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I'm Kaylee, I'm fourteen but many people say I act older then I really am. People say I'm high maintence, I have no clue why they would ever think that! =P I have some people in my life right now that mean a lot to me and I would do anything for them. I love to give advice so send your questions to my inbox. ♥
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My friend and I have been planning to go to the movies with our boyfriends this friday since last week. I started my period today and it made me a little dissapointed.. is there ANY way I can make sure it's done by Friday?
Thanks
no sorry you can't control your period, it comes when it comes. i heard if you excersize a lot like run 7 miles in a day that sometimes it can either postpone or eliminate your period. it worked for my friend. you could try working out heavily and MAYBE (i'm not making any promises) you won't not get your period since it worked for my friend, but everyone is different so it may not work. just be confident and have a great time with your boyfriend and your friends because your period won't stop you from having the time of your life. good luck :)
I'm terribly bored with my screen name. I've had it since the 6th grade, but I cant think of anything to change it to.
my names Bee.
&& im a little crazy.
So give me anything you can think of, nothing is to out there.
Thanks.
CrAzYxChIc
BEE is CRAZII
BEE CRAZY xo
omfg its bee
hOLa bEe is Crazy
xo bee xo
crazy my LiFesYLE
c r a z y xo b e e
bee bee x3
XxX bumble bee XxX
...
yeah those are a few ideas. sorry if you didn't like them but i tried!
Is it appropriate for my 12 year old 7th grade sister to wear a little makeup for when she cheerleads at football games. If so, what kind?
i think a little makeup can't hurt. thats actually the age when i started to try makeup. she should definitely use lipgloss if she doesn't already, and maybe a little mascara would look pretty. if she wants to wear eyeshadow, then she should do a natural color like tanish or something kind of close to her skin color, not like bright blue. even a light pink is okay. i started to wear eyeliner when i was either 12 or 13 but everyone in my school wore eyeliner so i didn't look trashy. if you see a lot of her friends wearing eyeliner let her try a little, but i think she should only wear it on the bottom lid. definitely NO lipliner, shes way to young for that i'm 14 and still don't wear it. blush is fine once again just a natural color looks fine. just make sure she doesnt over do it and if she puts too much on tell her because when i first started wearing makeup i thought you just put on a ton of everything at once and my parents didn't tell me it looked bad because they didnt want to hurt my feelings, so when i went to school every one was laughing at me and i didn't know why. so make sure she doesnt cake it on!!! hope this helped ♥
So it turned out that I wasn't ready to kiss him. So I didn't. Will there ever be another chance?
there will be plenty of other times to kiss him. you made the right decision. dont kiss until you know your ready and it will mean a whole lot more.
So I'm a nice person, I get a long with people. A lot of the time, if I'm mad at someone, its for a real reason. Other than that I'm really down to earth, and I love everyone. But sometimes, I feel like I don't look as if I'm nice. Sometimes people tell me I look stuck up. Which I do. I don't concentrate on my facial expressions..but they always make me look rude or annoyed with someone. Haha. I don't get it. And that's why sometimes people don't talk to me, because it looks like I'm stuck up. But I'm not! I don't know what to do..help?
just smile a lot and dont give people dirty looks or walk around sticking your nose up in the air and acting like your better then everyone else. just try to look sweet practice in the mirror and when you meet someone new talk to them so they know your not really a bitch and be nice and stuff. hope i helped ♥
hey waz up but i need help when i go on my advicenaters and it works but then it says something about if you are a member for a long time or not but i cant get through it and my mom even helped me but we cant do it i asked my friend too but she doestnt know she is called moonsthunder on this site but if you can than will you look up me my name is felicia iam 11 fixen too be 12 in october 20 but if you can help then will you sent me a message too felicialovzu but only if you know how too do that.
