about

Hey i'm Maddie and i'm 16 and i have a 10 month old daughter Shiloh Taylor who is my world :) I might seem young but I have gained alot of knowledge throughout my years and I love to help so ask away!

advice

Is there any chance they will stay bigger even after I go off birth control? I was really self conscious about them before but now they're like the perfect size and I'm scared to go off birth control pills because i dont want them to shrink :( oh and i'm on lutera if it makes a difference

i dont think that they will change size.

[view]


I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.

I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?

Sorry if this is too long!

You should definatly at least confront him about it and say you know about the page and you dissaprove of it and you don't want him sharing everything about your relationship on facebook to everyone! Than maybe you guys can talk about it and he will delete it or something? Tell him you want to be more open and you don't want any secrets between you because all ita doing is hurting your relationship. I hope I helped! tell me if you need anything else!

[view]


I am a little confused with Degrassi. If you watch it, can you please explain to me what "The Boiling Point" is. Is it all the new episodes that are coming out? and I just finished what a girl wants, part 1 and my dvr cut me off. I saw Fiona putting makeup on her scratch from her boyfriend, what happened after that? Thanks!

the boiling point is just their new series of episodes basically. there just calling it that to hype everything up basically and get you to watch it.

[view]


How do you know how big a guy dick is without seein his dick

look at his pants. if there is a big lump it will probably be big.

[view]


i'm 15 and i'm a virgin and my boyfriend wants to have sex but i'm not ready! we've been together for 2 years and i love him so much! it is really bugging me because he is my entire world and i think i'm really hurting him. we had a talk and he thinks that i'm rejecting him but i'm seriosly not ready! i need help, i don't know what to do!

he is not being A good boyfriend to you at all for even trying to pressure you into doing anything you are not comfortable with so you should not feel bad at all! You need to talK to him and tell him that you are honestly not ready for that kind of physical commitment and he needs to stop pressuring you because your uncomfortable with it but you can still say how you love him in other ways you just don't want to be physically involved and he needs to be okay with that.
well i really hoped i helped please send me more messages if you need more help!

[view]


how much weight do you usually need to lose to actually notice it. Friends have noticed on me and say my face is skinnier but how much weight do i need to lose for my clothes to start becoming loose? Im 5'7, female and the last time i weighed myself i was 165 but its been about a month of eating healthy. I just dont want to step on the scale and be let down so let me know thnks!

if your friends say that you are sKinier than you nave probably lost weight! can you tell on yourself like your stomach and StUff? don't be scared just go for it and weigh yourself iM sure you've lost if you've been working at it!

[view]


what is Skype? like on the computer...

it's a program where you can video chat with people.

[view]


okay so i am a female and 15 years old.i have a boyfriend for about 2 weeks, my boyfriend is 17. we have been hanging out for a month now and i know it may be soon to be talking about his problems with depression and what not. but, i just wish i knew how to help. i went through depression and a eating disorder. but i try to help but i dont know what to say. i just wish any words that would come out of my mouth could cure him. but of course things dont work like that. i am now starting to do some research on depression. i dont want him to feel depressed. i know how it feels. you feel usleless, unloved, you sometimes hate your self. you are very hard on yourself and you feel helpless and hopeless. please some one help me. i want to be able to comfort him a little..

from my experiences with depression i can say that you shouldn't try too hard and talk about it too much because it'll just bug him. yeah, sometimes it helps to talk about things, but other times it just gets plain annoying and you don't wanna talk about it anymore. so try comforting him by letting him know your thinking about him and hang out with him and make him laugh and things like that :) if you see him zoning off with a sad look on his face than you can ask him whats on his mind, but dont pressure him. i hope i helped and i hope he starts to feel better! :)
-maddie

[view]


hello!

well i just entered high school and i have this guy who is beside me on my locker and he also sits beside me in my homeroom so anyways so i was wondering if he likes becase last week he said we should stand close so it look like we are going out and called me sexy plus he stands really close to me and stares at me for long periods of time but now he facebook picture says i love emily (not me) and i know that he is singel soo does he like me???

well, he sure is flirting with you!
guys tend to flirt with alot of different girls at a time, especially immature high school boys, so its hard to tell if they really LIKE you or not.
he definatly has a thing for you since youve caught him staring at you and he called you sexy and the other things.
i would wait and see how it plays out.
it sort of seems like he's a player, since his picture said 'i love emily' on it, meaning he likes to flirt with alot of other girls, not just you.
if he starts to be more inclusive on you though, than i'd go for it!
hope i helped!
-genevieve :)

[view]


Hello,

I'm Ann and well two years ago sister came home one night and we found out that she was being raped and abused by a boy in her class for 6 months and a couple days later my brother got his second DWI and took off completely no where to be found and my dad was sent to the hosptial for depression he didn't want to live anymore and my boyfriend dumped me for being too emotional thats when i started cutting myself I wanted to relieve the hurt and pain that i nearly lost myself.

