How do you get music to play in your columb?
TO: music
its kinda hard to tell it on here bc it just wont work...buh i can i can IM it to you...my xanga has moosic playin fer windows if ya wanna check it out...
my AIM: myidentity1990
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Ok, I was just wondering if you knew what the letter "v" was. I mean "whatever" is not spelled "whateba" and "have" is not spelled "hab". I read a couple of your answeres and was just amazed at all of the mispelled words. It really annoying and really hard to read your advice.
TO: (blank)
srry...it just thah im sooo used to typin this way thah i hab to like totally be focused to see thah im typin thing tha rong way...i mean come on..schools out and i dunt need to be perfect this summa...its just the way i type and everyone has theyr own typin style..mine is like this...if its hard to read fer you im reallie sorry... habit...ya noe?
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Ok well ive already asked this but everyone is telling me the same thing.
well i went away for the summer. when i got back my mom hade this really bad attitude to me. in the beginning the attitude was comeing from my dad. i really didnt care because i dont live with my dad n e ways my mom was being all harsh on me for all the little things. i told my friend all the things i was thinking and my mom found out. she will not talk to me.ive already told her i was sorry.and did a lot to make her forgive me, but nothing worked. Should i keep doing what im doing or what. dont tell me to talk to her cause everytime i try she walks away and i dont want to play games.
TO: Mom trouble
i dunno wat otha ppl told you buh heres wat im going to...if you think wat you think and feel wat you feel then you should keep on thinking and feelin thah way...buh try to keep it more to yourself becoz it dos gib your mom some bad reputation and thahs not exactly tha kind of thing she mite want...
also...if she dunt wanna talk to you about wat you did and stuff then you hab to hab someone talk to her..you definitely hab to let her noe wat you thot and felt and how (as you sed) she started PO-ing about tha lil things and it annoyed you...if you guys dont hab any mututal understanding and stuff as an afterwards then like things can get pretty ugly between you two in the footoore and you prolly wanna avoid thah as much as possible...ya noe?
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~ihave a serious problem...my frien cuts herself horribly cuz she thinks her life sux. last time i saw her she had 5 cuts on her arm. They were so deep. 3 of them she blamed on her cat. I have a cat and it dosent scratch perfect distances away. they were like 2 inches long. I asked her y she does it and she says cuz her life sux. i said y does it sux? she said one reason is cuz her grampa has cancer. she admitted to 2 of them and she woodnt tell me wat she used.
~i cut myself cuz every since i was born i have lived in9different houses. also my biological dad abused my mom and i havent seen him since i was 1 and a half. i had a step dad but hes gone now. he has to go to counsilin cuz he had theartened to hit me 2 times. although he never did it scared me teribbly. one day my mom had told me if i heard screamin to dial 911. i did hear screamin and i let it go 4 bout 5 min. Then i called. jus as the cops walked in my step dad was pushin down my mom. he went to jail but go out. then my mom was in the hospital. i came home and i didnt kno where she was. some how i found out. i dont member. she had mal-noutrition and double namonia(sp). she cood of died and i was only 11/12 at the time. and if she did i didnt kno where i woodve gone. my biological father owes me over 60,000 dollars in child support.
~ do u have ne kinda idea of a way i cood kinda train myself to stop cuttin? PLZ HELP ME AND MY FRIEN!!!
TO: my friend cuts...and so do i
dont throw away your life...everyone has to go through some kind of hardship and endure at least a lil bit of pain to grow...in you behalf you've had at least your share and mehbe more which will prove useful in the footoore...fer rite now theres not much you can do buh hold on and keep hoping..."you can die at any time buh living takes real courage. everyone has thah courage wen theyre born buh its like a muscle thah needs to be excercised to prove thah it can endure all tests thrown its way"...hold on to life and all the lessons you learn now and itll get you somewhere better...dont look at your life as half emptie...tell your frend too... mehbe both of you can go to a support group or sumthin thah will totally help...buh watebe ya do dont give up...keep trying...ya noe?
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My best friend is pissed off at me just because my science teacher chose my suggestion/idea on my project over my best friend's idea. She is giving me an attitude and is refusing to talk to me. What should I do?
TO: My friend....
its okay if she's mad at you...sometimes ppl just get jealous fer watebe reason and frends hab stoopid fites ova thah kind of stuffs...me and by bff do it all the time and such...
you hab two options...1)try reallie hard to get her to talk to you and be frends agin and stuff like thah or 2)wait till all he rstema like cools off and stuff, then talk to her...whichebe way you put it im gessin your frend mite be jealous of you for some unknown reason and its best thah you guys talk about thah too sometime...if not you guys can hab these constant fites like on and off and it gets annoying...ya noe?