thanxxxx a lot
felicia
sorry, but you must be 13 or older to use this site. its probably that you didnt activate your account yet so you need to go on the email adress that you used when you signed up and go into the email they sent you and click activate account. but do that in a year when you meet the age requirements. sorry if i sound mean but rules are rules and you have to be 13 or older to make an account..
my best friend just asked me out today and i said yes and usually we talk ALOT on aim but im scared that there will just be an awkward silence tomorrow wen i see him at school because he is in 2 of my classes. i REALLY suck at making conversation so do you have any tips or things we could talk about?
thanks in advance
just talk about what you used to talk about before you were going out with him. if he saw a movie recently ask him how it was. ask him what he did this weekend.. if a new song came out talk about how much you love it or hate it. talk about the teachers grades friends, just talk about anything thats on your mind! its really not that hard since you already know him well so you are used to talking to him. just be yourself. good luck! ♥
So i go down south a lot (i live in illinois) and one of the times is always during the school year...i need sone tips on things i could say to my parents to persuade them more to let me go..like "I'll be out of your way for a whole week!" and stuff! :) thanks in advance
tell them if you go you will help cook and help with housework and you will do your homework all the time.tell them you will study extra hard on tests,and you won't answer them back or disobey them. let them know that this trip means a lot to you and if they dont let you go you will be really sad and your personality might change, your grades might drop and you might never be happy again. (yes i know dramatic but hey it works for me) and the key is not to whine or cry or get all mad about it because you have to show that your responsible enough to go on the trip and talking in a calmer more adult voice will get your point across.
Ok....My Boyfriend his name is Zachary and I love him to death but he never want to talk to me what should i do
invite him over your house when hes free so then he will have to talk! or if you dont want him coming to your house for whatever reason go on a date like the malls movie mini golf bowling iceskating, the list goes on.if hes busy for the next couple of weeks call him and talk to him on aim or msn alot. if he goes to your school make sure if you have any of the same lunches to sit with him at lunch, if you're uncomfortable with that then sit with him and a bunch of your friends.if you talk to him then he will talk to you and if your really concerned if hes not usually this quiet you should ask whats wrong. he may just not be into you anymore so you should find out! good luck ♥
what do u think some good jobs for a 14 year old r?
baby sitting
lawn mowing
raking leaves
car wash
walking dogs
or if you want real jobs..
deliver newspaper
if you have a relative who owns a restaurant you could see if you could get a job for cleaning tables
bagging groceries
dairy queen
if you dont like any of those you might want to wait until you're older so you can get a better job. but i'm sure those will help you get extra money :)
okay i really need something because i sweat really bad on my underarms and its really embarrasing to wear sleeved shirts because theres big sweat stains. i have no idea why this happens. i mean im completly comfortable with myself. and and i dont get like overly heated but anyone know any like medicine or something taht will help me not sweat on my underarms any more?? i need answers. asap. thank you :D
you should deffinitely try Secret (its a brand of deodorant) and i sweat soo much since i play soccer and i used secret and now i only sweat a little and it barely shows and i'm not embarresed! trust me it will work.. :)
can any one give me AIM profile sites? thanks a ton ♥
xanga.com
buddy4u.com
some of the best sites ever created. :)
do hit that and tap that mean the same thing (have sex with..)??
yupp your right.
i just got a pallete expander,(it widens your jaw out) and.... i kinda have a lisp,i cant say some letters,im wondering,will the lisp go away after i get used to it?
i have one right now and i got mine a few weeks ago, and i'm talking a lot better now but there are still some words i'm having trouble saying. but mine didnt hurt at all so i dont know what the person under me was talking about. so yeah just give it time and you wont even know its there. good luck :)
your little like profile thing reminded me of my self
haha, and thankss
aww thanks. haha no problem i'm happy to help. if you ever have a problem come to me :)
Hey so I have a boyfriend and Im in the 8th grade, weve been on and off sence FIFTH id say thats quite a while, well anyway, were goingout now and we go to the same school and everything and hes a very confusing boy, as in i dont do anything and hell get mad, so basiclly i never no when hes mad at me or not, and so i always have to approch him he rarly approches me so how can i be the one to start talking to him and stuff, and maybe do something so hes the one who comes over to me, i want to flirt with me more, what can i dooo!?
