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my best friend just asked me out today and i said yes and usually we talk ALOT on aim but im scared that there will just be an awkward silence tomorrow wen i see him at school because he is in 2 of my classes. i REALLY suck at making conversation so do you have any tips or things we could talk about?
thanks in advance
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Things you should NOT do/say:
-Gossip (It makes them wonder whether you talk about them behind their backs also. Sometimes it might make them start thinking you are a jerk.)
-Make fun of people (Its okay if he does it and if you say something just as a joke and its actually funny.)
-Don't complain about everything (It gets on their nerves and it's very annoying to them.)
-Talk about clothes, hair, make up, etc. (They really do not care about that stuff.)
-Aa million pointless questions. (He probably doesn't want to answer a lot of questions that are just plain stupid.)
-The weather. (I seriously doubt that he cares about it.)
Things to talk about:
-Ask him if he wants to go see a movie or something this weekend.
-Talk about what you did over the weekend.
-Give each other your phone number unless you both already have each others.
-Maybe have a party together with all of your friends over the weekend. It would be fun AND it would give you stuff to do because you have to plan.
-Talk about school. Like your teachers and rather you like them or not.
-Talk about funny things that happened in your classes, last week, etc.
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well, since he's your best friend and you're most comfortable around him i assume, then just talk to him about whatever you guys usually talk about. just maybe add a little flirting in-between here and there so he doesn't start to think you just like him as a friend or anything. i hope i helped.
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talk about the same things you would have when you were 'just friends'- thats the great thing about being friends with someone before going out with them- that first meeting awkward moment has already been covered when you met as friends. just dont act differently, and be yourself. good luck!
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just talk about what you used to talk about before you were going out with him. if he saw a movie recently ask him how it was. ask him what he did this weekend.. if a new song came out talk about how much you love it or hate it. talk about the teachers grades friends, just talk about anything thats on your mind! its really not that hard since you already know him well so you are used to talking to him. just be yourself. good luck! ♥
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