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Okay, ONLINE, I've been talking to this guy for at least 2 years. He is the sweetest, greatest guy. But I ONLY have talked to him online, and the phone. And believe me, he's no 50 year old man.:P Well, for like the first year I talked to him, I liked him so much. I even got jealous if he talked to another girl. And, turns out, he liked me too. Just..both of us never said anything. Which totally sucks, because things could've been so differet! :( But, my problem is that I still like him. I love him, hell. I do..but I think he's over me. In his mind we're still just really best friends, but I want to be more. If I tell him, he'll probably be freaked out..cause, well, he prob. thinks I'm over him, too. But..noo..=/
TO: Please, please help me.
thahs how i am with my reallie close frend...hes like totally cool and everything buh i dunt think he likes me like THAH anymore...im planning to just tell him straight sometime this summer tho...i mean if we are as close of frends as i think we are then things should be fine rite? i wont hab anything to lose...same with you and your frend...mehbe you should just tell him straite too...it mite help...ya noe?
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How do you know when a guy likes you for you and not just your body? Ya know, cause some guys now-a-days feel intimidated by a girls mind and become lil punk asses!!! *wink*wink*p-boy!*
LOVE the THOMAS SISTERS! Ü
TO: the THOMAS SISTERS! Ü
most of them you can just tell...theres reallie no explanation to this... its found out by instinct... i mean wat they do shows exactly how they fell and stuff like thah so most of the time its easy to juts NOE...ya noe?
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i really like this guy...hes a year older then me..i kno he doesnt like me(at least i think he doesnt).. we flirt sometimes i guess... but how do i kno if he likes me or not? i dont wanna tell him i like him if he doesnt like me back!
TO: guy
if you dont noe at all then you could just hab one of your frends ask...like tell them to go to him and say sumthin like "Hey out of curiosity do you like my frend? i mezan you guys get along so well it seems like it and all and i was just wondering. if ya do ya can tell me ya noe" er sumthin like thah...its the safe way and it dosnt go too much through the risk zone of him finding out..o and make soore thah she gets the timing rite because if not then it totally messes things up (my frend asked wile i was like RITE THERE and the guy wadnt eben lookin at my frend afta she sed it..he gabe this wierd look and i was all like OH.MY.GOD.!!)...ya noe?
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Hi Jenipher here and well see my friends are hardly speaking to each other bc of who knows what and they pull me side to side and like one wants to come home with me , then if the other one finds out she torments the life out of the other one and I always get stuck in their fights even when I don't know whats its about,.... What should I do??? Sorry so long
PLZ HELP ME
TO: Jenipher
my two reallie close frends do this like ALL THE TIME too...just tell them both thah everytime they hab a fite (eben if ya noe wat its about) thah you dont wanna be involved by any means... no side or anythin...make it absolutely clear thah for every fite they hab you are to be considered neutral and no other...thahs wat i did and it helped so i hope it helps you too..i mean come on your frends with BOTH of them so why choose sides on something thah your not eben part of...ya noe?
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theres this really hott guy at my school and i already went out w/ him before but he dumped me...i still like him alot! should i ask him out or not?
TO: should i ask blake out?
totally get oba him...i mean he alredy dumped you once...hes prolly gonna refoose you this time too...go for someone more worth it insted...ya noe?
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Hey see I knew this boyfor about 8 years now and he went away when we was10 years old then he finally shows up yesturday and expects us to re be friends...... and I hardly even reconize him.!
so what should I do?? PLZ HELP
TO: hey??!!!!!!???
be frends agin!! definitely...i mean why not? you knew him fer a long time and he comes back and stuff...shouldnt ya be happie...ya noe?
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17-F Okay...I've never had a really good relationship before. All my friends and seem to have the perfect boyfriends and I can't even meet someone that I connect with. I feel like I'm never going to meet my special someone. I know that your suppoes to be happy with yourself until you can be completely happy with someone else...so I did that...I fixed everything I don't like about myself and really am happy with my life as it is...except not having my significant other...what can I do?
-Sincerely, hopeless
TO: hopeless
heres wat im gonna tell you...just relax and wait...everyone has their own "special time" and stuff like thah...yours is just coming a lil late is all...wile waiting... be yourself...someones bound to come sooner er latta...ya noe?
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ok im 14 yrs old n i really like this guy who is my cuzins best friends i'll call him ummm... dany! ok well dany told me a couple of weeks ago dat he really liked me since when we first me!! ok then we started talking n for like 2weeks we were seeing each other but secretly bcuz im afraid my cuzin will get mad! ok well da other day my cuzin told me thatd dany has had a girlfriend for like the past 2 months!!!!!!!!!!!! omfg i was so pissed bcuz i goy like hooked on him. n now dany told me that his girlfriend is pregnant! he keeps telling me he doesnt like her at all bcuz she's done too many bad things to him n dany tell me that the only reason dat hes with her for right now is bcuz he wasnt to take care of the baby. he says dat he doesnt wanna leave her out on da strrets when her parents find out shes pregnant n he says that he likes me soo much n too plz understand dat its only bcuz of da baby n dat like after she has the baby he want to take the baby away from her bcuz shes like an alcoholic n uses drugs n shes neva hom but anyways hes telling me to plz wait n that after all this is over me n him will be officially be going out... but idk i really really like him like he got me hooked n its really hard like today n when he told me his gf is having a baby a started crying n he told me to not worry n stuff but its like ok ur going to be with her like it or not bcuz shes the mom.right?! im very confused idk if i should like forget nout him or wait or idk HELP PLZ *ill rate u guys*!!!!
