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Don't know what to do..
15-Female
I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months, going on 10 very soon. We have been having tons of fights lately, most of them are over little things, but there was a pretty major one today. He got in trouble last night, and he THINKS his parents may not accept me, He is Indian, and I am Italian..a pretty big culture difference, and his parents think he should not marry out of his culture that is based on family, ect. I have been extremely confused on how to go about this. I don't know if I should just move on, but I don't think I could if I tried..or just try to work it out. I mean, we have our wedding planned, on where we want it to be, and everything. Even the other day we were looking at baby names together..he is honestly the most amazing guy ever. Do you guys think I should just keep hanging on and see what happens..or leave him for something I may not ever find...? And also, what do you think I could say to him to really let him know he is a very special person? Thanks a bunch...
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TO: dont know what to do..
heres wat i think: if hes as sweet as you say (and you make him sound like hes a MAJOR sweetie!! lolz) then hang on to him for a lil wile longer and see how things go...you can always call a "Time Out" in you guys's relationship to pull yourself back together if you need to...
also...to let him noe thah hes spethal is just by being there for him especially wen he needs you... wat more can ya do for him to show him hes THAH spethal...ya noe?
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Well if you feel he is worth it then try and make everything work, you shouldnt let family or anything else come in the way if you are truely in love, and for telling something he is a special person just let him know how much you love him and how much he means to you thats about the best thing you could to do tell someone how special they are to you, tell him that no words can express how you feel about him or something like that
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Ohhh man... I bet its hard having major cultural differences! The first thing I noticed was you are only 15 and VERY VERY young!!! You definitly dont need to start planning your whole future now, not unless you plan to get married now. Just have some fun with your boyfriend, be in love and crazyy! And if in 5 years, yall are still in love then thats when you should talk to his parents about the cultural differences... DEFINITLY NOT NOW!! One more thing, dont break up with him because his parents dont accept you, be very considerate towards them and make them grow to love you!! Good luck hun with your boyfriend!!
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