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ok it may sound weird...ive fingered myself and used a dildo kinda but ive never had an orgasim. is that weird? how can i make myself have an orgasim?
If you never have had an orgasm, it's pretty normal. Use any kind of sex play.Certain medications and physical or emotional conditions can prevent an orgasm. The most common emotional reasons for this are sexual guilt, shame, performance anxiety, and, when sex play is with another person, anger with a partner. Most of us will experience this time to time, and this is also normal.Hope this helps.
My boyfriend and I had sex last night for the first time. He didn't pop my cherry, but part of him was still in me. Does this mean i lost my virginity? Or am i still a virgin?
Some people believe that a girls whos hymen has been stretched open is no longer a virgin. But having a hymen and being a virgin are not the same thing. Virginity means never having had sex. And sometimes when you 1st have sex this doesn't happen, abd bleeding won't occur until later, Hope this helps.
im going to try and keep this short because theres only 2000 max. well ive been friends with this girl for over a year now and have had many problems. shes a senior & im a sophomore in highschool. i met her through my brother who is also a senior.. last summer she screwed me over and made me believe she was alaways here for me and i could trust her and then talked behind my back and ignored me and hung out w other people but me. and then made me feel worthless, yes having me as her pet on the side only when she had no one else. then we became close again after 4 months of not talking.. and we became really close and really good. we tell each other how we feel and what bothers us; and wen we fight hardcore we always get passed it.. but shes always ditching me and with other ppl and i guess i get jealous but she says she does too. she doesnt even make an effort to ask me to hang out with her.. i honestly dont know what to do.. can people really change? is she lying wen she says she cares if shes lied in the past about things? do i continue being close with her? the honest truth is i cant see us not being friends... i dont know what it is but she always makes me happy-with little things she says or does.. i dont know what to do.. because then theres other times where she screws me over, makes me feel horrible and bad and i get upset alot about stuff she says or does.. i just feel like sometimes she doesnt care about us being friends beause of the things shes says and they way she acts sometimes. but wen were good and close im nothing but happy and am always smiling.. but theres still jealousy. and i dont know why because she has nothing i want? if anything, she told me she wants what i have... but i dont know what to do. i cant stand being hurt and fooled by her anymore... but shes the onlyone who always makes me truly happy. i could type on forever about our friendship but ill stop here for now... any ideas?
She really doesn't sound like a true friend, a true friend to me is, someone who does not talk bad about you. Does not tell lies to you. She obviously has not realized what a great friend you are. Drop her, before she can do any damage to your life. Be the sweet person that you are. and you'll find plenty of people willing to be a good friend. Not one that ditches you,or gossips about you. There are a lot of people out there worthy of being your friend. And if you want to talk to her about it go ahead,if she is sorry,then ok but don't hang around her too much, I'm sure you have other friends,you do,make new friends, and if she does give you a negative response then, you know to leave it. Hope this helps.
i have long periods like a 12 days long is there any way i can make them shorter without taking pills..please help!
I’m assuming that your flow is lighter than normal? This is your body’s natural reaction to your change in hormones.
use the IUD, patch, pill, or ring will have menstrual periods every month. Some take the shot may not have periods often or at all while they use it. Use combined-hormone methods to skip periods.
The last seven pills in the pack are called "reminder" pills. They are inactive placebos that do not contain hormones. They are taken during the fourth week to let a woman have her period and to help her keep the habit of taking a pill on a regular basis.
Some women choose to skip placebo pills and go right into the next pack to avoid having a period continuously ,they may still experience some spotting — light bleeding — when they do this. One brand of pill — Seasonale — is being marketed as a way for women to avoid having their periods three months at a time.
Factors that can change the length of your pd. include:
Intense exercise
Dramatic weight loss
Smoking (smokers, especially thin women who smoke, tend to have longer periods)
Stress
Travel
Change in contraception methods
Disorders of the uterus
I got this info from a site, Hope this helps.
