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Okay, so by him texting me wanting to come over for little things he forgot, what do I say? Like today I was fine he came over an I just acted ok an smiled an then was like okayyy well ill let u go ttyl an then he said bye and i said bye. welll i dont want him to make this a habit like he can have his cake & eat it to like whenever he wants to text me n call he knows i will, an hes stubborn enough as it is so me ignoring him he can just take it n wont say anything? So what do i do the next time he forget something an wants to stop by an come get it? Like he asks for space and im respecting that giving him space not coming over nothing or calling or texting, yet ...if he wants space why is he texting me an calling me...he says he doesnt want anyone else but me , i know theres no cheating involved but he just says he likes his freedom coming an going in the house an not questioned on where he is going etc etc.
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I see now. I think he is 1 confused 2 wants to be unfair. Its best you let hime know that you do not want to play mind games. Either hot or cold cause you dont want something lukewarm. You want to stand your ground and he needs to know that you really have bouderies he did ask for time apart and if he wants to be free then be free but dont ruin it for everyone. I agree with you he needs to realize his own mistake and stand up to his word as a man if he wants to be free fine but he cant behave likes nothing ever happened between you two. Its not fair to you. You are not at fault. You wanted to keep your end. but it is he who wants to play a game of yo yo. I think its time to let him know hey i cant be your friend and its only fair for my opinion to be taken serious...i mean what about your feelings? its not lets make him happy its being happy togeher. I have a saying "dont be with some one you can live with ...be with someone you feel that you cant live without...I hope this helps. If you need anything else let me know..I have a good ear if you wish to use it.
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