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Im 18 years old..born & raised in northern va. I love to have fun with my girls, and ofcourse love to shop. Im a goody goody and damn proud of it! Feel free to ask me any questions, thats what this website is for : )

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I am so....depressed!!! I make a group for people who like Shaman King... then, many people joint my group... But... they don't do anything!!! They don't make any announcement... they don't make any discussion... the don't make any polling... Urgh!! They are so lazy to do anything!!! And I, I am the only person who makes announcement, discussion, and other things. They don't even care about the group!!! OH... how I hate them so much!!! They just want to join a group to make them look cool, but don't want to do anything for the group activity... So what do I have to do?? Please help!!! (And anyway, I always rate 5)

This is not a reason to be depressed lol but just ask the ppl to give you some input on their thoughts...you can't make them do anything but just ask for them to help you keep it going

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When you go and get your senior pictures professionally taken, they say they can take out blemishes and retouch the picture. But what if I had a small mole on my face that I wanted them to edit and take that off? Is that possible?

yup they can remove moles easily...it might actually depend on the company that's doing it for you

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Hey,

I really want to work(im 16 yrs old and a female), but my parents say that it will take away from my studying time and that im going to start getting bad grades. But i know that i can balance my time. I really want to work so that i can buy me things when i want and i could buy what i want. In this case its easier to convince my mom than my dad. But i really want to start workin. PLEASE give me ways to try to convince them.....i rate 5's for any answer.
Thanx

Tell them you will only work parttime ofcourse...and if your grades start slipping, they can tell you to quit anytime. Tell them getting a job will give you a sense of real responsibility..which you will really need in the future...and tell them, getting a job will help you stay away from bad stuff they dont like...such as drugs..drinking..partying..*

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Okay, so ... I'm a month and 7 days late for my period, but I'm NOT sexually active, anyone have an idea of what might be going wrong?

You can be up to three months late even if you are healthy....so dont worry too much...just talk to your gyno and him/her to check you out incase.

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whats an appropriate age to get a thong.. im thirteen.. is that too young?? also.. are thongs more comfortable than regular underwear??

I think they are VERY uncomfterable ...but everyone has their own comfort levels...so try it out

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i havent gotton my period yet and i have a ?. when i get it for the fist time will i know, or will i not know till i go to the b/r? i dont want it to like leak through or nething, that is what i m most afried of! just tell me if i will know or not! thxs!

Most girls feel something when they get it..so you most likely will be able to tell*

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i make such a big deal out of little things with me and my boyfriend.. he thinks kristin from laguna beach is so hot so we fight wen he watches it.. its not my fault im jealous, but what can i do?

theres no reason to be jealous...hes with you because he likes YOU...and besides dont u think orlando bloom is hott? how would u feel if he got upset everytime you watched a movie with orlando bloom

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hey, lately xangas have been the popular thing, but im getting sick of it...any more cool things i could use? thanks. i rate

try myspace or livejournal but xanga is better ( :

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I am seventeen, and I've had my period for about 4 years. It has always been regular [never late. always early or on time.] Right now it's 2 weeks late, and I know irregular periods are completely normal for someone who's had it for a couple years. But shouldn't it be pretty regular by now? I am NOT sexually active, so there is no way I am pregnant. (My mom is freaking out and telling me to confess already, ha.) Anyways, should I be a little worried that it's THIS late?

no, I read in cosmopolitan that your period can dissapear for up to three months and you still have nothing to worry about. But I would go and check it out with my gyno just to make sure

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Hey All.

My boyfriend is coming over in a few hours, and we have to stay outside. He will only be here for about an hour. He has a car, and he can drive, but we can't go anywhere. What are some things that we could do? (like games or w/e not nasty stuff)

Thanks in advance!

I'll rate and leave feedback, if that helps!

Oh, Its our 18month anniversery today, too.