I’m sure you would agree with me in me saying drugs are bad, but I’ve made some pretty bad mistakes and I think I may be addicted. For a few months, I’ll say about 7; I’ve been using prescription drugs like hydrocodone and oxycodone. Sometimes I eat them, sometimes I snort them. A friend of mine warned me about addiction, and I’m a little worried that I could be. I’m pretty much an everyday user, and even in school, friends and even teachers tell me I should cool it. I take more and more each time, and when I didn’t have my “fix” I felt horribly sick…I didn’t even wanna go to school. [Usually, I’m pretty good about school, since I got caught skipping it.] I’ve noticed odd symptoms like nausea, headaches, nosebleeds, dizziness, blurred vision, irritability, irrational thoughts, stomach pain…and a lot more. I just don’t want to tell my mom about it, because I told her I’ve been sober since summer. And my brother knows about it, because he uses too, but since I’m younger than him, I’m afraid he’d nark on me or something. My mom doesn’t care when he comes home high, only because he’s an adult. I’m 16 and a girl, so she doesn’t like me doing it, also because of my little sister. I’ve tried to stop, and I did for a long time, but I always get back into it. A friend of mine also told me I was going through withdrawal [when I mentioned sickness]…could I possibly be addicted to opiates?
Your abusing presciption drugs. And my answer to this is ,that this pretty serious, well obviously, but doing this could seriously harm you or even kill you. All those symptoms you listed are all the results that you get from using drugs. You say your mom doesn't care that your brother is using it because he's older, well she should care, even if he is older. She should care for her children, for all of you. Maybe your mother isn't the best person to seek for help, even if you wanted her to be.
You have a problem if your craving and using a drug even if it's causing trouble for you. The cause of drug abuse can be, with work or school, or with your relations with family and friends. Your family and friends can start to notice if they see changes in your behavior. If you really want to break the addiction, you can only do that is if YOU really want to commit to it. Seek a doctor, and talk to your friends about it. You seem pretty concerned for yourself and I think you can break the addiction. Take a look at these websites too, I hope I helped! http://www.na.org/ and this. http://ncadi.samhsa.gov/
1. what are some books you would reccomend for a 16 year old. I like teen books that consist of a person's perspective on high school, sex, life, etc. so far i have the earth my butt and other big round things
ps im not interested in the sisterhood of pants lol i forgot the name.
2. what are some books you reccomend to bring up self esteem and standing up for yourself bringing up your self confidence, etc. kind of like high school survival books (i hope this makes sense)
Thanks
The best kind of books that I have read are , Chicken Soup for the TEENAGE SOUL I II and III and I think there is even more than that, those are good books, they cover all kinds of subjects.
Hope this helps.
ok i am 14 year old and i am over weight! i wanna know how can i lose weight very quickly. i know that diet and exercise is the best way but i want something faster. are there any pills that i can get from the store or what?? i need help because i really want to lose weight but i want it to be done fast!!!
Well you want to lose weight quickly, but I'm afraid it can't happen overnight as much as other people want it to. Those pills that you see on t.v. and in the stores, they're not for you especially for a girl your age, you're only 14, and those pills you don't know what kind of side effects they have on your body, you wouldn't want to mess that up. The only way to lose weight is exercising regulary, try 30 min. a day, do an exercise that you like to do. Like riding a bike with a friend, you won't really think of it as exercise, if you go with a friend. Go jogging/running listen to music you like with it. Take an mp3,cd with you. OR put a cd in and listen to something that's up-beat that gets you pumping while you excercise that's what I do. And eat healthier foods, you don't necessarily have to look at the labels, but you can stay away from those tempting things you put on your food like, butter, salt. Cut those things out,eat vegetables,fruits. That's the key to losing weight, and staying healthy. And I know it's not like you've never heard this all before, but that's what is best for you, and this is what you can do. Hope this helps.
so i like this guy...and we're kinda friends...like we talk online and stuff...but his computer broke...and i we were messaging yesterday..but idk..in person we barely ever talk...and i want to get closer to him and i know that i have to talk to him in person..but i just don't know what to say...i mean like even online and messaging..he ususally doesnt start conversations and he doesnt usually sound too interested...like one word answers..so how can i get closer to him? and if i talk to him in person..what should i say?
