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I use to be on this site all the time. Got sick of reading the same exact questions and basically copying and pasting my answers because no one cared to read questions asked before them. So I left and haven't really been on here.
Ps. I'm not perfect and my advice isn't always right. & sometimes I choose to make it sound like you will get hurt more than you actually will to prevent people from doing stupid things. Like if I get drunk what can happen? Well i might just say you can die.....stretching the truth but I think its better than having people go out and get drunk. Plus you can die but you would have to have alcohol poisoning.

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yeah so i am really good friends with most of the guys i know because i get along with them and i understand them but then there is two of them that i just dont get i like them both and i can not choose because i like them both for different reasons one always goes for my friends becaus ehe thinks im flirting for them and the other one just is like one of my best friends and it is weird liking him but he wont tell me who he likes and he tells me everything can someone help me with this its really bothering me

If he tells you everything but won't tell you this then there is a big change that he likes you. That's the reason he won't tell you.

Is there a way so find out someones screen name (like on the computer) on AIM if you have there name?

(besides asking them...duh)

Thanks

Exactly what punkrockprincess said. They might have made it so that people can't find them if they know that information though. By just knowing there name you most likely will get a big list so try to find some more stuff out. E-mail would be a lot better if he allows you to find him though.

my friend just broke up with her bf after 3 months and shes been reallly sad.. and i`ve been there for her the whole time listening to her say the same things over and over... but i just listen and tell her how bad i feel for her. but i also like this guy and everyonce in a while i talk about how he doesnt even notice me and it makes me sad. and she started freaking out about how i have nothing to be complaining about and its rele stupid and she gets rele annoyed that i talk about him "all the time". this was the first time i found out it was annoying her, and i dont even talk about him that much.. i was thinking that after listening to her complain so much, maybe i had a little room to talk about me for a second... isnt that unfair that she wont even support my problems??? i`ll rate high! x3

Yea it's not all nice of her but she might not even notice what she is doing. Some times when people are hurt they don't care about anyone else and become selfish but there is not much you can do except telling her thats how you feel.

when i was a little girl my aunt went out with this really tall and ugly guy. he was nice but he liked to play with my private area and he stuck his in side mine a few times. i dont considder it rape or sexual abuse but i dont no what 2 say when people ask me if i am a virgin cuz besides that little thing i havent had any sex. what should i tell people. i dont mind it if people no that i am not a virgin but i really mind it if i have to tell them how i lost mi virginity and when. so am i still considerred a virgin or not and wat should i say wen people ask me that question?

No you aren't a virgin anymore. You don't have to tell people that though. Since you never had sex out of your own will you can tell them that you are a virgin they can't prove anything or you can reply with a simple i rather not talk about my personal life. That way they will think what ever they want.

So i met this guy, and by his looks he is definitely not my type. Infact, i dont go for guys out of my race. (He's still half white though). But he has an amazing personalility, all the qualities of a guy im looking for; he's beyond perfect. I want to ask him out, but the looks are bothering me. I know looks have nothing to do with anything, but even though i like him, i dont think i could do anything physical with him like kissing. Do you think its just because its in my head? And do you think a relationship can last even though you arent sexually attracted to them? Do you think i should just be friends or go for something more?

It's never about looks but if you just can't stand looking at them then there is no point. I would say it is in your head though, but there isn't much you can do about it. It's just the way you feel. A relationship with no physical attriction won't last and will only mess up the friendship. You have to decide if it is all worth it. If you put those feeling aside and seem him in another light then go for it.

Does anyone have some questions like:

"If a person with split persionalities thretened suicide, whould that be considered a hostage situation?"

anyone got those?

my friends and me love to talk about that wierd stuff!!

Thanks In Advance!
-*KeLs*-

there are answers to all of these and they are stupid but umm ok.

