Hi, my names Melanie.
I'm fifteen years old.
I love fashion, hanging out with my friends,
and drawing and writing along with a bunch of other stuff.
I used to have an old account here that was quite known for awhile,
but I sort of just lost touch with it,
so I decided to make a new one.
I'll try and help you the best I can,
just hopefully I didn't lose touch with my good advice, haha.
And feel free to IM me with your problem too.
I also put my myspace in a link down below,
if you ever want to add me & talk.
But incase you don't see it or something, it's:
www.myspace.com/themelinat0r
Website: my myspace!
E-mail: melledisko@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pittsburgh
Occupation: student.
Age: 15
AIM: mel le disko
Member Since: July 2, 2006
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I bird pooped on my head when I was on a walk! I rushed bakc home and washed it and then I had smelly hair! Does my hair have to be shaved off or something?! (link)
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Now now, I don't think you have to take THAT much of a drastic measure as shaving all your hair off!
It's just a little birdie poo.
I'm sure you jsut need to wash your hair thouroughly a few more times and the smell should eventually come out. Also, leave the shampoo in your hair longer than you normally do. Leave it in for about 10-15 more seconds every time you wash it, because the longer it stays in your hair, the more in goes through your hair and clings to your hair, I guess you'd say because whenever you jut wash it really quick and then rinse, you're not giving it enough time to really effect and clean your hair.
I hope I helped.
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what is the perfect way to confess your feelings to a girl?
although it may seem a petty issue,but i want it to be a memorable one.
what do you think of these options?
1)at the beach at night
2)out during dinner
erm,any other suggestions,and if the gal is shorter than you...do girls like it when you go down to her height to confess or do they like to look up to you?
please tell me any more suggestions like places,or how to confess,i mean...words are not really necessary right?
thanks for reading. (link)
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Definetely do number one. The beach, walking around at night.. yes, definetely more memorable compared to an ordinary dinner date thing.
As for the height issue, I don't think that it's that big of a problem. I'm sure just standing and having her look up at you will be just fine. Maybe even do a two in one thing. If you're like, kneeling or something or bending slightly down that might make you look a little awkward standing and the kneeling, haha, might give her the wrong impression of a certain DIFFERENT message you're trying to give there, haha.
Have a little candlelight picnic on the beach and then just hang around and walk around together without your shoes, and just enjoy eachother's company.
Hm, other than saying "I love you" in words, the only other really cute way I could think of you telling her is if you DO the picnic, then one a sandwhich or some sort of flat-ish food you bring, you could write "I LOVE YOU" on it and ask her to go get it for you so whenever she pulls out the food for you, it's right in her face so she can read it.
But seriously, I don't even think if it matters if you say it in words, write it out, sing it out, whatever. She's going to be so in love with the whole beach moonlight ( possible picnic ) scenery, and you're seriously just going to sweep her right off her feet. You're so sweet for wanting to do this for her and make it memorable for her.
I hope I helped, and good luck!
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This year this guy my friend liked 3 years ago is in my english class. It was really awkward because she was literally obsessive and we were best friends but she moved 2 years ago and everything pretty much died down. That was 7th grade and now its 10th and hes changed ALOT. He was really quiet in the beginning of the year but about 2 weeks ago we started talking and we have alot in common. Its so weird because hes always been so quiet and now i cant get him to shut up! I guess the strangest part is, he doesnt seem to be the type of person to start up a conversation but whenever he sees me he just starts talking and we talk forever. My problem is, he liked one of my friends a year ago and shes in my english class too. I dont think he still likes her b/c it was a year ago but im still paranoyed, and i dont want to set myself up for another disappointment. Im also worried about what happened in 7th grade between him and my friend makes him think that im just as crazy, but that was a long time ago and im not, but i dont want to bring it up and things get awkward. we get along really well and i feel like this one may actually work out, but i really dont want to mess this up. Please someone help me straighten this out! (link)
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Well if this is three years later, and he's automatically going to assume you're like your friend, whose a totally different human being and you've changed and matured, then he's obviously not thinking clearly. It sounds to me like he doesn't think that at all, though.