-SLeK-

try cooking together or rent a movie to watch together

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wherever i go, i call my boyfriend before i go and tell him or he makes me feel bad

whatever i do, i call my boyfriend and tell him before i do it or he makes me feel bad

when we fight, i am given all the blame

if i want to hang out with friends, i can, but he makes me feel bad

if he is stressed out, i am feeling bad because hes telling me what i try is not enough and i should always put him before me

hes needy, and he knows it!

if im happy spending time away from him and im w/ friends, he feels bad and makes me feel bad

but he says nothings ever his fault, he cant help it if he feels bad

i am the one who has to do EVERYTHING!, because he used to do things for me in the beginning of our relaitonship but now if i dont do it, he makes me feel bad.

im always made to feel bad.

okay sounds like this dude needs serious help. tell him he doesnt own you...and your not his mommy to take care of him lol...talk to him bout it...most likely he wont listen...and i dont think its worth bein with someone like that

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Ok, I was just wondering what color eye liner you thought would go well with me. I have blue eyes most of the time (they change) And brown hair but not really dark. And also blonde high lights. Plz help

try brown eye liner...dark brown eyeliner

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okay I have a dog and she is so nasty she always eats her poop and I seriously do not know what to do like today she went outside and took a crap then came inside and had a whole bunch of dog crap on her butt my friend had to give her a bath and right after that she went back outside and took another crap and got it stuck to her fur again but not just her butt she had it like all over her fur like her sides and had streaks coming down from her butt it was so nasty and how can I get her to stop and i have already tooken her to the vet and they gave her some medicine but it didn't work and i seriously need some help so please help me i will really appreciate it if yall would answer my question and I will give you a five if you give a serious answer and not weird

Luv BrItTaNy

maybe you could change the type of food you feed her...give her another brand....or maybe you could clean her up every time she takes a dump outside lol

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well lets see im in love his name is bo but the problem is he moved away we are always on again off again he claims tht he loves me too i juss really wanna kno if he does u kno im waiting fer him dunno why er fer wut but im tired of waiting i wanna be with him for the rest of my life till the day i die and no matter wut i wil always love him and he would always have a place in my heart... i wonder is all this waiting worth it? wut shoudl i do?

if you feel that strongly for him, then it might be. and if you feel that you can spend the rest of your life with him, why not take ur relationship to the next level and move in together? or maybe even get engaged..*

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I like this guy. I dont know him that well, but theres a connection and I really like him. The thing is he is super popular and extremley good looking. ALL the girls like him, and he usually dates just "hot" girls with zero personality. I'm not exactly pretty...or even attractive at that but I have an awesome personality. He is awesome and deserves way better than the girls he dates. Is there any way I can get him to have the same feelings as me? Will being his friend help?

I think if you be his friend...rather than hitting on him...he will actualy get to know you better and see your great personality...*

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have you ever had a girl you really liked but she didnt know? and you knew she didnt like you like that? what should i do

get to know her better...maybe she will start liking you*

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how should a normal healthy teen relationship be? how much should you see eachother? what kinda things should u do, where should u go? what are some bad things to do w/ your boyfriend? is fooling around a bad idea? ive been w/ my bf for 11 months.... but i feel too tied down, like im married....

I think you should always do just what feels right. Try going to places like the movies, place to eat ice cream, eating dinner at fun places like tgif..olive garden..red lobster..try going ice skating...its real fun

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ok so i have brown hair down to the middle of my back. i always wear it down and thats all. this year i wanna change the style of it, professionaly. any suggestions?

you could try getting side bangs...or just lots of layers up to ur shoulders.

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if I TAKE MY TIME WITH MY EX DO U THINK WE COULD GET BACK TOEGHTHER?

anything is possible.....*

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Ok well, im skinny. But my arms have like a flab where my muscle should be. You know the part under your shoulder. Well I was just wondering how I could get that to go away? Cause it really bothers me like when i move it jiggles (gross I know!). Also when I put my arms down to my side it like flattens out and makes my arm look big and fat. So i was just wondering how I could get that to go away!! Thanks to the people who arn't jerks about it. I'll rate.

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pushups....those will def help...start out by doing just 10-15 a day...then increase each day

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