He's not worth your time sweetheart, you like him, but it seems like he doesn't like you back, he's giving you one worded answers,you always start the coversations..He may not want to hurt your feelings.You can't make him get closer. You say yall BARELY talk? If he really likes you, he would make an effort talk to you,if he was interested he'd ask you questions about you.It seems to me you're the one who's doing all the work here, and when you like someone you can't be the one who's doing all the work.He's trying to cut you short, so my best advice is to move on girly girl, stop talking to him, take his screenname off your buddies list. This is so you won't be tempted to talk to him again. And you don't have to talk to him in person, it's better if you not to see him. This maybe hard, but you can get through it,I'm sure there is plenty of other fine guys out there that are interested in you. And this one, girly, I'm afraid he's not the one, but I'm sure you'll find your prince charming in good time. Good luck, hope this helps.
okay, im 15, and at my school there's this girl i like A LOT. i see her every day, and she's in all of my classes, and she rides my bus. She lives 2 houses down. I've known her since i was 4, but i REALLY REALLY like her, but im not sure if she likes me, i mean, im not sure if she just wants to stay friends or not, so im not sure if i should ask her or not. anybody wanna help me?
Wow. So I'm thinking yall are really close.
If she says she just only wants to be friends, then she may not be wanting to pursue into being in a relationship with you, or maybe she does like you and may not want to ruin the friendship,Does she like you? The only way for sure to know if she likes you, is simply by asking her. Or if your afraid to ask her straight out, ask her who she likes, or does she like anybody in detail.And if she only thinks of you as a friend, don't fret. It may hurt, but at least you know, and be glad she's your friend, she can look to you for support, if a guy is a jerk to her, you'll be there to beat them up and protect her, and who knows maybe soon she'll look to you later,as someone she'd want to be with. Hope this helps.
this is the conversation i just had with my boyfriend.. i dont know if he was just really stressed or like if i should take it seriously? help!
me(10:55:21 PM): what
him (10:55:28 PM): I dont know whats wrong... I cant stand this
me (10:55:34 PM): stand what
him(10:56:14 PM): School, life
me (10:56:21 PM): yeaa i know how you feel
me(10:56:34 PM): i have like soo much work to make up still from wen i was sick like a week ago
him (10:56:55 PM): There has to be an easier way
me (10:57:06 PM): what is that supposed to mean
him(10:57:23 PM): And no you dont know how i feel
me (10:57:33 PM): okay then whats wrong?
him (9:58:07 PM): i i cant stand it
him (9:58:15 PM): i think im going crazy
me(10): i know what you mean though
him (9:58:34 PM): this has to get easier
him(9:58:53 PM): for the past half hour ive been thinking of ways to kill myself
him(9:59:00 PM): maybe itd be easier
me (10:58:57 PM): **** shut up
him (9:59:15 PM): i cant stand this
me (10:59:11 PM): stoppp
me (10:59:14 PM): thats not funny
him (9:59:26 PM): its not
him(9:59:32 PM): im crying right now
me (10:59:42 PM): it it just because you have a lot of work to make up?
him (9:59:52 PM): no
me): then what
him (10:00:00 PM): i dont know
me(10:59:55 PM): just like school in general
me (10:59:58 PM): or like something else
him (10:00:15 PM): i hate how so much is always expected of me
him (10:00:20 PM): and i can never do it
him (10:00:36 PM): i hate how everytime i finish something
him (10:00:39 PM): huge
him (10:00:52 PM): that i obsess over forever
him(10:00:56 PM): theres another
me (11:00:52 PM): yea
him (10:01:06 PM): thing just like it
him (10:01:08 PM): and
him (10:01:17 PM): i cant deal with it anymore
him (10:01:34 PM): i feel like i cant make it through life like everyone else
him (10:01:55 PM): and i dont know what to do
me (11:01:56 PM): thats really weird
me (11:01:59 PM): because like
him (10:02:08 PM): i just
him (10:02:19 PM): i jus want it to be easier
him (10:02:24 PM): i wana be an actor
him(10:02:27 PM): they dont do shit
me (11:02:22 PM): i was saying something 2 my mom about that today
me (11:02:23 PM): hahah
him (10:02:34 PM): but i cant do that
him (10:02:39 PM): im not good enough
him(10:02:41 PM): i hate it
him (10:02:55 PM): i dont want to have to worry about everything all the time
him (10:03:10 PM): i just want to relax
him (10:03:20 PM): i hate life
him(10:03:51 PM): i mean
him (10:03:54 PM): all of this
him (10:03:56 PM): work
him (10:04:02 PM): i ts for nothing
him (10:04:12 PM): i want it to stop
him (10:04:20 PM): but then i think
him (10:04:21 PM): wait
him (10:04:29 PM): i have another 8 years to go
him (10:04:38 PM): and the i cry some more
him (10:04:52 PM): and wonder if itd hurt to hang yourself
him (10:05:11 PM): please
him (10:05:18 PM): dont tell anyone about this
him (10:05:39 PM): hang yourself
him (10:05:45 PM): i meant myself
me (11:05:55 PM): **** stop
me(11:05:58 PM): seriously
me (11:06:43 PM): sry it took me so long to answer
him (10:06:56 PM): its fine
me (11:06:52 PM): i was doing something
him (10:07:03 PM): please dont tell anyone
me(11:07:02 PM): about what
me (11:07:05 PM): ?