I'm sure it's not going to get awkward at all - like I said, it was three years ago. I'm sure you two can have conversations about the past and be just fine. It's only going to become awkward if you two make it become awkward. Just keep the conversation flowing and just share some laughs even about the past to lighten the mood between you two if it gets tense.
I think you have a great chance with him, so just keep doing what you're doing and talk to him! Show him how great you guys'd be together, and how much the two of you guys have in common. And also, try and flirt a little here and there and maybe do it some more every few days to try and send him some signals that you're interested, and see how he reacts. Don't be discouraged though if he doesn't do anything back - sometimes guys can't pick up on hints as easily as girls can, so he might not even be noticing you're flirting with him. Which means then you can flirt even more if you want to get the signal across that you're interested.
I hope I helped.
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My friend was supposed to be having this really big party on Friday night. So I invited my crush, who is a big partier, hoping that we might hook up at the party. Well anyways, the night that I invited him, I found out the party might be a lot smaller than I'd been originally told. So I warned him it might be tiny the next day at school.
That night him and his cousin showed up at the "party" - which was completely dead. I felt so bad, and he ended up leaving after like five minutes. I don't know how to redeem myself now. What should I do?? (link)
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Well whenever situations like this happen in life, and they're gonna happen alot probably, you just got to start learning how to just laugh it off.
At school or whenever you talk to him, just be like,"Hey, sorry about the party. I know it wasn't that much fun, but I didn't realize it was going to be THAT tiny. Sorry if it bored you. I just wish you would've hung around we could've hung out together and talked." And just laugh.
If he's a good guy, he'll just laugh along with you and everything'll be fine.
I hope I helped.
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i really like this kid, like alot. my friend tom said that hes gonna ask me out, but he doesnt know when. i really wanna go out with him, but everyone hates him and they say hes wierd and stuff. but i dont know, if he asks me out should i go out with him? (link)
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If you really like this kid alot, and you think that he's going to be a good boyfriend and treat you well and have a great time with, then go out with him. Why on earth would you turn him down? Are you really going to let what other people think of him ruin a possibly good thing?
If people are only saying they don't like him cause he's "weird" they obviously don't know him very well. Have a hang out sometime and have him come along and show them and let them see the great things about him that you see, and hopefully they'll start liking him.
But even if they don't, like I said, you're going to put others thoughts on the guy before the good thoughts of your own? Date him and have a great time and if people do wind up having a problem with him, you and him don't have to hang out with those people together. You can hang out with them by yourself and hang out with your boyfriend seperately. That way, everyone wins.
I hope I helped.
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My friend thinks that I'm anorexic. She even told me she thinks it, because according to her I've gotten "bonier". I don't know what to say or do because there is absolutely no way that I am anorexic. I mean yes there have been a few nights where I've skipped dinner because of pure exhaustion, and i don't always eat lunch in school, but i still maintain a healthy eating pattern. I started high school this year, and between stress and joining the swim team and swimming 4 times a week, i lost about 6-7 pounds. But I'm still 5'1, 122 lbs which is a little bit above average. What should I do to make her believe me? Talking hasn't helped much.
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If you want to prove it to her, show her one of those sites where they tell you the average weight for people and they have a chart and the age and then what the average weight for people of that age should be and show her there that you're totally fine.
Also, some sites even have a weight sort of calculator thing where you enter your height and weight, and it'll give you your BMI and then it'll tell you if you're BMI's "this number-this number" you're unhealthy "this number-this number" you're fine.
So just fine a site and prove it to her. I would provide you one, but there's seriously so many different sites so I don't know which one you'd prefer.
Also, I would have a talk with her about that "anorexic" thing. That's a serious thing to accuse someone of being, and if she's your best friend she shouldn't be saying that. And if she's going to be calling you that, she should at least be trying to help you out with it and make it better. Not just STAND there and watch it happen ( but like I said, if this were to be true ).
Just show that chart to her and explain to her once more, you really aren't anorexic. You're of totally average weight and it hurt whenever she accused you of being such a thing.
