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My friend likes me I like him but he has a girlfriend
Hi my name is Emily Im Rachels friend. (do you remember Rachel? the one that likes Toby and Toby cant decide between his girlfriend or Rachel? Well Im Rachels best friend. If you dont remember Rachel here's her story which you lready gave her advice for:
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Ok Hi my name is Emily. I like this guy named Toby and he likes me but he has a girlfriend and her name is Katie. People that are his friends and really close to him have told me that he likes me even Katie his girlfriend told mehe liked me! And I have every class with him. During class he'll be flirting with me alot!! And every day he'll give me like 10 hugs. And he's always holding my hand. He knows I like him and he likes me. At least thats what alot of people say and over the phone he told me he liked me too. So Im just wondering if he likes me why does he have Katie as his girlfriend he talks to me and hugs me more than he does with his girlfriend! Oh and incase you dont remember who Rachel is this is the advice you gave her:
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Remember that we like the same guy but he seems to be flirting with three girls at the same time who does he really like? Why cant he make up his mind?
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Well first of all, THANK YOU for sending me the link. People always tell me they're so-and-so's friend with a problem and I'm like,"I don't remmmmemmmber?" So haha, thanks. XD
But anyways.
Well if this is the same guy, are you really sure you want to be going after him with your friend Rachel liking him too? This could put major tension between the two of you, and competition, and the ugly sides could come out of the both of you. This tends to happen
whenever it comes to guys, so firstly just think what's more important: rachel or a guy? Chicks before dicks, I always say. Or another classic line "guys come and go, but friends are forever." If you are going to try and be with him, I would first talk about it with Rachel and see if she's alright with it. And if she is, still, don't hang out together in her face, at least for awhile. Even though she SAYS she's fine, she probably won't get over her feelings for awhile, so no talking about him or anything infront of her until she's over him.
Then, like I told your friend, he may just have feelings for all three of you and he's not sure whom to choose. Like I also said, guys like knowing so many girls like them ; it's a major ego boost so he's probably sweetening up to all of you to try and get you all to stay around. He's kind of messing with all of your heads, which isn't right. I would talk to him about this, and ask him if he likes you or not. Obviously, if he's already said he likes you, he'll say yes, and then just ask him why he's still with his girlfriend and everything if he still likes you and talk about it with him and give him a chance to explain himself and see what he comes up with.
But personally, like I told your friend Rachel, I wouldn't waste my time with him. If he has a girlfrien dand he's juggling all these girls emotions around, he's clearly not worth a girl's time and he sounds like a player in a way. Also, if you were to be his girlfriend, wouldn't you be wondering all the time if he likes other girls, since he's obviously done it before while dating other people? If you're dating him, you don't want him on the phone with other girls telling them he likes them. That's not a healthy relationship at all, and it's not healthy for you and your feelings.
I say you and your friend and even his girlfriend should all focus towards guys that'll you and only you and won't be telling other girls certain stuff and making them wait around and toying with their emotions like this. IT's really just not right. At least in my book.
I hope I helped.
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