him (10:07:18 PM): what ive been saying
me (11:07:26 PM): youre not seriously thinking about that right...
me (11:07:27 PM): ?
him (10:07:40 PM): i dont know
me (11:07:38 PM): **** come on stop
him (10:07:54 PM): it would be so easy
him (10:08:01 PM): and id be in a better place
me (11:08:00 PM): thats so weird.. because today i felt like the exact same way.. but i didnt think about killing myself....
me (11:08:04 PM): its just stress
me (11:08:15 PM): okay just think about how in a week its gonna be spring break okay
me (11:08:20 PM): and you wont have anything to worry about
him (10:08:43 PM): ok
him (10:08:44 PM): ok
him (10:08:50 PM): im gunna see you right?
me (11:08:48 PM): yeah
him (10:08:57 PM): ok
him (10:09:02 PM):alright
me(11:08:55 PM): of course
him (10:09:06 PM): i feel better
me(11:09:03 PM): okay good
him (10:09:15 PM): ok
him(10:09:28 PM): now i have to stay up all fucking nighht
me (11:09:26 PM): why
him (10:09:38 PM): because ive been putting this shit off all night
him (10:09:40 PM): all week
him (10:09:44 PM): and
me (11:09:37 PM): yea i know how you feel
him (10:09:47 PM): omfg
me (11:09:43 PM): what
me (11:09:52 PM): ?
him(10:10:03 PM): I HAVE SO MUCH TO DO
him (10:10:04 PM): dsfsgalhk
him(10:10:04 PM): ad gsj l
him (10:10:05 PM): s;nroaV UAK
him (10:10:06 PM): LDF'DFL' K
him (10:10:08 PM): FOJA
him (10:10:12 PM): i hate life
me (11:10:19 PM): **** relaxx everythings gonna be fine
the **** is his name that i starred out. =]
he said a lot of other stuff too but thats just an example and i was trying to calm him down and tell him all the good things about life but i dont know if he was serious or not.. because i doubt he would ever do that to himself. i think hes just frustrated.. what should i do?
if it helps im a frosh in highschool
thanks. =]
oh p.s. later he said...
me (12:52:42 AM): are you sure ur okay?
me(12:52:46 AM): you really wouldnt do that right?
him (12:53:30 AM): Lol right im sorry for scaring you
me(12:54:10 AM): are you sure you wouldnt?
him (12:54:34 AM): Yess go to sleep
Well, he's stressed and maybe you can ask him if you could help him with his work. Divide it in half. But to me, this maybe not the only thing that bothers him, there could be something else.
He said: so much is expected of him so I'm guessing people are vying for him to be perfect,and he's trying his best. But be careful this can be just him manipulating, some people use suicidal thoughts to get what they want or to get out of things they don't want to do, just like he says, to get out of school work. If he's talking about suicide, this is serious though,he needs to talk to someone,have a heart to heart with him.Talk about it more with him, see how he responds, and if it sounds like this is really serious,he needs to go to a professional counselour or a pysch. Hope this helps.