I hope I helped.
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how do you make hearts on your column? (link)
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I don't know if this is going to show up on not, cause obviously if I type up the code, it's going to work. Hopefully, it shows.
But.
♥
Or if that didn't pop up.
You know the "and" sign? "&" that comes first.
Then the words "hearts",
and then a ";".
And this is typed all together, no spaces.
I hope I helped.
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Is there any way to look at all of your old AIM conversations if you yourself didnt save them? (link)
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Other than saving the conversations, the only other way ( at least that I know of ) where you can check out your old conversations with people is if you have the program DEAD AIM installed into your computer.
Otherwise, you can't.
I hope I helped.
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Ohkay here's the deal; I go out with this cute guy that I like, sorta. But then I like this other guy, like I think sorta. And I wanna break up with my boyfriend, but I don't wanna be single. I think that the other guy I like, likes me too. But I'm not sure. How can I see if he likes me too? And also, yeah, the guy I go out with is shorter then me, and he has blonde hair and green eyes and is verry sweet to me. But the other guy I like is sweet, and nice, and funny, and I like to be around him cuz he's cool.
-Confused Crushed Child. (link)
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[Edit: Well if you want to forget the 2nd guy, then forget the 2nd guy and focus on your current relationship. If your boyfriend keeps ignoring you and gets mad at you easily, looks like you guys might need to talk. At least about the ignoring part. No boyfriend should be ignoring his girlfriend.]
Dear Confused Crushed Child,
Well just because you might be wanting to date this other guy possibly, doesn't mean you have to break up with your current boyfriend first. I'm not saying to cheat on him or date both at once, haha. I just mean you can figure out how guy 2 feels about you before you break up with guy 1.
If you really think guy 2 likes you, then just ask him. I know you're probably nervous and everything, but really, we only live life once, and this could be a potentially great relationship that you'd always be wondering "what if?" if you never ask him. And just see what he says. If he likes you and you really want to go out with him, you can then just break off things with guy 1. If not, then you can continue to date guy 1, and see if you still like him & everything.
But as sweet as 1 sounds, if you're not feeling him dating 2 or not, then you should break it with him. I know being single sucks and everything and you don't want to be single, but it's not fair to him and not fair to yourself. You should be with a guy you really do like and is going to make you happy and have a great relationship with. And he should be with a girl that really likes him back and plus, it'll only hurt him more in the end the longer you guys would date and the more feeligns he'd develop for you. Plus, it'd probably upset him to know you were like, pity dating him basically and that you had your eyes set on someone else all this time.
So talk to 2, and see what happens and ask him. If he likes you, then break up with 1 for 2. If he doesn't, date 1 for awhile and see how you feel, if you don't like him like that anymore, break things off. There's always plenty more fish in the sea.
I hope I helped.
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im bi, and there is this kid in my class who i like. when i was walking down the hall way one day he was staring at me and when i was standing up talking to the teacher he was satring at me there too. wat do you think this means? he likes me? (link)
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[Edit: Well that's good you're going to try and flirt with him a little. Just see what happens with that. Oh, there was more than just you? I thought it was just you. Hm, maybe then. Like I said, even still, you honestly really can't tell, but that must mean something if he kept staring just at you. Try & flirt and do what you've been doing and good luck! :] ]
You honestly can't tell in this kind of situation. Sure, whenever people like other people, they'll be caught staring at them or glancing at them, but if you were just standing up to talk to the teacher, he honestly could've just been looking at you. Kind of like how whenever someone enters the classroom and it's all quite, everyone seems to sychronizingly look up at the person in the door all at the same time? It's kind of just what people do. They watch other people.
So I really can't tell you if he likes you or not. What I would do is just try talking to him more if you don't already talk to him ; make conversation then and get to know him and see if any feelings develop that way and if he sends you any signals. That's the only real way you're going to know how he feels.
I hope I helped.