I tried so hard to stay for my mother who i have to take care of and now about 5 months ago my brother almost died in a car accident under the influence and recieved yet another DWI now he has to spend a couple of years in prison and he told me he never loved me or our family but is working on it since he's enter a treatment center for his alcholism and my dad is very verbal abusive so i've started to cut again. I have done nothing but love my brother. life is very difficult for me in other aspects as well right i just don't see the point in living anymore.

I don't want to cut anymore I dont see a way around it what should I do? I feel like no one understand or cares or yet even loves me does it get any better?

ive gathered that your in a very low point in your life right now. alot of really horrible things have happened that have brought you to feel this way and im really sorry :( i know it probably feels like nothing is going to ever get better, everythings just gonna get worse and worse till you cant bare it any longer, but trust me things will eventually get better and you can get through it! i would know from personal experiance that you can get through tough things even if you feel that your alone in the world!
when i had my difficulties i also cut myself, like you said its a way to relieve hurt and pain and to just let it out and when you do it, it seems like such a good idea, but the after consiquences are not so good. so if you can, i would try to relieve stress a different way.
please know that people do love you! other things to do besides cutting could be pick a hobby [i chose running]. and know that things will get better it might just take time so wait it out!
i hope i helped and message me anytime :)
-genevieve

[view]


hey i really love the movie thirteen and i would like to know if i could watch it on the internet for 100% free? thanks :]

letmewatchthis.com

[view]


My cousin is having a birthday soon and he sent me an invitation to this birthday party. I know that for girls the 16th birthday is really, really special--you know, "Sweet 16!" and all of that. Well, I assume it's just as important to guys now to have a good 16th birthday. I really want to get him something nice that he will enjoy, use, and appreciate. I even thought about a guitar but I'm not sure about that even because, again, he's 16 and I have no idea what a guy wants at that age.

Does anyone have some really good suggestions? I'm willing to go a couple of hundred dollars if needed...maybe even like 300 if it's something super good...so price isn't much of a problem. Ideas?

i always get guys cologne and they like that alot.
get a really good kind like burberry or lacoste.
hope i helped :)

[view]


i heard this song, and i think it may be by jason mraz.
when i type it into google, i cant find anything.

it goes " it takes no time to fall in love, but it takes years to know what love is"

jason mraz - life is wonderful

[view]


I want as many opinions as I can get. You can even share your experiences. :) So tonight I went to a Boys Like Girls concert, but Kaci Battaglia, Push Play, and Hey Monday also performed for the annual Pink Ribbon Event. It was AMAZING!! :) The thing is, they came down here to Kansas, close to Wichita which is where I live. I appreciate that so much! I was so happy I was able to go, but it all just seemed sooo surreal to me. Has anybody ever felt or thought like this? It's like you can't quite realize reality, and that there's someone FAMOUS, a celebrity, right there in front of you. I was a good 12 ft or more away from the stage; I never thought it would happen, ever. This has been the CLOSEST I've ever been to someone famous; seeing them IN PERSON! :o You know how there are things thrown out to the audience? Do you ever feel jealous or envious of others who get things like t-shirts, water bottles, or use towels or something? I do, then I start to have this feeling of sadness, like I'll never be THAT lucky to ever experience anything like that. Again, it just seems all surreal. I find it amazing how it seems like I'll never be lucky enough, but these people who live pretty close to me are lucky! I mean, this is KANSAS. Not many people come out here to perform in Kansas, let alone want to... I understand that though, because they perform in high populated areas right? And/or convienent locations for other high populated areas. So it just sucks because I don't think I'll ever be able to see other artists perform live, unless they're close. :\ Does anyone else feel or think the same as I do for the following? You know how musicians are like, "I/WE LOVE YOU ____ CITY! Keep rockin'! You guys are great! You're an awesome city! This song we're about to sing was inspired by a state, and who knows, we love you so much Kansas that maybe we'll write a next song about you guys!" (that happened tonight, Martin from BLG said it...) Do you ever think that they don't ever mean it? They just say it, just to perform? It gets the crowd really hyped, but I can't help but think they don't mean it at all. They just want a good performance. Is it so weird that I think like this? I felt overwhelmed tonight. Freaking successful artists, RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU. Lol x) but then I started thinking, "Geez, so these people are famous! They're celebrities! But wait, they're human too, just like everyone else. Yet they're so special, and loved by MANY." You know what I mean? I just felt so amazed tonight. I'm also feeling so envious of others right now. They're so lucky, and others are even lucky enough to be able to drive out of state, or really far to see musicians perform live. I highly doubt my parents would drive me far, let alone allow me to go out of state to see a concert. Strict parents. ;-; :\ So what do you guys think? Is it weird that I feel this way? What are your guys' opinions? I'd really love it if someone would share their personal experiences too. :) Lastly, does anyone have any advice on how I could get 'lucky', and possibly be able to score spots at the very front of the stage, or be able to get 'souvenirs' from artists? :D

