so i've started to cut again. I have done nothing but love my brother. life is very difficult for me in other aspects as well right i just don't see the point in living anymore.
I don't want to cut anymore I dont see a way around it what should I do? I feel like no one understand or cares or yet even loves me does it get any better? (link)
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I am very sorry for what you are going thru truly i am. Id like to tell you that no matter what happens in life do not ever stop loving yourself. Never think its over. never give up. Always try. You are without a doubt in my mind a intellegent young woman I can understand Why its so hard for you to stay focused on not cutting yourself. I can tell you this for sure please do not hurt yourself you are exremeley valueable you are so important to this world this country and to this society maybe no ones said this but im telling you right now that you are very very valuable. its so hard so see the most positive sides of life when all you feel is a constant pain and sorrow. And its even more difficult in having a positive attitude, but despite all of the problems know this and i can assure you this. that no matter what happens in life in your case your brother, your dad your mom you cant control what happens you cant control anything that happens in life....except....your attitude now im not trying to telling you to suck it up no no im saying that it will be hard
but never let yourself go to a point of hurting yourself and do not take the opportunity away from yourself from being part of the solution(s) to the problems or situations life brings you.
I hope this helps
If its possible at all to talk to someone you trust about your pain your troubles to help take this weight of your chest...its ok to say I feel Pain there is nothing wrong with you feeling a burden but its not okay do hold on to it. It can hurt you. See if getting into a support group or couselling...no your not a loser or woerd you are Beautiful. please beleive that. I hope this helps
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Okay, so by him texting me wanting to come over for little things he forgot, what do I say? Like today I was fine he came over an I just acted ok an smiled an then was like okayyy well ill let u go ttyl an then he said bye and i said bye. welll i dont want him to make this a habit like he can have his cake & eat it to like whenever he wants to text me n call he knows i will, an hes stubborn enough as it is so me ignoring him he can just take it n wont say anything? So what do i do the next time he forget something an wants to stop by an come get it? Like he asks for space and im respecting that giving him space not coming over nothing or calling or texting, yet ...if he wants space why is he texting me an calling me...he says he doesnt want anyone else but me , i know theres no cheating involved but he just says he likes his freedom coming an going in the house an not questioned on where he is going etc etc. (link)
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I see now. I think he is 1 confused 2 wants to be unfair. Its best you let hime know that you do not want to play mind games. Either hot or cold cause you dont want something lukewarm. You want to stand your ground and he needs to know that you really have bouderies he did ask for time apart and if he wants to be free then be free but dont ruin it for everyone. I agree with you he needs to realize his own mistake and stand up to his word as a man if he wants to be free fine but he cant behave likes nothing ever happened between you two. Its not fair to you. You are not at fault. You wanted to keep your end. but it is he who wants to play a game of yo yo. I think its time to let him know hey i cant be your friend and its only fair for my opinion to be taken serious...i mean what about your feelings? its not lets make him happy its being happy togeher. I have a saying "dont be with some one you can live with ...be with someone you feel that you cant live without...I hope this helps. If you need anything else let me know..I have a good ear if you wish to use it.
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I have been having some strange things happen lately. I havnt been able to sleep, sometimes ill stay up until 7am and then sleep about a half hour and wake up again. I have been having leg cramps and my ribs are super sensitive to the touch. do you have any idea what any of this could mean? my sister thinks its just because i am growing into a woman (im 19 years old), but i want to get another opinion. any advice is much appreciated. (link)
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hows your diet? do you rest? eat well? are you stressing? any arthritis in the family? diabetes? not to scare you but just things you want to illiminate. are you excersiing before going to bed? any hard core soft or energy drinks?
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There's going to be a christmas exange at the adult mental health center that I go to during the week day and the gift has to be a a 25 dollar girt and if I get a boy's name what should Iget them? (link)
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beleive it or not a teddy bear and flowers is sweet yet brightfull. hope this helps
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My boyfriend says he wants space, yet he has been calling me and texting me an we used to live together so when he needs something he texts me an calls me to come over my parents house to get it, like the slightest thing like today his trimmer and to show me his new dog, like the whenever i ask him or other people ask him what we arehe says he doesnt know yet he needs time & space, okayyy so why if you need time & space do u keep calling me and texting me an then why would he want me to tell him what i thought of this new dog he got? im so confused please i need advice
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Im going to be honest with you..hes confused he misses you but at the same time he wants freedom. Hes afraid of being alone but at the same time he wants to explore something new he thinks he can find something better but you and i both know you are the best thing that has happened to him. to a certain point hes playing come to papa. This is my opinion dont let it get to you.. you be strong girl i know you can! let him decide what he wants right?? you teach him you are a woman by letting him be the one to look for you dont ignore him or make him beg ...thats vengefull and can lead to a lot of future problems just let him look for you and when he asks hey i need to talk tell him ok tell me whats on your mind? why have you done this? do you love me? is there someone else? what did i do ? be honest with me because i want something erious with you but if you do not want to be part of my life then i will give you your time and freedom.plain as that you do not behave agresive just calm you want him to realized that not only are you mature but an amazing problem solver and every man wants a woman that is lovely, calm and respects herself anf know how tocontrol herself and how to deal and solve problems. I hope this helps.
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