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I realllllllly like this guy, but theres a problem. My good friend is goin out w/ him. I know she dosent like him as much as i do and i think he likes me bcuz he always trys to talk to me and to get me to look over at him in class. She has a thing were she only gets bf's to have a bf and not cuz she really likes him. She didnt know i liked him when she went out w/ him but she knew our other friend did. Sice he flirts w/ me would it be SOOO awful just to flirt back aliittle?
Thanx in advance (link)
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I don't think it'd hurt one bit.
Just don't do it infront of her face obviously, or anyone else's that might go and tell her what you're doing.
Just don't let it get any further, and it should all be good.
But I think you should talk with her about this. If you like him and she doesn't, let her know that you like him. She should be a real friend and dump him so you can have a boyfriend. If she's only dating guys just for the fact she can have a boyfriend, then she can always go and find another, can't she? You on the other hand like this guy, and if she doesn't like him, then you totally have a shot with him if he wasn't dating her. So talk to her about it, and see what happens with that.
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I hope I helped.
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Hi my name is Emily Im Rachels friend. (do you remember Rachel? the one that likes Toby and Toby cant decide between his girlfriend or Rachel? Well Im Rachels best friend. If you dont remember Rachel here's her story which you lready gave her advice for:
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=460275
Ok Hi my name is Emily. I like this guy named Toby and he likes me but he has a girlfriend and her name is Katie. People that are his friends and really close to him have told me that he likes me even Katie his girlfriend told mehe liked me! And I have every class with him. During class he'll be flirting with me alot!! And every day he'll give me like 10 hugs. And he's always holding my hand. He knows I like him and he likes me. At least thats what alot of people say and over the phone he told me he liked me too. So Im just wondering if he likes me why does he have Katie as his girlfriend he talks to me and hugs me more than he does with his girlfriend! Oh and incase you dont remember who Rachel is this is the advice you gave her:
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=460275
Remember that we like the same guy but he seems to be flirting with three girls at the same time who does he really like? Why cant he make up his mind?
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Well first of all, THANK YOU for sending me the link. People always tell me they're so-and-so's friend with a problem and I'm like,"I don't remmmmemmmber?" So haha, thanks. XD
But anyways.
Well if this is the same guy, are you really sure you want to be going after him with your friend Rachel liking him too? This could put major tension between the two of you, and competition, and the ugly sides could come out of the both of you. This tends to happen
whenever it comes to guys, so firstly just think what's more important: rachel or a guy? Chicks before dicks, I always say. Or another classic line "guys come and go, but friends are forever." If you are going to try and be with him, I would first talk about it with Rachel and see if she's alright with it. And if she is, still, don't hang out together in her face, at least for awhile. Even though she SAYS she's fine, she probably won't get over her feelings for awhile, so no talking about him or anything infront of her until she's over him.
Then, like I told your friend, he may just have feelings for all three of you and he's not sure whom to choose. Like I also said, guys like knowing so many girls like them ; it's a major ego boost so he's probably sweetening up to all of you to try and get you all to stay around. He's kind of messing with all of your heads, which isn't right. I would talk to him about this, and ask him if he likes you or not. Obviously, if he's already said he likes you, he'll say yes, and then just ask him why he's still with his girlfriend and everything if he still likes you and talk about it with him and give him a chance to explain himself and see what he comes up with.
But personally, like I told your friend Rachel, I wouldn't waste my time with him. If he has a girlfrien dand he's juggling all these girls emotions around, he's clearly not worth a girl's time and he sounds like a player in a way. Also, if you were to be his girlfriend, wouldn't you be wondering all the time if he likes other girls, since he's obviously done it before while dating other people? If you're dating him, you don't want him on the phone with other girls telling them he likes them. That's not a healthy relationship at all, and it's not healthy for you and your feelings.
I say you and your friend and even his girlfriend should all focus towards guys that'll you and only you and won't be telling other girls certain stuff and making them wait around and toying with their emotions like this. IT's really just not right. At least in my book.
I hope I helped.
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when asking quesions on here no one is going to find out my name? right? (link)
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No, your name will not be found out or anything.
As long as you keep in confidental by not putting your name there.
