ok so i think collage and school is soo important to me
but there's this one girl who wants to fight me because i liked her rebound boy and she went crazzy so weve been fighting for days now and today she came up to my face and i called her a slut but see i dont want to fight her because it will show on collage records and im like a good student but not a nerd you know what should i do
helppppp??
MelLeDisko answered Friday December 1 2006, 3:57 pm: Don't fight her, it's totally not worth it.
You're already basically aware of the consequences if you were to get into a fight with her, and if you think college and school are so important, then why ruin those chances and have something like that showing up on your college records?
Just because something's going wrong in her life, doesn't mean you have to go and ruin yours.
Just show her you're the better person and you don't care anymore ; you want nothing to do with her, the situation never happened, you just ignore her and everything about it.
Maybe even try and both be mature people and talk it out and try and resolve the situation. See where you're both coming from and what the both of you are thinking, and hopefully a mutual understanding and maybe even a friendship could possibly develop from this.
AskNicole111 answered Friday December 1 2006, 3:03 pm: First off dont get into major mean trouble with her because later on you will laugh at this. You should try to stay away from her dont say mean things like you did (I mean the word slut and much more) Then later when you feel comfortable talk with her not in a harsh way but in a nice enjoyable way try to make sure she is ready to put aside these differences. Soon you will probably becaome friends. Hope that helpped please rate this advise please do not rate it badly. Reply if you need any more help remember my name Asknicole111 [ AskNicole111's advice column | Ask AskNicole111 A Question ]
Sparky_1 answered Friday December 1 2006, 2:37 pm: Don't hit her. It's not worth it.
You'll get five seconds of pleasure and then months of aggro from parents, teachers, other pupils.
Instead talk about it.
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Sydnie_I_can_Try answered Friday December 1 2006, 2:34 pm: I was in a situation close, to that, I talked it out though. I really don't know what type of person she is. But school is important. One day, when you see her and it's just you two, ask her if you could talk to her. And see if she will listen, tell her you don't want to fight her. And even if you didn't do anything or you don't think you should, tell her your sorry, for liking him or whatever.
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