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heyy guys im jessica (jessie) and i love giving advice.♥ i may be younger than you but i will give you the best advice i can give =) .. ask me a question and if you want to keep it more personal or detailed you can IM me at unxreachhable , kisses♥

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Does friends make the best relationship even if the guy doesn't have any game? (link)
most of the time yes because you know them really well.. but if you like people with "game" them maybe that friend isn't right for you, and you should move on to someone else with more game. =) xo


how can you find out who rated you and how much they rated you and their reasons for it? thanks!! (link)
click veiw feedback =)


anyone know where to get a cute AIM valintine icon? thx a bunch!! (link)
http://www.iconator.com =)


13-F! Tommorrow there's a dance at my town, I'm thinking of goin and need some help. How can I do my make-up? How can I do my hair?(A few inches below my sholder.) And what to wear? I'm thinking jeans and a white tee or tanktop. By the way* My crush is going to be there and were both single and how can I get him to know I want him? (link)
Straighten your hair .. or curl it.. put on some foundation , eyeliner , lipgloss & mascara! do sking tones =] there the prettiest .. hope you have fun! and get your friends to introduce you to your crush or for them to be like commmon! come dance with __ (whatever your name is)

hope you have fun
xoxox jessie =] !


I need help QUICK!! Im getting my braces tightened for the first time tomorrow and I know to expect pain but how much? And do they hurt WHILE he's tightening them or AFTER hes done? Should I take advil first? Will i be able to eat/chew food afterwards? How long does it take for him to tighten them? Thanks ill rate high!! (link)
take advil first and of corse you will be able to chew.. it takes like 1hr for the HOLE "experience" lol ..
hope u have fun
-jessie


my friends say i should be more affectionate with my cursh because he likes me! what should i do?! how can i be affectionate?! (link)
walk up to him and hold his hand =) do little things like that and write him notes ! its soo cute to me.

xo


Does anyone know any places that you can put pictures on? One that allows you to store up how many pictures you like and comes with a guestbook? (link)
www.photobucket.com

www.picturetrail.com

=) xo


Okay well I am a 17 female and i will be 18 on Saturday. Lately i've had really low self esteem which is really strange for me. I'm a good athlete and I have no problem with my looks or my body, and I have lots of friends. But for some reason lately I just get this vibe from EVERYONE that i'm just not wanted. And it is for no particular reason, nothing has changed and i haven't gotten into any fights with my friends or anything. Its so weird, like for example, if one of my friends calls one of my other friends when i am with her i will feel hurt becuase she didn't call me, which i know is really silly and i've never been like this in my life. One of my teachers didn't agree with an opinion i gave in school today and she agreed with one of my friends and i just automatically thought that she hates me and doesn't like me which i know is obsurd. In my head i know i'm acting ridiculous but I'm still hurt everytime something small like this happens. I'm starting to feel really bad about myself and I can't figure out why, but it's driving me crazy. I won't even go to partys anymore becuase I feel like no one wants me there, but I have no reason to think this. I'm becoming very antisocial and this definitly isn't me. I'm desperate for some help! (link)
You serisouly need to start having more self confidence. Talk to a guidance counsler or something. Belive me teachers are just like that.. and I'm sure that you are wanted. Just ask around and stuff to make sure that your really not like right that people don't want you. Ask your friends or teachers or people why they have been "acting different" towards you. Best luck.
-Jessie


im in 8th grade and me and my boyfried have been going out for a few months...but we dont rly talk on the phone.We talk ALOT in school but not on the phone and when we talk there is allways something to talk about..is this a bad thing that we dont rly talk on the phone?
help i rate!! (link)
It isn't really bad that you don't talk on the phone, but if you have his number maybe you should call him sometime if you have plenty to talk about. I bet he would be prettty happy and then he would start calling you more. =) good luck.
-Jessie


i already asked a question like yesterday but this is a lil different.

im 16.f and my best friend is 13. im gin out w/ her older brother. she says evey thing i do involves her. i totally disagree and i think i wand to do things on my own w/o her "approval". she does not like me and her brother together and she wants me to "take a break" or break up with him or something and i kep telling her no and she keeps asking. what do i tell her? (link)
Ignore her and don't let her step all over you. That is really RUDE and you dont need her bossing you around .. that's what you have parents for.
-Jessie


O-k my boyfriend is so cool.... but lately he's been acting differently. as if he wants more from me!! what should I do? (link)
Talk to him about it and ask him why he seems to be acting different. Ask him if you said or did something wrong. ..
-Jessie


I was hanging out with a group of my friends the other day after school. We were just hanging out having a good time and one of my friends pulls out a joint and lights it. She started passing it around our group of friends and everyone took a puff of it but me. I basically just stood there confused. These innocent girls that I had known since I was 6 years old had just lit up a joint and smoked it. I am completely disgusted by drugs and drinking and I will never do it because it's the worst thing you can do to yourself. They started making fun of me that I wouldn't smoke it. I wasn't hurt that they were making fun of me, but I was just hurt at their stupidity for smoking it. I don't know what to do. They've been my friends for a very long time and have always been loyal to me, but this is something I can't handle. What should I do? Should I tell them they should stop? I'm so confused! Please help. (link)
You should tell them how you feel about it and if then dont stop then dont hang out with them. They don't seem like the right crowd for you if your not interested in doing things like that.
-jessie


I'm a breakfast, lunch, dinner type of girl. I try not snack inbetween, but I find that many times, after lunch, a few hours before dinner, I am SO hungry...does anyone have some really nutritious snacking ideas? (link)
Eat an apple or something healthy when your REALLY hungry .. or grab one of those nutrigrain bar thingys =)
-jessie


To all you guys...what do guys like for valentines day...like in general? i have no idea what to get my guy...like chocolate? flowers? hats? what? please help!
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take him to the mall and find out what he is like omg i want that or something .. and go back and get it for him =)
-jessie


i am just gonna come out and say that i've been playing with anorexia but i have a question regarding the actual cycle. I'll do really well starving for awhile then ill end up binging and it just throws all my hard work out the window. what are some ways i can curb my appetite-are there any tips to prevent yourself from eating id rather just not put it in my mouth to begin with because if i eat too much ill throw it up anyways. also everyone always says to drink a lot of water to curb ur appetite but i do then i gain even more water weight-i know its just water weight but it makes it that much harder to step on the scale. help please! (link)
You dont need to be anorexic. That's just stupid in my opion.
-Jessie


ok on aol I am trying to get a funny but cute screen name or just funny I am a girl and I am really tired of the one I have cookiemonster thx (link)
fruitypebblesxO
hahah thats kuteee =))
-jessie


What would be a quick way to lose a few pounds? I can't do anything outside because of all of the snow, and I'm not allowed to run for at least a week because I have a concusion. So what else can I do like inside? (link)
Turn on some music and excersise and dance =)) and on top of that you get to have fun doing it!! hehehe =)
-jessie


hey i just started cutting and i have cuts all down my arm and i am afraid that a teacher or something is going to ask me where i got them should i tell them the truth or lie? (link)
You should really stop. and wear long sleve teeshirts until they go away .. and if they see it tell them the truth .
-jessie


i have this friend who is so selfish. she told me that if i went out with his guy named matt that shed hate me more then her friend olivia. i really like her as a frind..but i want your opinion..thanx (link)
Well then let her hate you !! because if you like him you like him, and most likely that ISNT a threat unless she has like beat up olivia or something .. best luck xo


i dont know how to dance. can someone pleas tell me some moves on just how to dance, like a dance for a school dance. please dont delete (link)
people dont teach you to dance ! it should come naturally =) shake yourr buttt & move your arms !! lol xo




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