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Madd Boyfriend Problems.
Ohkay here's the deal; I go out with this cute guy that I like, sorta. But then I like this other guy, like I think sorta. And I wanna break up with my boyfriend, but I don't wanna be single. I think that the other guy I like, likes me too. But I'm not sure. How can I see if he likes me too? And also, yeah, the guy I go out with is shorter then me, and he has blonde hair and green eyes and is verry sweet to me. But the other guy I like is sweet, and nice, and funny, and I like to be around him cuz he's cool.
-Confused Crushed Child.
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Well, it looks like to me when I first read the question, you're dating the current guy because he's cute. Imagine if he wasnt cute, and that he was the ugliest thing you've ever seen and that his personality is still the same. Would you still go out with him? And this second guy you like, if you really want to go out with him instead, make sure he likes you FIRST. Thats number one, number two. Make sure if you decide to dump the guy that your with now for the new guy, that it's not a regret and that you wont feel guilty about it. But anyways, let me know how it turns out! Good Luck!
Sincerly,
Lisa xox
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[Edit: Well if you want to forget the 2nd guy, then forget the 2nd guy and focus on your current relationship. If your boyfriend keeps ignoring you and gets mad at you easily, looks like you guys might need to talk. At least about the ignoring part. No boyfriend should be ignoring his girlfriend.]
Dear Confused Crushed Child,
Well just because you might be wanting to date this other guy possibly, doesn't mean you have to break up with your current boyfriend first. I'm not saying to cheat on him or date both at once, haha. I just mean you can figure out how guy 2 feels about you before you break up with guy 1.
If you really think guy 2 likes you, then just ask him. I know you're probably nervous and everything, but really, we only live life once, and this could be a potentially great relationship that you'd always be wondering "what if?" if you never ask him. And just see what he says. If he likes you and you really want to go out with him, you can then just break off things with guy 1. If not, then you can continue to date guy 1, and see if you still like him & everything.
But as sweet as 1 sounds, if you're not feeling him dating 2 or not, then you should break it with him. I know being single sucks and everything and you don't want to be single, but it's not fair to him and not fair to yourself. You should be with a guy you really do like and is going to make you happy and have a great relationship with. And he should be with a girl that really likes him back and plus, it'll only hurt him more in the end the longer you guys would date and the more feeligns he'd develop for you. Plus, it'd probably upset him to know you were like, pity dating him basically and that you had your eyes set on someone else all this time.
So talk to 2, and see what happens and ask him. If he likes you, then break up with 1 for 2. If he doesn't, date 1 for awhile and see how you feel, if you don't like him like that anymore, break things off. There's always plenty more fish in the sea.
I hope I helped.
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