my bf and i have been going out for 2 months 2mrw, and i love him to death. he sends me these messages telling me how much he loves me and how he was never truely in love until he met me. well him and his ex gf went out for about 8 months and then they went through a big break up. some how they remained friends and "best" friends at that.even though im not particulary found of her,(i have never met her, but talked to her on the fone), i don't care that they are friends, i don't want to be one of these gf's whose says that he can't be friends with her because shes his ex. but she calls him all of the time talking to him about how she madeout with this 19 year old guy when shes 15 and all this stuff that she can go tell her girlfriends, and she asks him all sorts of personal questions about us, like how many times have we made out (like we count) but anyways its driving me nuts and i don't want him to think that im jealous, i just don't kno wat to do about her????what should i do?????thanks for any help that you can give me
She's jus the EX. She's no worry. He likes you and that why he's with you. The only thing that SOUNDS like he's doing wrong is that he's still talking to her.Your man hasn't gotten out of the habit of talking to to her. If all she asks personal q's, and he tells her, it's not like he's having an intimate conversation with her.
But if you don't like how she asks about your personal stuff ,just politely tell her "that's our buisness and I'm not comfortable with sharing that with you" But you can't control how your b/f speaks to others. He may see that your angry at him,but a relationship is based on trust. Without that, it could turn ugly. Don't bug him about it, and eventually he'll keep his conversations with her short. Some people can't let go all at once and get pulled back into talking too much with their exes even when it would be better all around if they had boundaries.Ask him if he minds her calling as often as she does. If he does, perhaps he should tell her so, or not answer the phone some of the time .If he's happy with things as they are, and is true to you, then lay off. Don't worry be happy. Hope this helps. Sorry so long.
ok so my boyfriend is coming to visit me this summer, what is a really good website that has cheap airfare or a really good cheap airline?? Thanks in advance!!
http://www.hotwire.com/
http://www.priceline.com/flights/default.asp?refid=PLGOOGLECPC&refclickid=AS_airfare_cheap
http://www.travelocity.com/Flights/0,2681,TRAVELOCITY,FF.html
http://www.orbitz.com/
These are the best 4 sites. Hope this helps.
ok you know the song this aint a scene, its an arms race..
well i really dont get what they are saying.
i looked up the lyrics and i still don't understand what it means.
if anyone knows, your help is appreciated. thankss
I've been wondering myself, and I came across this on a website ,hope this helps.
http://saskprairiefire.blogspot.com/
or this I got this from a website and a person said this:
The arms dealer reffers to the commercial songwriters, who write songs (weapons) for bands. They don't care which band wins, as long as the crowd sings one of their songs. This basically means labels don't care about bands and their success, as long as one of their bands is scoring hits. It's a statement against commercialization of music.
This ain't a scene (in sense of a group of currently popular artists in a genre, whereas they share the same music, but are also each others competitors). The scene is an arms race because:
1. You have to fight for your place
2. You are under constant attack by other bands, press and even your own fans
3. The bands fight among each other to score hit songs, which is really important for the labels that decide whether you stay on the scene
"I'm a leading man" - he is the lead singer, the one that spreads the weapons / lyrics. The lies he weaves are so intricate (intricate means complex), because most bands want their lyrics to appear as their own / authentic, while they are actually written by others for commercial reasons.
The boys the dance floor didn't love - probably a reference to failed boy-bands, as in these bands it's important to dance in a flashy way. The dance floor didn't love them, means they weren't good enough dancers.
The girls' whose lips couldn't move fast enough - seems to me this one is about lip-syncing, as lip-sync pop-star girls are the female counterpart of the dancing boy band boys. These girls couldn't lip sync well enough, a metaphore for girls who didn't have what it takes to make it as a pop star.
Why do they call these two 'groups' to sing along? The failed boy-band boys and pop star girls are the ones who couldn't make it in the commercial music branche. They know how hard the scene is, therefore they know it's an arm race.
I agree that the video explains a lot of the lyrics, especially FOB's attitude toward fake fans, press and competing bands (Panic).
The song is generally an FU toward the people above, they jokingly admit they are commercial and fake, as FOB has been accused of a lot. They sarcastically admit to all of these, as if they want to say: so what if all that is true? Our music will still sell.
ok well im not sexually active and never was, now i heard that u can get acne on ur vagina and i was wondering if what i have is acne, there is only one, and its kind of a bump that itches a little and kinda burns and is painful to the minimum nothing im exactly worried about because its nothing like seriously itchy or painful, im just wondering how i can get rid of it and what it is...please help?