you should deffinitely ask him to go on a date. whether its the movies mall ice skating bowling rollar blading an amusement park mini golf out to dinner, any where will work. if you dont want to leave the house invite him over and watch movies or tv and go outside and just have a good coversation with him. if you have any of the same lunches with him then sit with him at lunch. get his number if you dont have it already and call him a lot. just ask him questions about himself and get to know him better. make sure you tell him you love him all the time so he knows. good luck :)
just out of curiousity though, is there any reason why you decided to ask me that question? am i one of your favorite columnests or something, haha??
I recently(like 3 days ago)started to go out with this boy. He is my first real boyfriend so im kinda nervous about it but then im not cause im so comfortable around him. But just some questions, should i call him? and how much? He goes to a differnt school so i only see him if we hang out. Also if we hang out at my house or his house what are some things we can do? Just any advice please.
im 15/f by the way
if he calls you a lot then call him a lot, if he only calls once or twice a day then only call him once or twice. if you call him more then he calls you then he might get annoyed and think your obsessive. some guys dont like to talk on the phone so call him the ammount of times he calls you. you guys good go to the movies mall ice skating rollar blading bowling out to dinner anywhere fun. if you want to hang out at his house or your house then do something entertaining at your house when he comes over like watch movies go outside take a walk or watch tv. just do stuff that you guys consider fun and everything will work out.. ♥
i have a boyfriend. on my birthday he brouhgt me a million balloons and a big stuffed animal and asked me out.. and he was sooo hot and soo sweet so i said yes. i really liked him alot..
well, there is also this other guy who ive kinda had a thing for all year.. & when he found out i had a boyfriend. he was furious.. but we made up.. but he wrote me a letter that said he really wants to be with me && all this stuff.
the thing is.. i really like him alot too.. hes hot. && funny&& talanted! hes in a band and its rreealllllyyy good.. all thanks to him
also.. hes really like.. idn.. he`ll hug me for no reason and he is really sweet like that.. and my boyfriend... doesnt. he wont hug me if his friends are around.. and he doesnt randomly kiss me or anything..
i wanna break up with my boyfriend but i dont know if i should... and if i do.. what should i say?
this is a realllyyyy huge deal to me..
you have to listen to your heart and do what it tells you. it seems like you really like the other guy. if your sure you want to break up with your boyfriend then you should do it now before you and him get more attached to eachother because then if you break up with him he will feel even more heartbroken. i think you should dump him either on the phone in a letter or in person.. online is a bad option because its not personal and he might think its one of your friends playing a prank on him. so however you tell him you should say "____ i loved you so much but now i dont feel the same spark as i did.i think we should move on and see other people.i just dont think you were the one for me. im sooo sorry and i hope you don't feel bad." just be nice about it and help him get over the breakup. ♥
Well yesterday me and my boyfriend were supposted to hang out at the movies.. but i tried calling him and telling him that i was just going to go to his house, and no one answered, and he went to the movies alone. He is pretty mad at me, and i dont know whats going to happen, i have explained myself 4567 times, but he still feels like i ditched him... any idea on what i can do to make it up to him, not like go to the movies with him... real advice to make him really understand that i care, and am rele sorry,
thanks
16/f
well if you only told him sorry online then tell him it in person because it will mean soo much more. write a poem or song about how much he means to you. prepare a romantic night at your house just for the 2 of you and cook a meal and cuddle up and watch a scary movie and look him in the eye and tell him you love him. if you go out of your way for him then he will believe you. it might take time but after a week he will be over it. just keep letting him know you love him. dont just tell him, but show him. kissing might help too =)
does anybody have a picture of 2 puppies that are cuddling close to each other for a best friend card?? I'll really appriciate it!!!
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