Sometimes whenever people ask questions at the end, they'll put "Megan" or whatever their name is at the end cause I'm guessing they don't care if you know their name, but anyways.
Like I said, as long as you don't type your name or username or anything in, nobody'll know who you are.
I hope I helped.
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Hi! My name is Rachel! I like this guy named Toby and me and him have been friends since our freshman year and we're sophmores rite now. But i think i lost his friendship. Ok i like him he has a girlfriend and me and him text. I texted him for the first time like 2 months ago when he gave me his number. I heard he liked sumone else that was not his girlfriend. So I asked him and he said no. But the bad part is that he knows I like him. So we were talking and im like 'I know you dont like me and its ok' And he said 'No I do like you i just know katie (his girlfriends name) better' Im like 'Exactly thats why your going out with her because u know her better . . . we're just friends rite? . . . .' And then he replied 'Right but if it doesnt work out between me and katie can I call you?' And i sed 'No . . . but you can call me to talk' And then he said 'ok but rite now im busy' And i said ok well i gotta go bye' And then yeah. And I have gotten a couple of flirty text from him. But then when I asked him if he liked me through a text he didnt reply i showed it to my friend and she resent it!! And when she did he said 'no I dont' And then that was three weeks ago. I havent talked to him ever since then. Just two times through text. But now since his girlfriend knows I like him she is mad at me for all the texting me and him have done. And then through an email he told me he would go out with me because . . . . (he just gave me reasons). (through email which was about two months ago is wen he gave me his number and a short while after we started texting) And yeah but i know why she's mad at me I mean i text her boyfriend but . . . My friend thinks that she told him to ignore me and he is ignoring me. But I just want her to know that I want my FRIEND back because toby other than bieng my crush hes my friend too and she took that away from me! But Im really sad because I havent gotten any hi's or hugs from him in 3 weeks. When he would always give me like 4 hugs a day. The worst part is that I told him that I didnt want to tell him because I thought that our friendship would change. And then it was fine at first then he started ignoring me. 2 months after he found out I liked him. Does he like me or not? Why is he playing with me like this? (link)
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Hm, as for the first question, this is majorly confusing. It sounds to me like he might both like you AND he likes his girlfriend, he just doesn't know which to choose, so he might be keeping the both of you around till he decides. ( Hence all the flirty texts and whatnot. He may think that by showing you some attention or whatever, you'll wait around longer. )
But if he likes you or not, I seriously wouldn't wait or go after this kid any longer in a relationship sort of way. You shouldn't have to wait around for some guy to decide wether he likes you or his girlfriend not, and he especially shouldn't be sending other girls signals while he HAS a girlfriend. Just think, if you were to date him, you would be sitting there wondering if he's out sending other girls flirty texts too. It just sounds like major confusment and drama to me.
Guys always play with girls like this. They always like seeing how many girtls like them and tell them they like them and everything. It gives them a huge ego boost.
To me, it seriously doesn't sound like he's purposely trying to be a huge jerk and play everyone around like this, liek I said, he just sounds majorly confused between who he likes, and who he should go after and be with.
If you want your FRIEND back, I would email or walk up to his girlfriend in school or somewhere and ask her if you can talk to her about this whole situation. And just be like,"Yes, I will admit that I like him, but I'm not going to pursue anything with him, I swear. Now I don't know if you told him to ignore me or what or if he's just ignoring me himself, but I really just want him as a friend. I just want my friend back, is all." Or something like that and just let her know how you feel. Hopefully, she's mature and understanding and she'll let the two of you at least be friends.
But like I said, on a more romantic note? I wouldn't pursue anything. You don't need a guy whose confused about his feelings and everything and is playing you and his girlfriend around like this. Find a guy who knows if he likes you or not, and wants to date you and have a great time with you. And just keep this guy as a friend, nothing more.
I hope I helped.
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hey i know some lyrics to this song, and i googled it was the wrong song...some of the chorus is::
standin' on the rooftop, everybody sing your heartttt outt
kthanks (link)
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Gah, that's a great song.
It's "Rooftops" by Lost Phrophets.
