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Many of my friends say that I am a good listener and advice giver. Because I have experienced many good and bad situations, I know what it is like to feel down or confused. I am a mother, daughter, sister, girl friend, and friend. And if I can't figure out how to answer a question, I'm sure I know someone who can. And I've come to notice that most of the questions people ask they already know the answer to, they just need a little reassurance. But I will warn you that my policy is, if you ask a stupid question, you will get a stupid answer. But i will say that it is my joy to help anyone with a real problem, so ask away!textarea.Skem9box {width:200px; height:100px;color:White;font-size:11pt;font-family:Times New Roman;background-color:Black;}
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Ok well i was at a football game last night. And yeah well my best friend moved about well almost 2 months ago.
So I met this guy at a football game (hes in grade 9 and im in 8) and yeah well ive known him for a few years i guess but this was the first time that we ever talked.
Ok. But yeah so he talks to my friend that moved, lets call her ashley, and he said that ashley called me a "lesbianish freak, slut, who has fake boobs"
ok and my (ex) best friend has no boobs so maybe shes jealous but who knows. and i DO NOT have fake boobs, lol i can prove it. So i called ashley and she goes ok who are you gonna believe some fag boy that youve known for one day or me. But the thing is she always spreads rumors abuot people so this really doesnt suprise me. But that guy doesnt even know me and hes nice and he wouldnt make that up.
Who should i believe. Please help.
I rate 5 for everyone.
Personally, I wouldn't even stress the issue. You know you are not those things. So who cares who said it? Its all he said she said, and you will probably never get down to the bottom of it, so just forget about it. It really doesn't matter.
me and friends are being moulon Rouge for halloween. we got skirts that are really short and a tangtop and it all goes rlly well but do u think its tooo slutty.
No its sounds like it will be fun. Who cares what other people think! Go and have some fun. Its Halloween! Its not like everyday you guys dress like that, you are just having fun.
Ok theres this guy lets call him,um, "todd"... well "todd" is in my science class..today he was like ur really quiet n i was like not all tha time he was like yeah i know i saw you at lunch today laughin n talkin n smiling n stuff..n we kept talkin..n then he was like "ur so sexy,perfect for me" i kno its a song...but he sings it everytime we talk...is he tryna tell me something? does he like me?
Sry its long ill rate good if you answer
Maybe he does like you. The only way you will know is if you ask him. If you don't have the guts to ask him yourself, you can have a friend ask him.
how do i tell a boy i dont want him for his looks i want him for his niceness and everything else??
By saying just that. Be honest and just tell him "maybe other girls like you becasue you are cute, but I don't. You are very sweet to me, and even if you were ugly, I would still like you because you make me feel speacial." that should let him know how you truelly feel and that you are serious.
so how come everybodys into scrunching their hair now(not that i havent tried it)??? anyways...is there any other way i can get my "scrunch" to hold without adding hairspray? it makes my hair stick out....i add gel to make the curls and then i add the spray to hold it...can i do this without adding spray? will it still hold?
no, you have to use spary, but if you use moose instead of gel to scrunch it it may come out better.
So all of my life I have been living with my parents, the people I consider to be my parents and I love to death, but not the people who conceived me. I was put up for adoption at birth; but then luckily never had to live in foster care, cos I was adopted just over two weeks after. But I just have so many questions for them. Why would be the most prominant coming to my mind. I do not regret for one second the life that I ended up with, I would just really appreciate some answers. I don't even know much about them at all. I don't know what I should do. I mean, should I try to find my parents? What if they don't want to be found? Why would my "parents" I live with wait until I turned 17 to tell me all this. I'm so mad, they should have told me long ago. I don't know what I should do. Does anyone have any ideas?
if its really important to you that you know your birth parents, then you should. Maybe you will feel better once your unanswered questions have been answered. Just make sure you let your parents know you are not doing it to replace them.