TO: theres a me n a her!!! HELP ME PLZ!!!!
in a situation like this its your call...do you believe him or do you not? tha onie advice i gess i can gib you is thah you should at least put things up fer a hold until things get a lil bit more straightened out...i mean wat else can ya do rite now...ya noe?
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hi um my neighbor knows i like him and i think he likes me but today he had like 5 friends over and they were inside in the basement and like i heard one of them say to me hey logans gf! and i ignored her but then logan was like heyyyy rachellll! and u know what i mean but yah i dk if he likes me and i wanna go out wiht him really bad!!! please HELP!
TO: ???help???
just go up and ask....i mean you guys are neighbors and if you are frends then it makes the situation a bit easier dunt ya think...tell him straight and see...most likely your hunches are correct...ya noe?
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ok me and my boyfriend have been together for about 4 months now, and hes been talkign baout having sex and whatever i try and blow it off because im still a virgin and I really dont think he is the one i wanna do it with but i dont wanna hurt his feelings, but at the same time I dont want him to think we are going to do it, i just wanna know a good way to tell him that i am just not ready...PLEASE HELP ME!!!
TO: sex...
just go out and say it...i mean wat else can you do...tell him your not redy yet and wen you are you'll let him noe...also incloode thah it mehbe too soon to do it yet...i mean you would prolly want more time to noe him insted of just going on out and doing it...ya noe?
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my guy n i have been dating for 6 months,. i really like him n all,. but i never can say i l0ve him. becuz to tell yah the truth i dont know what love is yet.. i'm 13 and yea i'm into sports .. i play fieldhockey , tennis, captain of my cheer squad.. powerpuff football, softball, and track!! so i dont have taht many boyfriends , cuz i dont have time~ well my guy is getting upset that i dont tell him that i love him ,. i told him the situation and he just toatlly ignores it * he ahsnt called me for 1 week now when he use to call every night.. he has left a text on my celly that he wants to see other people,.i was fine with that ,. now all these Guys Like me and all the sudden he likes me again now.. is he just usin me..
o yea PS ( he asked me to Marry him!)
=0 me scared
help!
TO: =0 me scared
to me his guy sounds like some jerk thah dusnt appreciate who you reallie are...i think mehbe he IS useing you coz he onlie reallie wanted you agin wen other ppl started liking you...hes prolly one of those ppl who go out with the MOST WANTED chik and thahs sooo not coo...ya noe?
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ok i have known this girl for about 10 years and lately she been rapidly loosing weight and not eating anything whenever she does she runs to the bathroom, and one time i followed her into the bathroom and i heard her throwing up when i confronted ehr about it she just denied it and said it wasnt her throwing up but i followed her in there and i know it was her she was the only one in there besides me and im really scared for her i dont want her to die from this and i love her and she means the world to me how could i possibly get her to realizxze that she needs sum help?
TO: i think my friend has a eating disorder.
if you think she has a problem...go talk to someone about it who could talk to her for her... you could definitely help her by letting her parents noe..thah way they can take her for a check up and see how she it..ya noe?
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How do you get music on you're column page?
you put this code under the "wat you want the world to noe about you" etc etc page...:
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15-Female
I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months, going on 10 very soon. We have been having tons of fights lately, most of them are over little things, but there was a pretty major one today. He got in trouble last night, and he THINKS his parents may not accept me, He is Indian, and I am Italian..a pretty big culture difference, and his parents think he should not marry out of his culture that is based on family, ect. I have been extremely confused on how to go about this. I don't know if I should just move on, but I don't think I could if I tried..or just try to work it out. I mean, we have our wedding planned, on where we want it to be, and everything. Even the other day we were looking at baby names together..he is honestly the most amazing guy ever. Do you guys think I should just keep hanging on and see what happens..or leave him for something I may not ever find...? And also, what do you think I could say to him to really let him know he is a very special person? Thanks a bunch...
TO: dont know what to do..
heres wat i think: if hes as sweet as you say (and you make him sound like hes a MAJOR sweetie!! lolz) then hang on to him for a lil wile longer and see how things go...you can always call a "Time Out" in you guys's relationship to pull yourself back together if you need to...
also...to let him noe thah hes spethal is just by being there for him especially wen he needs you... wat more can ya do for him to show him hes THAH spethal...ya noe?
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ok,. SO i had this surprise birthday pool party for my best friend last night,. everyone was there, i'm 17 .My best friend ( the one i was havin the party for) asked if she could invite 2 19 year olds,. i said yea that fine.. so she did,. and they came , it was great,. until she left like 20 mins later to go Drinkin with her 2 new friends.. I talked to her bout it today,. she said dont worry bout it n that she would get her presents later,. i was like.. pshh friends. yea ryte,. and hung up.. i'm sp pissed at her now! - but i really do still wanna be friends,.. becuz we have been since kindergarden,.. and i cant throw it away over 1 mistake can i??? please help!
your rite..you shouldnt throw it all away oba one mistake...so go and apologize and try her frends... mehbe youll like em as much as she does...ya noe?
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