I hope I helped.
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on myspace, how do you change your profile so everyone can see it.
i rate answers. (link)
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Steps:
-Go to your home page.
-Go to "Account Settings", which'll be located next to your default picture. I beleive it's right under "Edit profile".
-Then the 5th link down'll say "Privacy Settings", you'll want to click on "Change Settings".
-The first box'll say "Who Can View My Full Profile" and there'll be two options: "My Friends Only" or "Anyone Under 18 On Myspace". Obviously, to have it public, you'll choose the "Anyone Under 18 On Myspace".
-Then just scroll to the bottom, and click "Change Settings", and there you go!
I hope I helped.
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ok so i think collage and school is soo important to me
but there's this one girl who wants to fight me because i liked her rebound boy and she went crazzy so weve been fighting for days now and today she came up to my face and i called her a slut but see i dont want to fight her because it will show on collage records and im like a good student but not a nerd you know what should i do
helppppp?? (link)
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Don't fight her, it's totally not worth it.
You're already basically aware of the consequences if you were to get into a fight with her, and if you think college and school are so important, then why ruin those chances and have something like that showing up on your college records?
Just because something's going wrong in her life, doesn't mean you have to go and ruin yours.
Just show her you're the better person and you don't care anymore ; you want nothing to do with her, the situation never happened, you just ignore her and everything about it.
Maybe even try and both be mature people and talk it out and try and resolve the situation. See where you're both coming from and what the both of you are thinking, and hopefully a mutual understanding and maybe even a friendship could possibly develop from this.
But don't waste your time with her, otherwise.
I hope I helped.
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heyy i wanna make a new screen name but i dont want it to be corny and i want my name in it (Alex) and im a girl n everythign i try with alex sounds like a guy so anyone have ideas ?
ill rate 5 (link)
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Hm.
You could do:
"Alex Says"
"Oh em gee its alex"
"OMG ITS ALEX"
"OH SNAP ITS ALEX"
"xx AL3X xx"
"Ay El Ee Ex"
"xOx ALEX"
And you know how people on myspace are all rhyming like "B___ B__"? Well if you're into that, you could do like:
"Alex Addiction"
"Alex Abercrombie"
"Alex Autopsy"
"Anti Alex"
You know what I mean? There's a few other A words, I just can't think of them, haha.
You can always message me back if you're not happy with any of those and you can tell me what kinda screename you're more into and I can try my best to help you out.
I hope I helped, though.
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i think i like this guy but i dont know, how are you sure if u like something?
13/f
ill rate. thanks (link)
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You can just sort of.. feel it.
Like if you see them or think about them then you may feel nervous or get butterflies in your stomach, and you realize that you may mention their name alot in conversation or that you're sitting there thinking about them a whole bunch, possibly even day-dreaming or just normal dreaming about them.
Like I said, you get really nervous whenever they're around, and may start to blush and don't know what to say to them. And whenever you aren't near them, you try to find ways to get near them wether it's walk closely to them in the halls or sit near them in class or what.
I hope I helped.
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Can someone give me a list of sins? Recently, I've been depressed and literally thought of anything bad that happened to me or anything bad I did, purposely or accidentally and I got the word sins stuck in my head. I also started wondering what are the numbers are about when I see people go to confession boxes on tv and the priest gives them a number after their confession. (link)
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Whenever you are talking about numbers, I assume you must be talking about the seven deadly sins, right?
Well if you are, they're:
Pride is excessive belief in one's own abilities, that interferes with the individual's recognition of the grace of God. It has been called the sin from which all others arise. Pride is also known as Vanity.
Envy is the desire for others' traits, status, abilities, or situation.
Gluttony is an inordinate desire to consume more than that which one requires.
Lust is an inordinate craving for the pleasures of the body.
Anger is manifested in the individual who spurns love and opts instead for fury. It is also known as Wrath.
Greed is the desire for material wealth or gain, ignoring the realm of the spiritual. It is also called Avarice or Covetousness.
Sloth is the avoidance of physical or spiritual work.
I hope I helped.
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