Okay so this kid I know asked me to "leave" with him. He told me I was the only girl he trusts, (hes a great friend, i help him in life a lot) and he wasn't pressuring me into leaving with him but he has a car and he doesn't like his home life and wanted me to go with him. I don't know WHAT to do. It's so unrealistic to leave with him, and I would be so mad if he left on his own (he said he wouldn't with a friend or by himself.. only with me) and I like him. Like... a crush you can say lol. I dont know WHAT to do. :-(
dont run away with him. thats dangerous. your parents may involve the cops and you guys cold get in alot of trouble. especially if he is 18 or over, he can get in trouble for kidnapping.
I have an online photo album. One of the categories of one of the albums is football games. Each album you can allow any song to play while people look at the pictures in that album. What would be a good song to play in a football games photo album?
that song with nelly, pdiddy and murphy lee
ok last monday i fell off my bike cuz the chain broke. i hurt my elbow badly. its been getting better, so today i was watching a movie in my room. i was leaninng on my elbow pretty hard, when all of a sudden i felt this gigantic pain and felt like my elbow was about to crack. what do you think happened? im soo confused rite now and my elbow is aching. please help me and i'll rate you in return :)
Put ice on it all day today. If it still hurts you tomorrow go to the emergency room and get it looked at. You might have sprained or bruised it.
When I started high school, my mom gave me the whole "You'll be starting college soon, so grades and extracurricular activities are important" speach, and she said that any extracurricular activity I wanted to sign up for was fine. She had no problem with me joining the school newspaper, art club, or drama club, but when I asked if I could join cheerleading, she said no because "cheerleading is for bimboes". I don't get why she would say that, it's a sport and it's an extracurricular activity, what's wrong with that? I think she's being unreasonable, but she won't even listen to me. What should I say to her that will make her change her mind?
Cheerleading is not for bimbos. Although many cheerleaders are bimbos lol! It is a good extracurricular activity to join, you can get schlorships from it and it can be alot of fun. Just tell your mom that and let her know that cheerleading is not for bimbos becasue you want to cheer and you are not one.
Ok this guy and me always like hold hands and kiss and stuff so I think were going out cause everytime someones like o ur g/f is so hott he doesnt say' o shes not my g/f" he just says I know she is and " o theres your g/f" he doesnt say anything should I ask him?
Yeah just ask him, "where do we stand"?
me and my boyfriend have been togeather for like 4months almost. and we have sex like EVERYDAY and i love it and all but i mean he thinks thats all i want..and sometimes i think it is to but i do love him a whole lot...but the thing is hes gota KID yes a KID. and my bf is only 17(IM 16) the girl it was wtih lives in a diff. town adn shes a hoe. but neways...im just scared..i dont wanan get pregante and the fact that he can get girls pregnate scares me...and u know hwat if the condom breaks or somthing cuz im not on BIRTH contorl yet..i will soon hopefully..but ya...i dunno..im just scared..what should i do!?!?! i love him tho!.
Okay 1st of all you shouldbn't be scared because HE can get girls pregnant, because umm... ALL GUYS CAN. If you are that worried, than stop having sex until you do get on birth control and then still use a condom. And maybe, make him pull out. Or just be extra careful with the condom.
What are the requirements for being a Level 1 Moderator. I can't find them. I was one, once. But then my computer didn't work for a like 2 weeks so I wasn't one anymore. So..can you give me a link to the page? Thanks ;)
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http://advicenators.com/mod.php?mode=faq
ok...my best friend Bethany gets really annoying sometimes and she always makes up lies to make her life sound cool and exciting. She told everyone that shes smoked weed...and she hasnt. and she told everyone that she's not a virgin, and she is. and she just get's really annoying and i get mad at her easily cuz it bothers me and i jus say whatever comes to my mind and most of the time, its not very nice. and i wanna be friendz cuz shez awesum and i love her, shes muh bestest friend ever, but if i keep sayin wut comes to mind, i*ll lose her. PLEASE HELP ME!!!
Just keep your comments to yourself. yeahs its hard but just do it. Your friend is probbaly going through this immature stage where she thinks she needs to impress people and stuff. Just let her be, she will grow out of it and realize how stupid she sounds on her own.