You could have a minor infection It's fairly common, and can look a lot like pimples.Don't — squeez or pop anything! Make sure you wear clean cotton underwear and use clean towels to dry off.
Little bumps and a red rash could also be signs of a bikini line infection.It's because a razor picks up bacteria in the bikini area. The hair follicles become infected, causing little bumps.OR it could be an ingrown hair, which should be treated by a skin doctor, a dermatologist or you could pluck it if it is.
Hope this helps.
How can you tell if you are popular or not? Because i'm not sure...if I am or not.?
It's your social status with other people,how you interact with other people? Are you quiet,shy? You may not know alot of people, .If you're talkative, equally nice to other people, play sports, then you can be considered popular. But it really shouldn't matter whether you're popular or not, being popular may seem alot when you're go through grade school but it's not. It's really nice to get along with ALL people that's really important, people look up to you when you're that way.
okay i like both these boys but one is black and im white and so is my family im all for colored people but not so much my family i kinda like this kid but not totallywhat do i do
Well some parents don't except. But you can overcome it, if you chose to. You're parents don't have to like him if you do. As long as he respects you and treats you right thats all that matters. Some parents worry what everyone else will think if their child dates out of their race, I wouldn't reccomend you go behind you're parents back and date cause that's just disrespecting your parents. If you don't mind dating this kid, then simply talk to your parents about him,say I'm still your kid and that won't change, I'm happy and he makes me happy. Your happiness is what matters. Hope this helps.
i lost my virginity to my boyfriend last night.
i have been on birth control for 3 months now but i took yesterday's pill a lot later than i ususally do, and it was a little before we had sex so i am not sure if it had time to kick in.
we were having a little difficulty with the condom so we didn't use it and he accidently cummed in me.
do you think i could be pregnant?
If you use birth control within the 72 hrs. you've had sex then you're fine, or even before you've had sex.You say you didn't use a condom cause yall had difficulty using one? Birth control isn't 100% effective and,there is a possiblity you could get pregnant. Take a pregnancy test, you could go to a drugstore and get one. Hope this helps.
okay i reallllly likke this guy. When ever i think about him i smile and i get this weird feeling in my stomach, its not like butterflies though. He just makse me so happy =D. when ever i talk to him i feel like i can tell him everything and we are the only two people in the room or something, Its just such a great feeling :d. we hung out the other night with a couple of other people and it was SOOO fun. while two friends [ girl ] went off with there boyfriends, me my crush my best friend [girl] and my other fiend [boy] just stayed together, it was really great. Then my two friends left cus my friend thats a boy had to go get somethintg and they left me adn my crush alone, it was soo perfect, we talked and laughed, and flirtedd :-*! We even held hands for like a couple seconds! i almost dieddd. i could keep typing foreverrr
Awwe you're experiencing what I call puppy love, From what I can tell, you really like this dude. You sound pretty young and this sounds like this kind of thing is new to you, so I wouldn't call this LOVE LOVE, but I can say your head over heels for this guy. Being head over heels means what exactly you describe, butterflies, smiling whenever you hear his name. This could may as well be known when it's the real thing (love) too. Make sure this guy is right for you, and if yall get together ( go out) I could say yall could fall in love (young love) but love (the real thing) takes time, you'll usually find out the real meaning to love you're older. Hope this helps.
do 16 year old guys allready have sex????????
The majority of them has had that already, but not every guy is doing it. Some guys they talk about it, and some of them haven't done it yet, they talk about it because it's interesting, it's a guy thing they want to look manly, mature. And I'm practically sure they've all had their sex education. So it's a guy thing to talk about. Hope this helps.
i pierced my own lip and it doesnt hurt but it looks like i got punched in the lips. its not really horribly swollen but its swollen. im not really sure what to do so im not eating or drinking anything except water. is this normal? someone help please!
OOO, definatley not. You should have gotten it professionaly done,now it could be infected. At a professional, they sterilize everything. Sweeling is normal, but try putting some ice on the place you put the hole, this should numb it. Right after your lip feels numb rub alcohol on your lip and your chin,if the piercing seems crusty,go to a doctor, ASAP! Hope this helps!