.•:*¨If CD*s were spun in the opposite direction, would it say everything backwards?¨*:•.
.•:*¨Why does a round pizza come in a square box?¨*:•.
.•:*¨How is it that we put man on the moon before we figured out it would be a good idea to put wheels on
luggage?¨*:•.
.•:*¨How do they get the air inside the bubble wrap?¨*:•.
.•:*¨Why do dogs walk around in circles before lying down?¨*:•.
.•:*¨Are you stupid in a special way or special in a stupid way.¨*:•.
.•:*¨If the S.W.A.T team comes to your house and breaks down your door, do they replace it later?¨*:•.
.•:*¨Why is Christmas colors red and green when Santa's suit is red and white?¨*:•.
.•:*¨If two identical twin brothers married identical twin sisters, would there kids be identical?¨*:•.
.•:*¨Why is an alarm clock going "off" when it actually turns on?¨*:•.
.•:*¨If the professor on Giligan*s Island can make a radio out of coconut, why can*t he fix a hole in a boat?¨*:•.
.•:*¨Did you ever notice when you blow in a dog*s face he gets mad at you? But when you take him in a car, he sticks his head out the window!¨*:•.
.•:*¨What color would a smurf turn if you choked it?¨*:•.
.•:*¨Why do we sing *Take me out to the ball game*, when we are already there?¨*:•.
.•:*¨If 7-11 is open 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year, why do they have locks on the doors?¨*:•.
why do we drive on a park way and park on a driveway...
are these the types you were looking for?

Im 15 and still havent.."madeout" w/ a guy..is that bad?

Ugh no. Everyone does things at their own time. Don't just do it to get it over with. Make it special.

i recently cleared my hard drive so i lost everything, including the program i had to burn and copy cd's. now i dont know how to make cd's. i have a whole bunch of cd's that i want to put on a cd. i have WINDOWS MEDIA PLAYER (and windows xp if that matters), so how do i do it with that?

You can download Nero and Easy Cd Creator. There is a way on Media player if you message me I will look into it and give you a step to step thing.

I was just wondering, is it possible for a guy to be too shy to IM you? becuase i have imed ths one guy i like about like 4 times in total but like over a span of about 2 months but..i'm just thikning is the reason he hasn't imed me first because he is shy or that he just doesn't feel that way about me? help please..thanks

He can be shy or busy. If he always answers and feels happy to talk to you then it is all good. If it takes him forver to answer then he might not feel that way. Personally I don't IM a lot of people first. I don't pay attenchion to my bl. It's just there if someone IM's me I always answer and I'm willing to talk but I just don't look at it.

ok here it goes my best frind in middle school since 6th grade (she was in 7th so when she came to high school she kinda forgot about me i gueess and now that i am in high school i figured that we would be friends again but that dident happen when i asked her about it she just said she was 2 different she had tried things that i haddent but she didnet know thati had so i tryed to tell her and she just like i dont know but now i see her every day in the hall and she smiles at me and itryed to talk to her but she seemdis interested
why is she sending me mixed signals .....
yes i know what ur going to say well shes not a very good friend then but.... i want more than that

help if u can (sry if i sounded like a bitch)

~blundered blonde~

I’m guessing she just doesn't want to be friends with you and smiles in the halls just to be nice and not a bitch. I wouldn't suggest waiting so much time trying to get her back if she doesn't want to be your friend. It will only be a one way friendship.

im 15 and theres this guy (also 15) and we both like each other. At least he says he likes me. right now we're kind of in a friends with benefits position, we dont want to go out becasue he smokes and drinks and i cant deal with that. the thing is, he tells me he wants to be more and that hes trying to quit, and i tell him i wanna be more too..... but the next day he goes tells all his friends that i wanna be more than friends and he leaves himself out of it., i just dont know if i can trust him, or why he does this. any advice?

If he says he will stop, then hold him to it. Once he stops thats when you can go out with him. Like sort of a deal. While he hasn't you shouldn't go out with him unless you want phone calls of him telling you he is wasted and not remembering that he called. About what he told his friends...umm maybe he just wants it to sound like oh yea she wants me. boys will be boys haha.

i want to decorate my bedroom for my sweet sixteen! i am up for any ideas but i have to stay cheap. can any one give me ideas or good websites?

Just put up a lot of posters and pictures and things that remind you of a good time. Maybe it your own. Throw pillows, lamps, picture frames stuff like that.

This is for all you lovely ladies out there.
- What types of things do you like to hear.
Example. "You're beautiful"
What other things do you like being told.

Thanks!

What you really feel about us. Yea we may like to hear compliments but if you lie about them then there is no point. So just say what you feel.

today i sniffed my fabric softener and it smelt good and i stuck it up my nose and the powder rubbed off into my nose and i have no sense of smell what do i do?