Ive been going out with my boyfriend for a week now, and I really like him a lot. I've heard stories about him getting stuff from girls then not talking to them but he wasnt going out with them though. All I've done is kiss him so far only because I'm so afraid all he wants from me is sex or something like that and I dont want to bring it up in case he isnt using me. But I was just wonderin if there was anything I could do besides being a prude to see if he really likes me or not. Thanks!
Just don't give it up. If you you give it up now, after only a week, there could be a chnace he may leave you. See how long the relationship will last withouy you guys having sex thats how you will know what he is really about.
I am doing a play for my school called "guys and Dolls" I really want to try out for the role of Sara (if you know which character is) and she is a lead role. People say I act very good and there a lot of people trying out for the school musical. I am just not that used to not getting a role in a play at all. It happened once and I am making a vow never to not get a role again. And I know thats the way life goes but you know I have a dream and I don't want it to start breaking, especially now, I'm young. Plus my ex-friend is doing the play too and what if I get a role where I have to read dialogue with her? Ya know? Me and my Luck! lol
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Since you are young, you have to remember that if you don't get the part you still have your whole life to get good parts. You shouldn't make a vow to yourself, that you will never not get a lead role again, because you are stting your hope to high and if you don't get the part you will be really disappointed. If there is someone there that they think is better for the part then you have to just accept that. Juts make sure you give it your all, and put all of your heart and talent into it, that way whether or not you get the part, you will still know you did your best and feel good about yourself.
ok when my boyfriend tried to kiss me last night i didnt wanna kiss him cz my bestfriend (his cousin) was sittin right there and it was our first kiss and he didnt care but i wanted to be alone (i didnt wanna do it in front of ..lets call him "T" because i cheated on my boyfriend with "T") and so now my friend is like how come you'll do things with "T" but not your boyfried?!..anyways he was like "oh ill remeber that...were not gunna kiss ever.." ect.. well at the end of the night i was goin up stair hopin he would follow me so we could be alone and kiss but im not sure if he was foreal about that "were not gunna kiss ever" cz he didnt follow and now im really sad and now i dont think he wants me to go to his football game this friday..an i miss him ..hes the only guy i really loved..
umm if you really loved him, you wouldn't have cheated on him with "T". whats happening to you now, is what I like to call "bad carma". because you did something wrong to your boyfriend and you are keping it from him, your carma is coming back on you and you are paying for it anyway. So let this be a lesson to you. Cheating is bad.
My sister was like to me "what are you drinking" and im like "apple juice" and she starts yelling me calling me a heffer and crap! like im not even on my diet anymore...and im not even fat but she says if i eat stuff and drink all this sugary stuff im gonna be huge later on and im like..uhh its just juice. i was thirsty so i drake some. and she was like thers crystal light..and i didnt feel like crystal light so i drank apple juice..we always fight about this and i know she cares about me and she doesnt wanna see me get huge...but she always makes me cry and she makes me feel fatter times 200. idk what to do..i hate myself now i just wanna lose weight so im anarexic like her and then shes happy and she can get off my back. ugh! what do i say to her to get her off my back!!!
You shouldn't want to be anorexic! Thats not healthy. Who cares if you drank some apple juice. Apple juice is good for you. if she wants to be a freakin string bean then thats on her, but she doesn't have to drag you down with her, you are your own person. be happy about how you are. You should love yourself no matter what you look like.
how do u make that hair style with your hairthat makes it curly ands scrunched? if anyone knows what i mean can u tell me how to do it>?
much love!
Okay when you get out the shower, put moose or gel in your hair while it is still wet, but not like drenched wet, like damp wet. then scrunch your hair with your hands to give it that curly look. once youi have it the way you want it, spary it with hair spray so it will hold.
Well theres this gurl. I like her a lot and she likes me a lot. Shes told me that she always like finds herself thinking about me and stuff. And i feel the same way. Weve gone out about 6 times. But weve never had a relationship that lasted. We never can. Does ne one have any suggestions on how to make a relationship last?
Trust and honesty are very important. if you can't be totally honest with someone or you can't trust them, than you are not ready to be in a relationship. It is also good, if you don't take things to seriously at 1st. Like at the beginning of the relationship don't be talking about marriage or babies. And still be really good friends.