yeah when i go to concerts i feel the same way as you! because there people you listen to all the time and idolize and know all the words to all their songs and then there RIGHT THERE and your like ahhh!!!
ive been to, gosh i dont even know how many concerts, and i still get that same feeling, my pulse racing and my body heating up and my energy level skyrocketing! its so fun!
my first concert was 3Oh!3 and i passed out because i was so hot! i was in the middle of the mosh pit and it was so fun but so not good for my very first concert and i got way to hot and had no air and passed out :( but i still had alot of fun!
whenever i go to concerts i normally get to talk to the band/person afterward and get pictures, its really cool. and its really awesome when they talk to you for a long time and make you feel special ahaha.
and i live in austin, the music capital of the world, so bands are ALWAYS here and you can go to a concert every weekend unlike you so its pretty handy.
ive won tickets to a concert on the radio before, what you have to do is get a bunch of phones, have them all pre-dialed to the number you have to dial, then when it says to call you do all of them and keep calling till one phone gets it and it will work.
well i hope that my storys were amusing to you in some way lol.
- genevieve :)

[view]


Theres a show i want to go to around the end of November. The problem is that you have to be 16 or older. I'm still 14 but i turn 15 in October. I dont look young (i've had people that thought i was in college) at all so will that benifit me? I need to show an ID? I have my school ID and it doesn't show the year I graduate. could i use that?

concerts 16+ ive been to they have all asked for i.d.'s but, if you really want to get in, just find a side door with someone and slip him like a fifty or so, depends on the person, and he'll let you in.
hope you get to go!

[view]


Ok, so on the commercial for ABC Family there is this theme song that i cant really make out until the end, and all you hear at the end is "I will be coming home..."
This has been driving me and my roomates INSANE!!!
I think he, yes a guy is singing it, says "to you" after the "i will be coming home" part but again im not 100% sure.
I need to know what the name of that song is and/or who it is by. Whoever responds to this, me and my 3 roomates are forever in your debt.

Im not sure, BUT i think this is how it the song goes:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d_2ud1UhSdU&feature=related
From the start to 0:43 is the song. IF IT IS THE RIGHT SONG, then he says "I will be coming home" at 0:28.
THANKS!!!

the song on that commercial is 'courage is' by the strange familiar.

[view]


My bf n i have been together 8 months n im pregnant he doesnt know yet n i dont know how to tell him no one knows but me n my friend... i had a prego test done at planned parenthood... but i had implanon ..a form of birth control my bf n i still used condoms 98% of the time but a few times they ripped n a couple times none was used... hes a good guy but im worried itll change us i know i cant keep it for several reasons...my heart is extremely weak just had surgery... my future his futrure our families n we dont each other well enuf to raise a baby itd break us apart etc.. but im also worried hell think im lyin or that hell wanna keep it possibly, he knows how much i hate girls than lie bout it but our friends gf has been lyin bout bein prego so im wooried hell think i am ...would i be better off havin an abortion n not tellin him or wat im worriedL

i would NOT just not ever tell him and get an abortion behind his back and never let him know. if i were you i would talk to him seriously and just be really calm about it, i mean i know its obviously not a calm thing but try not to make it a big deal and tell him you must have slipped up and that you get tested and that you are in fact pregnant and you are not sure what to do and you want his input and than yall can decide on options from there.
im hope everything goes well, i wish you the best of luck!
-maddie :)

[view]


Do you usually use pads or tampons? Do you know any brands that work good?

i use both :) on my heavy days i use both pads and tampons at the same time (i like the pads that have a fresh scent because they smell good!) and than on lighter days i use just tampons. i would suggest tampax sport, there are the best! i ALWAYS use them. but proeety much any pad or tampon will work :) hope i helped!h

[view]


what is something that you would stay in a hospital for one week, without it being TOO serious. to be quiet honest my friend allie wants to fake an injury to even see if this boy cares about her, its cruel but she has the right intentions. and she wants to have ppl tell him that shes in the hospital (he doesnt live close so she wont even really be in a hospital) and i was wondering if you do answer this question, to give me good details. like something a car accident? what would have happend, what injuries. or a sickness? what sickness and how serious. you know what i mean? PLEASE HELP! ASAP.

you could say that she got the flu, like really bad. since the flu is going around its believable. or you could say she got her appendix out or something. or she got in a car accident and the doctors want to make sure shes out of shock so they want her to stay for a week for observation...
i hope i helped :]

[view]


What is some good, popular techno music?

ResuRection - by PPK
Sandstorm - i dont remember who this is by but its really popular.
hope i helped!
-maddie :)

[view]



<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
humorist-workshop
eXTReMe Tracker