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Does this get anybetter? I don't know what to do
Hello,
I'm Ann and well two years ago sister came home one night and we found out that she was being raped and abused by a boy in her class for 6 months and a couple days later my brother got his second DWI and took off completely no where to be found and my dad was sent to the hosptial for depression he didn't want to live anymore and my boyfriend dumped me for being too emotional thats when i started cutting myself I wanted to relieve the hurt and pain that i nearly lost myself.
I tried so hard to stay for my mother who i have to take care of and now about 5 months ago my brother almost died in a car accident under the influence and recieved yet another DWI now he has to spend a couple of years in prison and he told me he never loved me or our family but is working on it since he's enter a treatment center for his alcholism and my dad is very verbal abusive so i've started to cut again. I have done nothing but love my brother. life is very difficult for me in other aspects as well right i just don't see the point in living anymore.
I don't want to cut anymore I dont see a way around it what should I do? I feel like no one understand or cares or yet even loves me does it get any better?
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ive gathered that your in a very low point in your life right now. alot of really horrible things have happened that have brought you to feel this way and im really sorry :( i know it probably feels like nothing is going to ever get better, everythings just gonna get worse and worse till you cant bare it any longer, but trust me things will eventually get better and you can get through it! i would know from personal experiance that you can get through tough things even if you feel that your alone in the world!
when i had my difficulties i also cut myself, like you said its a way to relieve hurt and pain and to just let it out and when you do it, it seems like such a good idea, but the after consiquences are not so good. so if you can, i would try to relieve stress a different way.
please know that people do love you! other things to do besides cutting could be pick a hobby [i chose running]. and know that things will get better it might just take time so wait it out!
i hope i helped and message me anytime :)
-genevieve
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I am very sorry for what you are going thru truly i am. Id like to tell you that no matter what happens in life do not ever stop loving yourself. Never think its over. never give up. Always try. You are without a doubt in my mind a intellegent young woman I can understand Why its so hard for you to stay focused on not cutting yourself. I can tell you this for sure please do not hurt yourself you are exremeley valueable you are so important to this world this country and to this society maybe no ones said this but im telling you right now that you are very very valuable. its so hard so see the most positive sides of life when all you feel is a constant pain and sorrow. And its even more difficult in having a positive attitude, but despite all of the problems know this and i can assure you this. that no matter what happens in life in your case your brother, your dad your mom you cant control what happens you cant control anything that happens in life....except....your attitude now im not trying to telling you to suck it up no no im saying that it will be hard
but never let yourself go to a point of hurting yourself and do not take the opportunity away from yourself from being part of the solution(s) to the problems or situations life brings you.
I hope this helps
If its possible at all to talk to someone you trust about your pain your troubles to help take this weight of your chest...its ok to say I feel Pain there is nothing wrong with you feeling a burden but its not okay do hold on to it. It can hurt you. See if getting into a support group or couselling...no your not a loser or woerd you are Beautiful. please beleive that. I hope this helps
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