Get a brain and don't stick everything into your nose. Call poison control though.

i want to make a website filled with quotes so if you have any favorite quotes or lessons that you could give me, that would be great.

http://www.forever-time.net/main.html (my friends page credit her if you use them, she made most of them up)

http://groups.msn.com/CuteQuotes/cutequotes.msnw

http://www.best-love-poems.com/cute_love_quotes.html?p=3 (great site)

i have many more if you want.

The worst way to miss someone is when they’re standing right next to you and you know you can’t have them

remember the first time I fell for you, I knew then and there, that it was meant to be, & I havent gotten up since.

"In the end life's all about broken hearts, lessons learned, and the memories that are made..."

Hey! some of you might know already that i am making a power point thing full of memories for my boyfriend. I need some Love quotes guys!! Please help!!

THANKS!!!!!!!

*-KeLs-*

here are some sites
http://www.forever-time.net/main.html (my friends site)

http://www.best-love-poems.com/cute_love_quotes.html?p=3

You're on my mind, you're in my dreams, you're my one and only, everything.

i have a lot more sites so if you want them just ask.

i know this is a little confusing n complicated but plz help me..ok here is the thing my bday is coming up in less then 3 weeks and for the last 2 birthday's me n my friend spent together since its the same day (March 30), for the 1st birthday was our 13th bday, we went to sports plus (for those who dk what that is its basically a place with a bunch of games n a inside roller coaster, and lazer tag n bumper cars....) then we went to the movies n then McDonald's for the 2nd time she came home on the bus with me n we hung out for a while n then when my mom came home she took the 2 of us bowling n then to friendly's...and here is the problem she moved to Pennyslvania to her dad's bc she didn't want to live in NY ne more, and well she is almost on the Ohio boarder which is 7 hours and 39 mins (as of what yahoo says) and we can't see each other this year, we may be allowed to go to Hershey since its exactly half way from both of us...and well we thought she was coming back but her dad wont drive so i cant see her till June bc of her brothers graduation (her mom n her brother still live in NY her parents r divorce) and well..i dk what i can do for my birthday since it wont be with her, and also my birthday is in 18 days which falls on a wednesday...which is the same day my mom teaches a religion class @ my church...ne ideas?? i was @ Dave & Busters (for those who dk what that is either is a smaller version of sports plus but more expensive n more adult like) last night n i was thinking that goin there with a few friends...urmmm ne ideasss??- thx

Since you can't be with her just make the best of it. Go to Dave & Busters. The one in my mall is pretty big and you guys should have fun. Just invite some close friends guys and girls should be more fun at 15? Maybe talk to your friend on the phone or e-mail or some instant messanger program. There are all kinds of e-mail cards you can send here.(http://www.aim.americangreetings.com/index_aim.pd?source=aimn104)
Just have fun!

does it mean someone is gothic if all they wear is black? and they dyed their hair pitch black?? thanks

nope not at all. My good friend does that and hates when people call her gothic. It is fun yelling at the little kids while looking like that they get so scared..haha

I've been really close with my friend Ron for a little while now. We are both 15 and we tell each toher almost everything. Recently I ahve been feeling something more for him. We joke around though like I always give him nuggies and in return he puts me in a head lock or something. Yesterday he was towering over me just to see how much taller he is then me and I jsut wanted to lean up and kiss him. Which I might have done if my other friends were not around. I just don't know how he feels about me though. He read a poem that I wrote about him and he really liked it. So today he shows me a song he wrote and it was about his life but then in one part it said

"When times get rough his thoughts to to her, she has helped me through so much.
I will always be there
Don't let me dissapear"

I know it was about me but the second part I can't tell if the second part is saying that he'll always be there for me or that Hes always going to be there and he doesn't want to be forgotten, as if he's afraid to be forgotten. Which he knows I would never forgett him. So today I gave him another poem I ahd written about him and it had said that I never wanted him to leave and that when I move I need him to call me jsut to say hi so i know he still cares. Well he saw it and hes like "Whats this?" And I told him and his eyes sort of lit up in a good happy way. I have such confused emotions about him. I like him so much its scary I know its not love but I scare myself at how much I like him. What should I do? And do you think he might like me as a girlfriend or jsut as a friend?

You should tell him how you feel. I think you guys would work out from what you wrote. Not many guys these days write poems and to just mention you yea just tell him.

what is the best way to excercise to get rid of that pooch thing below your belly button? or your "love handels" ??? i need help! and is it true that little pooch thing sticks out more when your on your period? mine does i think

You can do crunches, yoga, and just trying to hold your stomach in all day.

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